Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink. Today, we will learn about seven ways to attract anyone.
Now, let’s begin. Are you jealous of those lucky guys who
effortlessly attract attention from every woman they meet? Do you look at other men and wonder,
“what does he have that I don’t?” While it’s never a good idea to make comparisons, there are real
reasons why some guys can easily find girlfriends while others are struggling to get noticed.
Despite what you may tell yourself, success in the dating world has almost nothing to
do with physical attraction. Sure, some guys may be tall, dark, and handsome,
but plenty of regular-looking guys find tremendous success with women who are, by all accounts,
way out of their league. So, what are these guys doing that you’re not? How are they getting
so much attention from the women they meet? The qualities that make someone universally
attractive are qualities that anyone can have. It doesn’t matter if you were not
born with above-average looks because there is only one fundamental difference between you and
the many romantically successful men out there. It’s not the shape of your face or the size of
your biceps. The reason some men are successful with women and others are not has everything
to do with how they approach women. Whether you realize it or not, you,
like most people, may not clearly understand what women want. Often the least successful
males talk the loudest about how attractive guys are supposed to look and act. If you don’t
have as much experience, it’s easy to fall into their trap and, without realizing it,
place too much value on things girls don’t care about. For example, many men place tremendous
value on material wealth, but most girls don’t care how much money they have in the bank.
So, what are women really looking for in a potential partner? And how do you approach
women in a romantic and attractive way? In this video, we will cover seven strategies
that instantly make you a more attractive option. You’ll gather more interest,
command more attention, and learn to connect quickly and easily with beautiful women. Because
the truth is… the right approach makes all the difference. With these seven simple strategies,
you can embody the qualities almost every woman wants, making you irresistible to almost anyone.
1. Demonstrate Your Vision Nothing is more attractive than
someone with a clear vision of their future. Discovering your “vision” means defining what
you want. It means creating concrete goals and taking steps to achieve them. Above all,
it means cultivating self-discipline and ambition, which women find attractive and inspiring.
Men who find success in the dating world almost always share their vision of the future with the
women in their lives. But they don’t just talk about what they want. They take tangible steps
toward the version of themselves that they want to be. By demonstrating their vision, other people
gravitate toward them. People want to be around them not only because their passion is attractive
but because their vision inspires potential partners to chase similar goals in their lives.
If you want to be attractive to almost anyone, think hard about what kind of life you want to
live and work hard to make that vision a reality. You might not believe self-improvement strategies
like these will significantly impact your dating life, but demonstrating vision makes you far more
attractive than you realize. If you work hard and dream big, girls will notice your ambition
and suddenly see you in a new way. 2. Speak with Confidence
Many guys approach women with an air of uncertainty. They feel nervous and
unsure of themselves. They second-guess the things they say and doubt whether they’re
making the right move. Despite their best efforts to appear confident and attractive,
girls immediately pick up on their insecurity. If you want more attention from women,
here’s what you need to do. Let go of your nerves and uncertainties. Stop assuming that
you’re going to say the wrong thing. Instead, start speaking with absolute confidence.
Women can sense how confident you are from the moment you open your mouth. In fact,
they can hear it in the tone of your voice. When you’re nervous, your voice gets higher
and faster. You rush through your words, and the pitch of your voice steadily increases.
When you’re confident, on the other hand, you speak low and slow, emphasizing masculine
vocal qualities that women find very attractive. As you learn to speak confidently, you can also
retain people’s interest by speaking in an active, assertive, and self-assured way. For example,
a confident speaker tells people exactly what he wants instead of posing indirect
questions. He isn’t rude or brash, but he isn’t afraid to clearly express himself either.
And that makes him admirable and attractive. In general, women are drawn to men who are sure
of themselves and confident in the things they say. So, talk like you know exactly who you are
and what you want. Because a confident voice makes you instantly more attractive to anyone you meet.
3. Lead the Conversation Many men try to act cool and aloof
around the women they meet. You act like you don’t care, waiting around for her to make the first
move. But the truth is that women are far more attracted to men who are assertive and outspoken.
For example, many girls are drawn to guys who lead the conversation. That doesn’t mean they talk for
45 minutes about themselves. Instead, they blend stories, questions, and jokes in a way that keeps
the conversation feeling fun and upbeat. In other words, they never let things get too serious,
but at the same time, they always make efforts to connect in meaningful ways.
It takes time and practice to lead conversations like a pro, but it’s not essential that you have
this skill mastered. What women really want to see is that you’re willing to try. Even if there are a
few awkward moments, take the lead. Ask questions. Steer the conversation. Show them that you can
be a confident and positive leader, and almost anyone will instantly find you more attractive.
4. Transform Your Character If you want to attract more attention
from women, it’s time to stop doing what everyone else is doing. To make ourselves more attractive,
we often copy other handsome, successful, or influential people, hoping to achieve the same
results. But in the end, you look like a bad copy of someone else instead of the
most attractive version of yourself. To become more desirable to women,
you need some unique detail that separates you from everyone else. For example,
many of the most attractive celebrities have iconic styles and personal accessories
that no one else has. These unique details become an essential part of their character,
transforming them into someone who is not only attractive but also completely one-of-a-kind.
There are many attractive people who look relatively the same,
but the most irresistible people stand out from the crowd. So, find that unique detail
in your life and become more memorable and attractive to almost anyone you meet.
5. Conscious Mirroring Mirroring may be one of the oldest
tricks in the book, but when used intelligently, this technique can make people fall head over
heels for you. In the dating world, mirroring someone means mimicking their words or actions
as a means of romantic expression. For example, when you’re spending time with someone you like,
you may unconsciously copy their body language or the shape of their posture.
Most of the time, mirroring is unconscious. We mirror the people we like without realizing our
body language has changed. But if you’re aware of how mirroring affects people,
you can and should use this simple trick to make yourself more attractive.
When you mirror someone, your reflective behavior creates subtle bits of commonality
that make other people feel closer to you. In other words, mimicking someone’s gestures or
posture make you seem familiar, comfortable, and friendly. All of these things contribute
to a quick and strong romantic connection. So, if you want to make stronger impressions,
subtly mirror the people you find attractive. Thanks to this subtle
flirting technique, women may find you more attractive without even realizing it.
6. The Object of Your Attention Imagine you’re talking to a woman you just
met. How can you show her that you are the kind of person she finds attractive? Make her the sole
object of your attention. When you’re with her, tune out all other distractions. Don’t look at
your phone. Don’t pay attention to other people. Whenever possible, direct your focus toward her so
that she knows exactly where your interest lies. Some people say that women are more attracted
to men who play hard to get. You might have heard people tell you to act like you don’t
care or pretend you aren’t interested, but these games rarely have a positive effect.
The truth is that if you want to get a girl’s attention, show her that she is the person you
want. Eye contact is an easy way to get this message across. During every conversation,
look directly into her eyes. Not the whole time, but often enough to cultivate a strong,
intimate connection. When you stare into someone’s eyes, it’s easy to fall in love. Show a girl
that she is the object of your attention, and sooner or later, she may fall in love with you.
7. Be What You Want If you want to attract almost anyone,
be the kind of person that you want for yourself. In other words, think about who you would like
to meet. What personality traits does your ideal partner have? What kind of energy do
they bring into the room? Chances are you are looking for someone confident and inspiring
who makes you feel comfortable while at the same time pushing you to be a better person.
If that’s true for you, it’s probably true for others. So don’t spend another minute wondering
how to make women fall for you. Simply be the kind of person you want to meet,
and other people will find you irresistible. Thank you for watching TopThink and be
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