- If you feel like the lone wolf in your family,
just know you're not alone.
You're not alone in the feeling of being a lone wolf.
You know how I know that?
Because the number of people that have clicked
on this video have clicked on it because they also feel
like they are the lone wolves in their family
and their group of friends.
And it's a very common stage of progression.
It's a very common stage of personal development.
And in this video, I'm gonna share with you
what I believe will completely transform your life,
and how you accept yourself,
how you understand this process,
and how you could stop feeling alone.
Or stop feeling like the lone wolf,
and start feeling abundant and in a completely new,
bold version of you.
Now, the first thing I wanted to do with this is
to share that for a long time in my own life,
I felt like the lone wolf.
When I went through my awakening back in 2012,
I felt like my friends, my family didn't understand me.
I was being this new version of myself
that liked meditation.
I was into some esoteric teachings I was learning.
I was doing mantras.
I was like laying out in the sun every day,
doing like sun gazing, doing some pretty out there things,
especially back in 2012.
And my friends and family literally just thought I went nuts
and I then went through a stage of years
of just being a lone wolf.
Of just feeling like people don't get me.
People don't understand me.
And there were times I questioned just what is my role here?
What am I doing here?
What am I like meant to be doing?
And why is it that I feel so alone?
And I think many times what happens is
when we go through a spiritual awakening,
we chose to wake up in friend groups and in families
with other people that maybe aren't going
through a spiritual awakening.
And that's with intention because it's kind
of like it's popcorn on the planet,
and everyone's popping at different moments.
But as I've gone through my own spiritual awakening,
I've noticed it has not just influenced,
but it has almost encouraged other people
to go through their own process of evolution.
But for a period of time, I felt very alone,
and I felt like people didn't understand me.
I was watching a documentary two nights ago on XXXTentacion.
Is that his name? I'm not real familiar.
I remember making YouTube videos years ago,
and people are like you gotta make videos
about XXXTentacion, or whatever his name is.
And I watched a documentary on this guy,
and it was fascinating because this guy,
he died years ago when he like,
before he was 21 years old, just like Juice World.
It's very interesting how these pendulums work,
how these people shoot up in fame and energy.
But then there's like this energy
that kind of like comes crashing down.
It's very interesting.
But with XXXTentacion, what I found interesting
is his music was all around feeling alone.
And he would talk about how alone he felt.
He would talk about his anger and his depression.
And he would talk about these emotions
that he really didn't understand very much,
but he would express it out into the world,
and just how he felt.
And what's fascinating is it started a global movement
of people around his age, and just in general,
that also felt alone.
That also felt singled out.
That also felt like maybe they were dealt a bad hand,
or felt like this in a similar way.
And the interesting thing about it is
in the multiple, multiple millions of people
that followed him, and so many of them also claimed
that they didn't commit suicide because of his music.
He'd get that all the time.
People responding to him and saying things like that.
And what I find fascinating is in the recognition
of feeling like a lone wolf and feeling alone,
there's the realization that so many people feel alone.
So you're not alone.
You're not alone in the feeling of feeling alone.
You're not alone in the feeling of feeling lonely.
There are so many other people
in the world that feel the same way.
So the first thing I want you to know about this
is that there's nothing wrong with you.
You might feel alone and so do so many other people.
So because of that, just know you're not alone.
It's an interesting perspective
but it kind of makes us realize more
that like we believe so much that we are alone,
that we create more and more realizations
in our reality of us being alone.
But we can realize
that so many other people feel the same way.
Everybody watch, I mean, many people watching this video.
If you look below, comment,
and just notice how many other people may feel the same way.
And it helps us to recognize that we're not, first off.
It's more so this belief.
And really alone I think as well is feeling separated.
It's when we feel separated from everyone else
because people don't understand us.
And when I went through my spiritual awakening in 2012,
I literally felt like people just don't get me.
I felt separation.
I felt like there weren't people in my life
that I could really connect to at a soul level.
And like with depth.
It felt like everything was surface level.
Even after I went through my awakening,
I got that nine to five job working at Barneys in New York.
And I would greet customers, "Hey, how are you?"
But it was like, so surface level.
It didn't feel to me like it was
that authentic, or that deep.
