This YouTube is for the ladies - why doesn't he _? Why doesn't he _? - are you saying that in
your mind, to your friends, to your family? if you are then this YouTube is for you.
What I'm going to do is I'm going to take you through and what you can expect in this video
to identify what it is that you're projecting on to men that really handbrake you manifesting that
deeper loving relationship that you really want. And also by the end of this video
you're going to be able to replace those with 7 new improved statements to use the law of
projection in a positive way okay. Now these are the statements that I often hear from women
and you see if any of these are ones that you have going on within you: 'Why doesn't he
buy me flowers or gifts? Why doesn't he want to do something on Valentine's Day? Why doesn't he
text me every morning like he used to? Why doesn't he want to cuddle and watch a movie together? Why
doesn't he want to hang out with me on a Saturday night - he gives that night to his friends,
why doesn't he want to take me out? Why doesn't he want to get married? Why doesn't he want to talk
about our relationship? Why doesn't he show "us" on social media?' Now if you've got any of those
let me know which ones you've got down in the description - not in the description - in the
thread. Now this is the next part and these are the statements, the 7 new statements you can use
to really start to get out of the negative projection you're having on someone and start
to have a positive projection onto them so then you can start to see a different result. Now:
'I am open to receive, I am open to receive. Why does he contact me so much - I'm busy,
why does he contact me so much - I am busy. I cool my skin.' (cool my skin, my partner says that to
me regularly and it's part of his culture to say that but we know what it means, it means calm
down, relax, take a chill pill, relax and breathe, let things pass. So it's letting go of that
intensity) 'I love how he always makes time for me. I love how he always makes time for me. I so
enjoy when we go out and have fun. I so enjoy when we go out and have fun. I don't need reassurance
from the outside, I reassure myself. I don't need reassurance from the outside, I reassure myself.
We spend way too much time together. We spend way too much time together.'
So you see these are statements that you don't often think about because they're totally the
opposite to the complaining statements. So if you can start practicing some of those, the ones that
are relevant to you pick those and then start making these your new statements and then that
changes the projection, what you're projecting onto that person okay. And it's basically
pulling you away from the problem and it's bringing you into alignment with the solution.
So this is a great way to practice changing negative projection to positive projection
okay. Now the men can also do it exactly the same for what they project onto women but that might
be for another YouTube. So lots of love and I will see you as always in the next YouTube.