- I ended up finding out the guy was a pimp.
- He was going to make you sock it to his pocket
like a rocket.
You dated a pimp.
- No I didn't, I went on a date with a pimp.
Dating a pimp is totally different.
- Sounds about the same to me.
- Hi, I'm Jessica.
- I'm Geremy.
- What's up, everybody? My name is Ini.
- I'm Nkiruka.
- Hi everybody, my name is Antavius.
- Hi, I'm Michael.
And we are here to play My First Time.
- We've been together for 11 years.
- Geremy and I actually met in high school
in the ninth grade.
- We've been in a relationship for four and a half years.
- Ini and I have been together for eight months.
- [Ini] We actually met on Instagram.
She had a post on her story where she was like catching
marshmallows in her mouth, and like, she caught all of them
and that's when I first really DM-ed her.
- Well, he definitely stalked me.
I was doing a performance because we're both dancers,
and he found me after my performance.
And he was like, oh yeah, I love you so much.
You're so amazing.
We should like hang out.
And I was like, okay, so yeah.
- And he's lying because I was not stalking him.
- I feel like we're going to win today
because we probably have known each other the longest
out of all the other couples.
- Low key I am nervous because your boy
is like a little lightweight, so I'm just like, oh,
I gotta be as truthful as I can
'cause he knows how I get until he took it.
- We tell each other pretty much everything.
There's not going to be too many surprises.
- Ready?
- I'm ready.
- Let's start the game.
- [Jessica] My first time getting drunk.
I was probably not of age.
- I was definitely in college leaving a campus party.
We started drinking Ever Clear.
- I broke into my mom's like wine collection,
and me and my cousins were at the house.
That was my first time getting drunk.
It was at home off of wine.
- I've never gotten drunk before actually.
- Yeah, me neither actually.
- We're really boring.
- We're regular-degular, nothing crazy.
- We were by the pool and we started drinking E & J
with a little Coke on the side.
- I think mine's was my boy's.
'Cause he brought it to school in a water bottle.
- Oh, you did it at school?
- [Geremy] Yeah.
I probably saw you, walk right past you.
- Drunk.
(laughing)
- First time having a one night stand.
- Wow, yes let's go.
- I've never had an one night stand.
The people that I do get intimate with,
I typically like, are in a relationship with them.
- It was definitely with a friend.
It was good, it was cool, he was cool,
to the point that we kept having multiple one night stands.
- Me and my buddy, the same buddy that stole the liquor
from his mama,
so we go to the club, it's me, him, his baby mama.
And she brought a friend.
And they were dropping me off.
This girl said, I'm staying with you, right?
- Oh.
- And that was my first one night stand.
- Well, honestly I was a hot biscuit.
My bedroom was downstairs.
Everybody else's bedroom was upstairs,
so I could easily sneak him in.
But you know, my mom really don't like randoms in the house,
but you know what, I'm like eff the system,
I'm just gonna let him just come on down,
and he thought he was gonna stay the night.
He was like, no, I figured I'd stay.
I thought your mom knew about you.
I was like she does, but she doesn't know about you,
and it's time for you to go.
- I've never had a one night stand.
- I thank you for that.
My first time experimenting with drugs.
- Um, I mean, you know, um...
- Okay so the first time me and my friends,
we thought that you smoked weed by just like getting the
plant and putting it in paper.
- Okay, okay, okay.
- I've actually never taken drugs before, never, so.
- I've never done drugs or experimented with drugs either.
- Freshman in college,
like hanging out with my friend in his car.
That was the first time I ever had, like weed.
- When they see this, they are going to laugh
because we rolled it in notebook paper.
- Okay, come on.
- We probably thought we were high,
but that definitely was not the case.
- Freshman year of high school, and mind you,
I just wanted to go to the mall
with my little two home girls,
and we were going to be cute, walk around.
So then they were like, we're meeting these people.
So it was like a collective group of kids there,
they were like, hey, we're about to smoke.
I'm like, I'm good, you know, I just came for the fun.
They're like, you ain't going to do it.
Like what? And I was like, you know what?