And I did though, however, go through a shift,
and I wanna explain that shift to you
because now I'm surrounded by people
that are very similar to me.
And I have friends with very deep like connections,
and I feel very nourished and connected,
and I don't feel alone anymore.
And I want to share with you what those changes are.
Now, also, I wanted to share with you this quote
that I read from Carl Yung, who's a psychologist.
He talks a lot about shadow work.
He said, "Loneliness does not come
from having no people around, but from being unable
to communicate the things that seem important to oneself,
or from holding certain views
which others find inadmissible."
So think about that.
Basically what that quote is saying
is there's almost this level of shame
that we have around us being the real us.
Around us expressing who we really are,
that keeps us feeling alone.
And for so long, I felt like a weirdo.
With studying these spiritual metaphysical ideas,
I felt like I couldn't really share them out in the world.
And I felt like people didn't get me,
but what if, because I was playing small,
and because I was afraid of sharing these perspectives,
that was keeping me alone.
That was keeping people from finding me
who would actually resonate with me.
So in a way, the more we have the courage
to express the real us, the more we will find
and meet other people that resonate
with us at that deep level.
So in a way, us feeling alone and us stopping ourselves
from giving ourself permission to be the real us,
is keeping us alone.
So the antidote to this is for us
to give ourselves more permission to have the courage
to be the real us, to be who we came here to be.
Because I will say, once I started making daily videos
on YouTube in February, 2017, my life radically transformed.
Within six months, I quit that nine to five job,
but also putting myself out there connected me
to other people doing what I was doing.
I connected to my best friend, Victor,
who also makes YouTube videos.
And he was somebody that also felt like the lone wolf.
And him and I meeting back in 2017 was like so synchronous
because we both felt the same way.
We were both very grateful to have our ourselves
as like friends that could connect with each other.
And it was like this very positive relationship
where eventually him and his whole family moved
to Vegas where I was living.
And we became best friends, and it still is amazing.
Now we all live in Austin.
Took my crew with me from there, then we all went to Sedona.
And then after that, they all came to Austin.
So it's really cool.
But the reason I share this,
is once I started being the real me
and had the courage to really express myself,
it then did one of two things.
On one hand, it repelled people
that wouldn't like me anyways.
Because then it's a kind of polarizing
for me to be expressing these ideas.
There were friends in high school and other people
that I remember unfollowed me on Instagram,
thought I was weird, didn't like my perspectives.
And there was a part of me that was like,
oh, like I feel even more alone.
But the thing was is I wasn't even connected
to the people that did unfollow me anyways.
So, and if anything, I made more like mental space
and bandwidth for me to connect to these people,
and to like make room for new people to come in.
However, I will say having the courage
and giving yourself permission to more
so express the real you will sing the song
that you're meant to put out in the world,
and attract people that have a similar tune.
That's how, like some birds mate.
They sing a song, and then like other birds
that sing in harmony with them, meet them.
In the same way, feeling alone,
it's almost like we're not singing our song.
We're just feeling alone.
We're feeling like we're in our room.
We're feeling like people don't get us.
And that feeling itself is what's causing us
to feel more lonely.
It's almost like beliefs create our reality.
Whatever we believe to be true
is being reflected back to us.
And it's like, because we believe we're stuck,
or because we believe we're alone,
we then literally block ourselves from meeting people.
We literally create that reality over and over again
until we become aware of that belief.
And for me, that belief served me for a period of time
because it helped me feel like it explained things.
Oh, I'm just the lone wolf.
People just don't get me, but it kept me in that box.
I remember when I was going through that like awakening,
one thing I justified is like people don't get me.
Look at all these people that are asleep,
that don't know they're internal spiritual beings
of contemporary human experiences
that are lost in the matrix,
that are watching the media and doing all these things.
Like they don't know who they really are.
And I would feel that way.
But guess what?
That belief and that focus on separation
would have it very hard for me to connect with people.
Well, I felt very alone,
and I felt like it was hard to connect.
I'd meet people and I'd be like, in my mind immediately,
I'd be like, well, they're not like me.
And I'd come up with all these things
that would become energetic blocks
to me actually connecting with people.
