Hi, I’m Nadine Piat from Healthy You Healthy Love and today I’m going to talk about the
four things that a man does if he wants a relationship with you.
It doesn’t matter if you’re newly dating or you’ve been dating for a while, you’re
probably watching this video because you’re wondering what men think and if the man you’ve
been giving your precious time and energy to wants a relationship with you!
You might wonder: Do I invest more in this man or do I lean back and see what he does?
Do I let him know my feelings or let him take the lead?
Does he really like me or is he waiting for someone else to come along?
When a man’s wholeheartedly invested in you there are certain things that he’ll
do that are clear signs that he’s into you in a big way, which answers those nagging
questions that keep running around in your head.
By the end of this video, you won’t be turning in your bed overthinking his actions, or lack
thereof.
It’s going to be clear how to tell if a guy likes you, really likes you, or if he’s
just a seductive charmer with no intention of committing to you.
The first clear sign that his heart is hook, line and sinker caught on you is what I call.
#1 The Invisible Thread - You could both be at a party talking to other people, even in
separate places altogether, but somehow it feels like you’re still connected, tethered
in some way, as though you’re both linked by a thread that’s exclusively visible to
you.
Whether it’s the way he looks at you from across the room, or when he’s out and about
doing other things, traveling for work or busy with his kids, he reaches out regularly
enough so that you still feel connected.
Also, a man who’s really into you and values connection and intimacy won’t just be physically
present on a date, he’ll be 100% with you.
He won’t be nodding in conversation while his eyes are roving around like a lifeguard
at the beach!#2 He wants to know WHO you are!
He will make an effort to ask meaningful questions because he wants to know you better.
It’s a sign he appreciates your true qualities, inside and out.
A man who isn’t emotionally invested in you wouldn’t even bother to ask perhaps
about your opinions, or what your dreams are, or even what you did yesterday.
He might just want to get naked with you…
But a man who’s authentically interested in you will want to talk to you, experience
things together, share his and your highs and lows.
Forget the guy who disappears at a vital point in his life or yours to be alone or to avoid
helping you.
It’s like saying you are important, but only up to this point, only when it’s fun
or when it suits them.
A man who’s interested in a relationship won’t run when life get’s more complicated,
because he will know curve balls are part of life and relationships, and he wants to
ride the curves balls with you.
#3 He wants to see you again… and again.
If he’s really into you nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you
again.
Men generally aren’t complex creatures; their actions aren’t too subtle to interpret,
yes they can be cagey and cautious, though as that fog clears up, bottom line is, he
just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible.
And he will find ways to make it happen, even drop by your work because he just happened
to be in the area.To help you with this I have a fabulous free gift called 5 Easy ways
to get a man to commit – I explain the 5 qualities men look for in a woman they commit
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Now for number 4 #4 He will be your comrade!
- Not only is he attracted to you, he wants to be your best friend and ally!
He will go to war for you, he will NOT want to be at war with you!
I’ve been in relationships with men who had NO interest in being my comrade.
They were so ego-driven or so detached from the relationship that it almost never ran
smoothly, there was always a bump in the road!
My first relationship wasn’t like this, it was easy and kind, though after struggling
with some men in future relationships I learnt pretty quickly that the men that really want
you are invested in UNITY – they will be there for you!
So, while you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground
with you so you both feel comfortable and resolved.
He won’t give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you
and the relationship more so than his ego.
It’s all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership!
So there you have it the 4 things a man does if he wants a relationship with you!
If you’ve got a man in your life who’s not doing these things then I’m very sorry
to say, he’s either just not that invested or he’s simply incapable of true intimacy.
And really, it doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed… whether he’s insecure,
has emotional issues, or just waiting for someone “better.”
Not that that there is someone better than you, though he thinks that’s there’s someone
else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way, then that’s 100% okay,
let him go!
I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend
time with you, who communicates with you regularly, this is what an emotionally-connected, loving
relationship looks like… and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship
with beautiful gorgeous you!
Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle, it should
largely flow and if it’s not flowing don’t try to force it.
Focus on what you do want and if he’s not working with you then know there really are
many many more men to meet who will be what you’re looking for!
There is no such things as ONE man on the planet for you!
There are plenty!
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– because I’d love to hear about your experience with dating men and finding commitment!
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