- Do you both feel like if you
in Florida that perhaps your marriage
would still have a chance?
I feel like I would have been open to not giving up.
And I've verbalized that I feel like you were getting very just
frustrated by the end of it, with good reason,
totally understandable, that I don't think by decision day
that you would have wanted to keep going if you know.
But in Florida--
just to interrupt you here for a second,
because I think this is important.
In Florida, you had a glimpse of bubbly Molly,
and talked very warmly about how you felt about her.
It was like, she had more energy than I did.
Oh, I felt it. Yeah.
DR. JESSICA GRIFFIN: So I wonder what
it would be like if you both were at that high energy place?
I think it would be out of control.
I think we'd piss off everyone else.
Everybody else.
I'm never going to forget the only spell that you knew
to cast on me was to kill me.
Well, no.
The other one was to lift you in the air,
and that one seemed stupid.
It was more the fact that you actually
knew spells from Harry Potter.
Because, you know, that was adorable.
That was hilarious.
And the fact, like the way that--
[laughter] - I know.
They're over there like, what the heck.
Sorry. Sorry to disappoint.
I'm speechless, because this is ridiculous to me.
I mean, I'm sorry.
I think the world of you both, but I think
this is completely ridiculous.
As we're talking, I mean, we see what you guys are saying.
I mean, but I think John and I are both on the same page
that, yes, we really do see why we were matched,
but we do want a divorce.
Am I right?
[music playing]
I'm going to ask you, Molly.
Do you want to stay married to John,
or do you want to get a divorce?
I think there was so many good things about everything
about the last few months, you know,
seeing where we are today, I think
the best thing is divorce.
At the end of the day, getting a divorce
and ending this marriage is the right decision for me.
It is hard to want to stay committed
in a marriage where you are unattracted to your partner.
And I think the fact that I not only didn't give up,
but I was present.
I had a positive attitude about everything since day one.
I showed him I cared.
I don't have that much that I feel I fell short on.
And I do think I'm coming out of this smarter
and having learned things.
So in a sense, I have moved forward,
and I've grown and made progress in my life.
OK, John, do you want to stay married to Molly,
or do you want to get a divorce?
I mean, I said earlier that even
before the argument in Florida happened,
that I had given everything that I had.
And, you know, I mean, like she said,
I feel like there's no point in fighting for it,
and I don't think it can get to a good place.
So yeah, I want to get a divorce.
OK.
JONATHAN: I definitely thought at the beginning of this
that Molly and I were going to work out, just because the two
of us saw so many similarities, and we could see consistently
why we were together.
I mean, sitting on the couch at decision day,
we knew why we were put together.
But at this point, I feel like we've
already crashed and burned.
So now I'm just picking up the pieces and moving on.