One thing I realized though, is as I dropped those barriers,
as I dropped those blocks of judgment,
I then could connect with people at a deeper level.
Even if it wasn't the most deep spiritual connection,
it was like, I'd feel less alone.
And sometimes we believe so much in our feeling
of loneliness and of being the lone wolf.
And we create an identity around that
because it explains things.
I am the lone wolf.
I don't need anybody else.
However, at the same time, I believe we came here
to have connection with other people.
We came here to feel connected.
We came here to meet other amazing high value people
that are similar to your tune, to your energy,
to your magnetic frequency.
And there's people that would resonate with you, and do,
but all you gotta do is let go of that identity.
Let go of the belief that you are the lone wolf,
and understand that at the same time,
the more you speak and become the real you.
Doesn't mean you have to make YouTube videos.
Some of you who watches me,
like Aaron, you make YouTube videos.
So maybe that puts you in the public eye
to meet other people.
But I will tell you that you being
in the frequency of the real you.
Even if it's a job that you don't think you deserve,
but you really wanna do it,
and you start being in that frequency.
You will meet other people
that resonate with that frequency.
It's an energy I'm talking about here.
Not like a tactic of being online.
When you are in the ideal frequency,
and you are following your passion,
you are much more likely to meet people
that will actually resonate with you.
One other thing I wanted to mention
as well on this thread is-
I mean this is maybe more of a metaphysical belief.
But I believe that we're all eternal spiritual beings
having contemporary human experiences,
and that we all have the spiritual guides
that are with us at all times.
We have like different aspects of consciousness
that we might not be aware of
that are here right now with us.
So in a way, even though physically,
we can only see, we see, oh no one's around.
But really there are energies.
And if you tap within, I think there's a feeling
where we don't feel connected to an aspect
of ourself that we're neglecting
that's then causing us to feel alone.
But the more we can then accept ourselves,
and accept even feeling lonely, or even alone,
and realize the difference between lonely
and alone is very different.
Lonely is a negative belief on alone.
It's a negative meaning.
Alone doesn't have to feel lonely.
I could be alone right now in my house and feel very happy,
but you don't necessarily think of feeling lonely
at your house and feeling happy.
So it's almost like lonely is an agree of a certain meaning.
And because of that,
things in life we can change the meaning to.
You might even have a cat or a dog around you right now.
How many of you have a cat or a dog around you?
Comment below 'cause then you realize, I'm really not alone.
We just think we're alone. We believe it.
And therefore we create that experience over and over again.
Now one of the things
that will help us more than anything else
is really building our sense of confidence
and courage to express ourselves out in the world.
And one of the most powerful ways you can shift
into this more confident you,
could be to go through a 21 day process
of meeting with people all over the world,
being a part of Zoom coaching calls,
going through process of transformation, to release doubt,
to release insecurity, to release and remove the fear
that you might have around this lone wolf,
around this feeling of separation
to really start to trust yourself again.
Because confidence means trust.
The word "confidere" means the Latin word trust,
and we're learning to trust ourselves.
We're learning to trust the universe.
And if you wanna be a part
of this 21 day confidence challenge,
it's one of the most powerful things that I do
is these live transformational experiences.
You could check it out
by going to www.confidencelovechallenge.com,
or click the link on the top of the description box below.
And read some of the testimonials from past challenges
just to see how powerful they can be,
and how transformative they can be.
And this is different
than just watching YouTube videos passively.
This is about things you actually do in a community
with people just like you.
That will show you, hey, I'm not alone.
And what happens is through doing these different things.
You realize, not only am I not alone,
but you transform yourself
because you're doing things that transform.
Not just thinking about things or watching videos passively.
So if you want to become a more magnetic you,
a more confident you in 21 days
or less starting on July 1st to the 21st,
go to confidencelovechallenge.com, or click the link below.
And then also if you feel like the lone wolf in your family
and you want to transform that from the inside out
from a completely new perspective,
check this video out right here.
You are meant to be here.
You can take it as a good sign that you probably are,
and consider yourself the lone wolf in your family.
And I'm gonna show you in this video
how you can finally meet your soul tribe,
how you can release the beliefs and the energy
that is literally blocking them from coming into your life.