How many times have you met a seemingly great guy, only to have him pull away, or even vanish
from your life?
Sadly, most of us know that feeling all too well.
What if I told you then, that there are certain text messages you can send a guy to stop him
from pulling away?
Interested?
Stay tuned, because that’s exactly what I’ve be covering here today.
Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel!
For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada.
You may also know me from my program, The Devotion System, which is a complete guide
on how to not only find love, but also how to lock down the man of your dreams and have
the relationship you want and deserve.
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As I briefly mentioned, today I’m going to share with you four text messages that
you can send a man to prevent him from pulling away.
While this sounds like a hefty claim, believe me, these work!
But, before I get too far ahead of myself here I’d like to quickly ask that if you
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Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get started.
The first type of message you can send your guy is what I like to call the “Escape”
Text.
But, contrary to it’s name, this is the kind of text you WANT to send to a man to
stop him from escaping.
So, what is the “Escape” text?
Well for starters it’s a fun, creative message that you send to your man.
But what is really great about it is that by using the simple but powerful words I’m
going to teach you, you will be able to give him something that no one else can: a brief
break or escape from reality.
Since Escape texts are designed to get your guy to think outside of the framework of everyday
life, these kind of messages not only let his mind wander to another, perhaps pleasanter
place, but they’re also great conversation kickstarters.
So, if you’re looking to be his breathe of fresh air, then the secret is to come up
with creative, intriguing questions to text him — the kind of messages that will give
him an opportunity to live in make-believe for a moment or two.
For instance, instead of sending him a plain ol’ “tell me something” text to get
a conversation going, or asking him the same boring, routine questions, spice it up and
make your texts exciting.
A few good examples of Escape Text messages are:
“If you could have one superpower, what would it be?”
or, “If you could live in any era, which one would you choose?”
or, “If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where you choose to go?”
As you’ll see, these text messages are short and to the point.
You don’t need to dress them up because when you ask a question that’s interesting
enough, it’s compelling enough on it’s on so you don’t need to add all the bells
and whistles.
Just be sure to ask questions that will make him feel a spark of childlike wonder again.
The kind of questions that will set his soul on fire and make him think good thoughts.
Have fun with these texts and make them your own.
Remember though, while this is a great opportunity for you to learn something new about your
man, be prepared to answer whatever questions you ask him, too!
The Escape Text is a great way to keep him close and to make time for the two of you
to converse in your own little bubble for a few minutes.
Plus when you’re the one giving him these mental vacations, he’ll look forward to
hearing from you.
The next type of text message to prevent a man from pulling away is the “Wish you were
here...”
Text.
As you may conclude from the name, these are the kind of messages you can send a man to
tease him and create sexual tension.
The kind of messages that will make him want to drop what he is doing and get to wherever
it is that you are.
Now, that’s not to say that he will or should actually drop his plans, but the point is
that these kind of text messages will evoke THAT MUCH emotion in him that he may for a
moment or two consider doing so...
Of course these texts can be as PG or R rated as you’re comfortable with, but that said,
keep in mind that even though your man may not come right out and say it, every guy wants
sex.
So with that said, you may want to get a little bit frisky with these.
Now, you may be “thinking, but Amy, my guy isn’t your typical man’s man.
Sex isn’t the most important thing to him” and while that’s totally fine, it doesn’t
mean he doesn’t want sex as well…
it just means he’s more reserved saying so or admitting it to you.
That’s why “Wish you were here” texts are such a smooth way to peak his interest
and attraction to you, which in the long run, will do wonders for keeping him close and
committed to you.
So, what exactly is an “Wish you were here” text?”
Well, simply put, it’s a descriptive text for you to tell your man what you’d do to
him if he was there with you.
Of course these can be pretty fantastical, meaning, you can say things that you wouldn’t
ACTUALLY do, but by painting him a picture for him to think about you’ll not only turn
him on, but you’ll begin to associate your text messages with feel good, romantic feelings.
When that happens he’ll look forward to hearing from you.
Examples of “If you were here” texts are:
“If you were here I would slowly push myself against you and kiss your lips so softly.”
A more R-rated one of these texts would be something along the lines of:
“If you were here right now I would climb on top of you, unbutton your shirt and trace
my fingertips down your chest to your…”
You don’t even have to add in the more provocative words.
Implying it alone is enough to make him ooze with anticipation.
Just remember, making your texts descriptive is key because men respond best to messages
that make them literally feel or imagine something in vivid detail!