I'm not no punk like, let me take a little puff,
baby, I was high boots.
- My first time, I did some silly stuff like that.
- With the notebook paper? - With the notebook paper
and some grass.
- So you just got on me
about getting a real marijuana plant,
but you picked up lawn?
- Oh you actually had real weed?
- Yeah, we pulled it from his plant.
- Oh no, I had grass.
- Oh wow.
- I smoked grass.
I might've been like 11, but then,
when I was maybe about 12, I smoked real grass.
- Okay, some stress?
- Oh, some street bow.
It was the dirtiest of the dirty.
But that's what you started on, you start smoking that sess.
That's what you do.
- [Nkiruka] First time getting naughty in public.
- I'ma change the naughty to nasty.
My first time getting nasty in public.
- I think I was a senior and I was like, you know what,
I'm feeling a little risky.
Pull over over here.
We started doing it and someone flashed lights behind us,
but they saw bounce, bounce, bounce, bounce.
- My first girlfriend, we got together when we were like 15.
We would go to the mall and meet up some times.
And we would sit on this, on this bench.
She would like sit on top of me, and like,
we just like touching, kissing, stuff like that, you know.
- I was in the movie theater, and you know,
me and this lady touched each other.
- Okay, so that was your first time?
- I was at a club with my friends.
I ended up having fun with someone like 10 feet
outside of the club.
- I was like 19 in like my community college parking lot
in the car.
- I kissed a guy in the club.
- That ain't naughty.
- Okay, you want me to go naughtier?
- Nasty.
- Oh, no!
- [Michael] My first time telling a serious lie to you.
(laughing)
- That's cool.
- A serious lie? - Yes.
- Have I?
- We promise never to lie to each other.
Like even for like little stuff.
- I try to tell you I can drive, but I really cannot drive.
And that is my serious lie.
I know deep down, when I be hitting like potholes
and going over speed bumps, I be like, oh yeah,
I didn't see that, I saw it.
A couple of times, I'm not gonna lie.
- You need to go deeper or take a shot like,
that was so surface level.
I already knew he can't drive, like boom.
Take a shot, thanks.
- I'm gonna drink too then.
- I'm gonna take a shot.
- I honestly cannot think of one.
The only time I would like lie was if I say like,
yeah, I'm fine, everything's fine, but then it's not.
And we have a talk later.
- [Nkiruka] First time falling in love.
- I thought I was in love,
but I didn't know what love was until I met her.
For real.
You know, I love my previous partners,
but I really feel like it's now.
- That was with Geremy.
- When did you know you was in love?
- When you can't imagine life without that person, you know?
- It's just a feeling? - It's just a feeling.
- You feel it for the boy?
- Yes.
- So I feel like this is like,
definitely applicable to my relationship now.
Like this is the first time I ever really like been in love
with somebody.
- I was in love with my first boyfriend
even though I was in love at that time,
sometimes things end and that's okay.
- I think I fell in love in junior high school.
- You felt like in junior high school you fell in love?
This sounds like infatuation, but okay.
- You made a good point, that was infatuation.
I was infatuated with this lady.
Okay, so I would say I might've been about 16.
(laughing)
- I thought I was in love with somebody,
and I was actually like a nice little hot meat for them
at the time, but I didn't know that.
Him and his boyfriend broke up
'cause he moved out and then he was like,
yeah, you know, I'm down.
I went over there, we fooled around.
And the next day I was like, hey, how are you?
And he was like, yeah, my boyfriend moved back in.
I was like what the eff, like are you serious?
Did you feel like you won?
- No, I mean, I feel like I drank too much, but um, I do.
(laughing)
It became less about the game and more about drinking.
- We have lots of conversations,
but I think having it done in that way was, was exciting.
And it was fun.
- I've never taken a shot before.
This is my very first time.
Look how big, can I take some out?
- No, no, no.
- Water it down? - Let's go.
- Bro, what? Y'all drink that?
- Yeah. - Y'all be doing that?
- That's just our relationship.
Every relationship is different, so like,
y'all have your own victories, but we took this one.
We took this one.
Sorry.
- Sorry.
(soft music)