- What if many of us have been lied to in the past
about the law of attraction
and it's not necessarily that there are any
really ill intentions when it comes to this,
but there's certain key principles
about how our reality works that I think have been used
and really misguided that has us blocking things
from actually coming into our life
or actually making transformative change
inside of our own lives.
Now, along this journey of manifesting my dream life,
which I believe I'm living right now,
I have learned many things.
And I have learned that some of the things
that I learned about the law of attraction
do not actually work or don't work in the way
that they're at least said that they would work.
And I'm gonna show you exactly
what those three things are
to make your process so much easier
and to also help you go deeper
than just the surface level
of many of the things we learn
with the law of attraction.
So this video will save you time,
will save you energy,
and allow things to come to you easier than ever
because you start embodying these principles
in a very powerful way.
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Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron
and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now, this video,
I wanna share with you
the three most common misguided things
when it comes to the law of attraction.
And when I first saw the law of attraction,
I actually watched the movie "The Secret"
"The Secret" was something that my mom showed me
when I was like 16, 17 years old.
And she dragged me into her room to watch it.
I was chilling with my friends
playing poker in this house that we lived in, in Vegas.
And she's like,
"You got to watch this.
"You got to see this clip or this movie."
And it was Bob Proctor.
And he was talking about how thoughts
correlate with what we experience.
And I first was like in drag to,
it's like, "I don't really wanna watch this.
"This looks weird."
But something about it really stood out to me.
There was something about understanding
the correlation between what we think
and what we experience
that I was really fascinated by.
And that two or three minutes of watching Bob Proctor
turned into me watching the whole entire thing
because I was at fascinated by it.
So the movie "The Secret" had a very powerful effect
on opening up my mind.
However, there are certain things
that I think I learned that actually hurt me.
Not hurt, yeah, in a way they held me back
from actually experiencing the true effect of what I wanted.
And I wanna share with you what those are
and why it works the way that it does.
Now, the thing that I think
is very important to understand
is that thoughts are surface level.
Thoughts are surface level.
So while it could be true that what we think
we tend to see more,
it could be confirmation bias, some of it,
but whatever we think,
you may be thinking of a certain type of car
and then see that car everywhere.
Is it that you attracted that car,
or is it that you are seeing
and your RAS, your reticular activating system in your brain
is seeing more of that car because you're tuned to it.
It could be either one.
However, the thoughts,
I think the better thought, ideology,
I'm not a big fan of it.
Reason being is thought is not the core.
The core is meaning.
The meaning we give things,
the story we tell ourselves
about who we are and what we experience
and what we deserve is what we experience.
So it goes meaning/belief.
It then goes to feeling.
That generates a feeling.
You cannot have a feeling
without having a meaning first.
Having some type of way of relating.
So while it could be that you lost your job
and you think that's a horrible thing
and you feel horrible about it,
the idea is that there's a meaning there
that losing your job is bad.
And that's why you feel that way.
But if you change the meaning,
you change how you feel.
Now it goes beliefs,
feelings,
then thoughts,
then action,
then results,
which fuels the initial belief.
So it's not so much that thoughts create reality.
Beliefs are what tune you
to what you perceive in your reality.
If I would have learned that years ago,
it would've saved me a lot of time.
Because for a long time,
I remember even when I learned about the law of attraction,
I was afraid of thinking negative thoughts.
If I think a negative thought,
I would sit there,
meditate,
observe my thoughts.
And if I felt like I was losing "control" of my thoughts,
I'd feel like I'm gonna manifest something bad.
But I wasn't realizing
that it gets down to meaning and belief.
Belief, what do I believe about myself?
Now, you'll notice that
when you believe something about yourself
and you become empowered,
you then take action.
You think, you feel,
and you act differently.
Because it says from belief,
and even think about it,
Dr. Joe Dispenza talks about
it's how you think, feel, and act.
Think, feel, and act
that makes up your vibration.
Well, you got belief.
And then you got, feel, think, act.
So, yes, that makes up your vibration.
But what is at the core?
The core is not thinking.
It is the belief,
the belief about who you are.
And a lot of what I like teaching on my channel
isn't necessarily about taking on new beliefs.
It's about just letting go.
Letting go of the old beliefs,
letting go of the things that keep you trapped.
I used to believe that I was only worthy
of working a nine to five job
selling women's shoes at Barneys New York.
And I worked there for years.
And I was in this little box.
And this little box felt safe.
This little box felt comfortable.
But guess what?
I was trying to think my way out of the box.
It didn't actually happen
until I went beyond thinking and into being.
I started being a full-time YouTuber.
I started linking up not just my thoughts,
but also my actions,
my feelings,
be believing it was possible for me.
And when you see other people
that are doing something that you want to do
or that you have yet to do,
it empowers you to know you can do it too.
That's the funny thing about,
even this course I recently did,
the 21 day magnetic love challenge,
I ended up going live for 21 days in a row
for over an hour a day
coaching people live on how to become aware
of their patterns when it comes to love
and really their self worthiness
and really self-love was the key of it.
But people started popping.
People started having these crazy transformations
and people would see these people on Zoom coaching,
having these transformations,
and then they would have their own breakthroughs.
What happened is people started believing in this process
because they'd see other people results.
So then they believed that it could happen for them too.
And then kept that process going.
But where was the power really?