Some good descriptive words to use are: feel, touch, grope, graze, shiver, tingle, taste,
lick, crave and so on.
If you’re interested in learning more powerful phrases to make your man wild with desire
for you then visit my site and watch the free video presentation.
The URL is www.coachnorth.com/texting, and to make it easy for you I’ll be sure to
post it in the descriptive below.
Now, the third kind of text you can send a man to stop him from pulling away is the basic
flirting type of message.
But instead of stopping there, let’s spice it up a bit and call this one the Seductive
Stanza, because yes, like poetry, these kind of messages should pull on his heart strings
and stir up emotion in him.
By subtly seducing your man with text messages you’ll have him hooked.
Best of all, doing so is SO much easier than it seems, just be sure to be creative, playful,
and use your imagination.
An example of a Seductive Stanza could be anything from, “Guess what I’m wearing
right now?” to “The things I’m going to do to you when you come over tonight…”
Just remember to wait for a response before messaging him again.
The last thing you want to do is scare the poor guy away!
The fourth kind of message you can send a man to prevent him from pulling away is a
“Ego Stroker” text.
As the name implies, that’s exactly what you’re going to want to do in this kind
of message.
There’s no denying that relationships can start to get stale after a while, what’s
worse though is when complacency sneaks in.
When this happens it’s easy to let things slip between you and your man, and before
you know it he’s pulling away or feeling unappreciated.
So then, by being the woman who makes your man feel good about himself and the things
he accomplishes, he’ll want to keep you around.
I mean, why wouldn’t he, YOU make him feel good.
Not to mention, as the old saying goes, “if you don’t, someone else will...”
To make sure that he feels like number one in your book, text him Ego Stroker messages
that shine on his intelligence, physical appearance, sexual performance, attitude, how he treats
you, the works!
Just be careful not to over do it or your words will start to lose their magic.
Also be sure to only say things that are true.
For instance, if he’s terrible at going down on you then you don’t want to stroke
his ego by saying he’s great at it.
Instead, pick something else that you truly believe he excels at and make it the focus
of your text.
Just be honest and speak from the heart.
A few examples of an Ego Stroker text would be something like, “I love your arms and
how strong they are.
When you wrap them around me I feel like nothing in the world could harm me.”
Or “You’re such an amazing kisser.
The way your lips feel pressed against mine is electrifying,” Or “Your mind is my
favourite mind.
The way you think and how creative you are… it’s inspiring.”
Again, make these your own and you’ll have him tied around your finger.
The fifth and final type of text I want to share with you today is the “Go Your Own
Way” text.
What this kind of message is designed to do is to show your guy that as much as you love
having him in your life, you still have your own agenda and other priorities, that you’re
busy living your own fun, filled life.
So, even if you have nothing going on when your guy texts you, you may want to fib a
little bit and tell him that you’re doing something other than sitting around.
Now, I’m not condoning lying here, so if you are genuinely keeping busy, that’s even
better because your story will seem more real.
That said, if you are having a quiet night in, catching up on all your favourite television
shows, you might want to spice up the message you send him by saying that you’re doing
something else, something more creative or mentally stimulating.
This message works wonders for preventing your man from pulling away, especially when
it comes to situations where he asks you to hangout with little notice.
Since the key to keeping him intrigued is to make him work for your time and attention,
by not being too available or ready to go anytime he comes calling, requiring a few
days notice when it comes to making plans is a powerful move.
So, to give you an example of this kind of text message, let’s say that you’re just
getting home from a long day at the office and your guy texts you asking if you want
to grab dinner in half an hour.
Instead of saying “Sure!” or “I’m just going to have a lazy night in,” instead
spice it up with something like “Hey, I would love to join you for dinner tonight
but unfortunately I already have dinner plans with some friends.
I’m free Friday though if you want to raincheck?”
Again, make this your own.
If you don’t want to tell him that you’re going out then say that you’re busy working
on a project, or that you’re having someone over.
Whatever you tell him, just make sure it’s not too fabricated or unbelievable.
The message you’re sending is that you’re “going your own way” tonight, so you’ll
have to catch up with him soon.
It can be hard to turn him down, especially if you’re really wanting to see him, but
remember, nothing good comes easy.
Well, that just about does it for this video, as always thanks so much for watching.
If you have any questions about the types of texts I’ve covered here, or have your
own to share, then please post those in the comments section below.
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