Outside the box, jump out of the box to see the world
Today we come to talk about the ESFJ type in the MBTI 16 personality
ESFJ has an outgoing personality and a wide range of friends, making it easy to be friends with others
It ’s easy to get together with everyone even in strange places (E)
Pay attention to the details of work and life, pay attention to what you see and hear now (S)
When making decisions, they think more about the emotional factors facing others (F)
At the same time, they also tend to plan and arrange their lives and work orderly (J)
In the issue of INTP character
We mentioned that INTP is the most remote type of 16 personality
ESFJ is the exact opposite, a real social animal
Social animal in English to describe ESFJ is the most suitable
They can acutely discover each other ’s emotional needs
And respond quickly
This comes from their dominant function extraverted emotions
ESFJ can always find any opportunity to interact with others
It ’s their norm to laugh and chat naturally in social situations
But their investment is definitely not the end
They listen to the feelings and trends of their friends sincerely
Always be prepared to express yourself with warm words and delicate emotions
Let your friends have a good emotional experience
ESFJ does not like conflict
If the development of the situation is not so harmonious
Or there is a tense atmosphere in the room
They will instinctively capture this atmosphere and try to restore everything to a harmonious and stable state
In their view, conflict is like a fold in life
When you see it, you should iron it with an iron
Like other SJ types, ESFJ is also a strong supporter of social tradition
Plus their extroverted emotional tendencies
ESFJ is the most passionate type of traditional social customs
Such as holidays, family reunions, classmate gatherings, etc.
ESFJ truly enjoys the process of socializing
During the social process, ESFJ felt that he was needed
They are often called suppliers because they have a set of well-being rules of happiness
And will enthusiastically share these rules to everyone around
ESFJ is easy going, friendly and hospitable
Care for the people around you
To be acutely aware of people ’s needs
And there is a strong urge to meet this need
Facing the passion of ESFJ in real life
People often feel that love is difficult
Because they spend a lot of thoughts to satisfy others
This makes it hard to refuse
Also to meet the needs of others
ESFJ比ISFJ更加主动积极
他们强大的气场经常可以让他们带动全场的节奏
ESFJ非常适合扮演宴会主人的角色
所以他们另一个常见的称谓是东道主
顾名思义，既要做东，又要做主
ESFJ对于举办活动，操持宴会 张罗各种事情满足不同来宾的口味，非常擅长
他们在这方面心思细密，考虑周全，处处显得妥帖大方
ESFJ估计也是十六型人格中最会买东西的类型
尤其是送人的礼物，在细节处体现着他们的用心
与ESTJ相同，ESFJ也非常适合做管理方面的工作
华东师范大学心理学博士敖小兰 2004年对中国745名局处级干部进行了样本调查
在《中国领导干部人格类型研究》中表明
ESFJ与ESTJ在领导样本中所占比重分别位居第一名和第二名 （倒数前三名：INTP,ISTP,ENTP)
而二者的区别在于他们的管理方式
如果说ESTJ对他人的社会责任敏感
那么ESFJ则对每个人应享有的权益敏感
这种权益是在传统规则的框架之内的
ESFJ认为每个人都理应在这样的生活中得到福祉
当他们把这种技巧应用在管理中时
ESFJ常常显得比ESTJ更有亲和力，更有人情味
能够在管人和管事中游刃有余地平衡
像红楼梦中的王熙凤就是典型的ESFJ
与未知的活动或自发性的聚会相比 ESFJ喜欢组织周全的活动
他们对自己安排的活动会竭尽全力
对他人组织的活动也有同样的期望
ESFJ也会很有参与感地做自己可以做的事情
哪怕自己不是组织者
ESFJ常常会不能理解一些没有参与感的行为
在他们看来这是一种破坏和谐的举动
当别人对自己精心策划，缜密组织的活动没有热情时
ESFJ也常常会感到诧异
在工作中，ESFJ往往是模范员工
在人力资源类型的岗位中表现突出
在管理岗位上也颇为出色
They can focus on organizational goals and work hard
Can spur his colleagues and subordinates, and also know how to make concessions in time
Their altruistic feelings allow them to ignore their personal gains and losses
For the organization
Others will even feel that ESFJ is too involved
The problem ESFJ may face in life is that some people may not buy his account
When one ’s own altruistic ideas cannot be answered or even criticized and opposed
ESFJ will feel depressed
In addition, ESFJ often thinks that conflict is unnecessary
For those who "create conflict"
Instinctive rejection of tension
ESFJ tends to adopt a calm attitude
Even if this matter has nothing to do with them
In this atmosphere, ESFJ's judgment may be severely affected
For ESFJ, the most important thing is to realize that people are different
Your own vision is not interested in others, not because of prejudice against them
But not interested
ESFJ does not have to blame yourself, because you have done a lot of things