more news and four types of sexual dysfunction i'm dr trish lee let's talk about it in this video
okay so we are going to talk about four main types of sexual dysfunction and how they
are created or caused by porn use number one we're going to talk about delayed ejaculation
number two erectile dysfunction number three changes in sexual desire and number four
sexual satisfaction okay so let's dig in number one delayed ejaculation what's going on there
so this is from a recent study and you can find it on my website at dr trish lee.com
the reference to it if you're interested and what is found in this study that looked at these types
of sexual dysfunction is that when it comes to delayed ejaculation what is primarily at play is
masturbation so delayed ejaculation obviously is when you are becoming sexually aroused and then
moving towards culmination it taking longer to get there so what happens is when masturbation
is in play what is found is that that high level of physical stimulation that is is created by
self-arousal and that's important we're going to come back there in a minute when
you include masturbation it is giving your brain not only these high levels of mental stimulation
it's also including this high level of physical stimulation so the second factor that was found
for delayed ejaculation was fantasy so clearly if you're consuming pornography and most people
couple it with masturbation you are giving your brain this high dose of mental and physical
stimulation and what that does is it fries out the reward center in your brain and it
actually changes the neural pathways which lead to problems with sexual desire and satisfaction
that we'll get to in a minute but it changes the way that your brain uses neurological pathways
and it creates dysfunction unable inability to function properly and delayed ejaculation means
you can go for a long time unfortunately you do go for a long time because you can't get aroused in a
timely fashion like we've talked about before in the video of the difference between porn
sex and healthy sex so we know masturbation is a problem there so clearly the brain tip
is decrease the amount of masturbation if you can't get rid of the porn habit
try to decrease the masturbation habit for most people it's best to leave porn
behind completely because of the damages to your brain and to decrease masturbation while you are
getting rid of that habit over time because it can be tricky to leave both of them behind okay moving
on to number two erectile dysfunction so the definition of erectile dysfunction in this study
is the inability to get an erection to be able to have sex with a honey so be able to actually
connect with the honey in a physical sexual relationship so we know from the studies
that erectile dysfunction is happening to people younger and younger and it has such higher level
of prevalence so what it means is younger people are suffering from worse erectile dysfunction so
what's at play what's interesting is that in this study they actually did a a survey but then they
also did a study where there were men and they showed them pornographic films actually erotic
films moving up to lower levels and then higher levels of pornography and the people this is
the factor the important one the people who had watched more different pornographic films in the
year before were the ones with the worst erectile dysfunction let me say it again the more and the
variety the bigger variety of porn that you've watched in the last year that impacts the way that
the brain becomes aroused and then that plays out in erectile dysfunction not being able to get an
erection when there's lower levels of stimulation which is quote unquote vanilla sex is what the the
study says and i've been dying to make a video on vanilla sex so i probably probably will after this
one because vanilla sex is perceived as boring by hypersexual people but vanilla is the number
one selling ice cream not because people have to eat vanilla ice cream but because people want to
because it's enjoyable now i know what you're thinking you're just saying that because you're
a woman or because you're middle-aged or what else whatever else you're coming up with but that is
not the truth the reality is if you get a high quality vanilla ice cream like the briers with
the vanilla beans in it now that is delicious if you get that blue bunny type that has yellow dye
in it to make it look vanilla not so delicious so if we're talking about high quality vanilla
sex that's what i'm talking about that's the spice of life because it includes those little vanilla
beans that make it delicious and the vanilla beans can be in your relationship with a partner
with an actual person that you are aroused and you can't wait to be with you include sexual positions
sexual acts you include things that both of you like and you spice it up and you get those vanilla
beans going you get dopamine you get serotonin you get a neurochemical cocktail that makes your
brain feel great but doesn't damage it like the intensity of pornography and masturbation coupled
moving on we won't stay there too long but what was found with erectile dysfunction
is that the more you consume pornography and the more number and variety of films that you watched
the worse erectile dysfunction would be and this is totally in line with what i've talked about
in terms of edging where edging is finding a scene and letting your brain bathe in that
dopamine and then moving on to something that's more intense so that's moving on
consuming many many different films in one session or across sessions very damaging to the brain and
unfortunately then damaging and dysfunctional not functioning when it comes to erections
moving on to number three sexual desire so we know that pornography consumption changes
sexual desire because your brain is being coupled to what you are watching all the time you're
firing up those neural pathways for what you consume and that what is different for all people
i talk to thousands of men actually and one of the first things everybody says when i talk with
them they'll say i totally you know keep having to watch more and more of this because i've been
watching it for so long and i don't even like it i'm freaking myself out that's what so many people
say to me but your brain has been neurologically conditioned to go back to that type of pornography
and to those types of scenes so what happens is then your sexual desire your arousal template
changes and you don't know the difference between your libido and your hypersexual template that
you've created sexual desire changes it ruins it for you it makes you want to see violent acts that
you've gone back to or acts and genres that you would never choose a long time ago but your brain
got hijacked and you were roped into it so think about that because you think you're no longer
aroused by vanilla sex or lower levels your brain's just been hijacked okay moving on to
lastly sex sexual satisfaction clearly all of these things lead to a decrease in sexual
satisfaction of real sex with real human beings so what's found in this study and i've talked about
this before is that the number one thing that is less satisfying to people is that their real
life partners don't look or act like the actors that are portrayed in pornographic films they
can't act that way because no healthy woman would act that way no healthy woman wants those acts
performed on them and we know that from science because science shows the things that you see
on the screen real women have said i don't want to do those things so your brain's conditioned
for those things and then you're disappointed that your partner doesn't look and act that way
and then the second disappointment in terms of sexual satisfaction is that your partner
doesn't want to reenact the scenes that you've been watching and again we know that that comes
from those scenes are not healthy they are a super normal stimuli the pornography industry knows that
they're hijacking your brain they're doing it on person purpose it is a massively a huge financial
industry that is exploiting your brain pattern for their financial gain and it's destroying
your brain at the same time which is why i'm here so when you back yourself out of your pornography
habit and masturbation habit your brain heals the reward center in your brain heals itself and fires
itself back up again so that the quote unquote vanilla sex the good kind with the beans in it
will be arousing to you again and there won't be delayed ejaculation there won't be erectile
dysfunction and there'll be a lot more desire and satisfaction which is exactly what i want for you
i want you to have a healthy brain that fires up the neural pathways that keeps it healthy okay
if you're looking for help on that journey jump on over to my website drtrishley.com because i'm
here for you i would love to help you i have all different programs different sizes and shapes when
you get to drtrishly.com hit porn brain reboot at the top and it will bring you to all the programs
i'm here for you and until i see you in one of the programs control your brain or it'll control you