The power was in everybody believing
it could work for them.
And it was also the initial belief
that I set with the course.
And then at the end of it,
it was talking about what
and how can we change our beliefs about reality.
And it was this kind of trippy experience
that I took everybody through.
But you guys haven't checked it out, by the way.
You can click the link below
and check out the 21 day magnetic love challenge.
And yeah, it was very powerful.
You could read the testimonials and see what's possible.
But that was something we went through because of belief.
It wasn't about changing thoughts,
thinking better thoughts,
it was about who are we being?
Now, the second thing that you've been told
and that we learn,
and even from the book "Think and Grow Rich"
which is a very powerful book by Napoleon Hill.
But there's a part in there that talks about desire.
You must have a white,
hot burning desire.
And if you have this white hot burning desire,
you will get it.
But what it's misinterpreted as,
and it says this in the book too,
it doesn't say just have a strong desire and get it.
That white hot burning desire
may move you to action.
If it moves you to action,
then you mitigate the excess intention,
the excess importance.
Anytime we really, really want something,
that thing we really want is really important.
And if it's really important,
it's really on a pedestal.
So wanting is actually lacking.
If I vibrationally want something, I say,
"I want that thing over there."
Then I'm saying, "I do not have that thing over there."
But I would not say that I want this candle.
I do not want this candle
if I have it in my hands. It's like, "No, I have it now.
"I don't want it anymore."
So when we're talking about vibrational resonance,
you'll notice that if you have somebody
you're trying to talk to in your life
and you're attracted to them,
and you really, really want things to go well,
you're really, really attached to what they think of you,
maybe you really, really want their validation,
the more you want anything,
the more you resist it.
You notice the people you're most attracted to
or are the most attractive
are the ones that want the least from you.
The ones that are unattached.
Now, unattachment is attractive.
Now, in the same way,
when you move through life
and you're not attached,
it's different.
I used to work a sales commission jobs on women's shoes.
If I was helping someone
I was really attached to
whether they bought or not,
it would create resistance
and a lot of times they wouldn't buy.
If I was let go of outcome
and just more so focused
on also connecting and adding value,
that was a way of not having that on a pedestal
and that resistance leaving.
So you don't get what you want.
You get what you are.
When you are naturally being the ideal version of you,
it will be natural.
When I was making daily videos on YouTube,
people would ask me all the time,
"Aaron, how do you make daily videos?"
And I would just tell them, "It's natural.
"This is part of my identity."
That's another part of this process
that's important to realize.
Thinking better thoughts,
even your beliefs,
it's tied to your identity.
Who the hell are you?
Now, here's a powerful thing.
Your identity is a flexible little noodle.
It's a flexible noodle.
It's not al dente.
Al dente is that hard noodle that crushes.
No.
Isn't it? I don't know.
I'm not a pasta expert.
But the idea is your identity,
you are who you decide you are in this moment.
I decided at one moment, I'm a YouTuber.
I started believing that what I said has value.
I started putting that out there
and then everything began changing.
So it's you being that ideal version of you
and giving yourself permission to be that version of you.
Now, I would say that with the law of attraction,
it's about getting to the core of your beliefs
about what you believe you deserve.
What you will receive in your life
is a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve.
And part of what you believe you deserve
is connected to your worthiness.
So one of the biggest blocks I see,
and this is the third one
has to do with worthiness
and people believing that if they think it,
they'll get it,
not knowing, do you even believe you deserve
what you are getting?
Now, what are your rules that you have
that you deserve something?
Do you have a rule that you need to be perfect?
Do you have a rule
that you need other people's validation
and that you really care what other people think?
A lot of times our beliefs and worthiness
come from childhood experience,
where we have that level of shame,
where we think there's something broken.
There's something wrong with me.
Shame means I'm broken.
My identity is broken.
There's something wrong with me.
And from that, we then believe we don't deserve
the ideal relationship.
We don't deserve to go full-time doing what we love,
or we don't deserve abundance.
We believe that that that's not something that we,
maybe other people, yes.
Other people, yes, but not me.
And that's because we're not paying attention
to our self-worth.
What do we believe we deserve?
And that's what you could do is you can begin to let go
and realize that the shame you may be carrying around
from your childhood, whatever it is,
you can realize it wasn't your fault.
A lot of the stuff we inherited from ancestral trauma,
ancestral healing, the things that happened to us,
it's not your fault.
And when you start realizing that,
you stop internalizing that shame,
and you allow a whole new level
of things to come into your life.
So if you wanna work through that as well,
first off, we do that in the 21 day magnetic love challenge.
But secondly, there's an app called HighViber.
HighViber, it's completely free on Apple or Android.
You download that app or you go to highviber.com.
There is an inner child meditation
that will help you to release that shame from childhood.
It's an inner child meditation,
where we energetically go in Hawaii
and we connect to our inner child.
We heal it.
And as we heal it,
we allow more to come into our life
in a very powerful way.
So go to highviber.com
or just click or go to the Apple or Android.
Check that out.
It'll be at the top on the app
that shadow work integration,
shadow childhood meditation.
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If you liked it,
if you want me to talk more about the common misconceptions,
more about my perspective
as how you can really manifest your dream life
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Maybe is a little bit misinterpreted by people,
comment below.
Let me know.
And as always, I'll talk to you in the next episode.
Peace, much love and namaste.