hello my friends how are you today today I want to talk to you about something which is really cool
and it is how to be secure when people don't like you so a lot of people there they don't really
have like a rock they don't really have like a security and how they feel about themselves
may really be dependent on what they think that other people think about them and so it like if
they think the other people don't like them they may feel like really like insecure and like they
may like then they don't really like have a rock so they may kind of be like floating around and
they may be on this like wave of like emotions and being like well well they like me maybe they feel
better well they don't like me all of them they may feel terrible but how do you be secure when
people don't like you so you need to know that first of all you need to understand that it's
okay if people like you or don't like you okay like basically like if you say I like horses right
you're gonna probably have if you just say that you're gonna probably have a lot of people who are
like yeah that's that's cool and then you might have some people who don't like horses and they
might say oh you're dumb you're doing like horses or who no way if they don't like horses they might
be like oh you're dumb you like horses if you say I like trucks you might um you might have people
say oh I like trucks you're smarter then you might have people say Oh shucks are stupid they're build
up about um you know they take up too much space in the earth or they do this or whatever
like maybe you say like I like cars you might have people say I love cars you might have other people
say oh cars are stupid you should have a truck you need to know that like everyone is different and
that is amazing like everyone has got their own unique personalities and not everyone has a lot
of maturity and they don't really know who they are and so a lot of people are like most people
I would say are like sheep and they kind of go along and they they're they kind of want to they
don't really want to be there they may be scared to be different they don't they're like insecure
and they're kind of like maybe look around what are other people doing how do people dress what
what do other people think I should do and they may try to like like not want to stick their head
up because they might be afraid they'll get like like like they just like they then be scared to
actually even be themself like what way there actually should be there so like it's scary but
you need to know like it's okay to be different it's okay to be you like your different anyways if
you're a person you are different than everybody else and that's totally fine you'll have to like
try to conform to someone else but how to be secure is you need to know who you are in Christ
like for me like I know that God loves me so yeah you know like I've done like a lot of YouTube
I've been seen in probably about every single country in the world I've gotten millions of
views millions of minutes of watch time and I've done a lot of live-streaming I've done like and
I've like gotten a lot of people and they may act nice to me and that's cool and a lot of people or
like some people may have acted not nice to me but the thing is like it doesn't really matter whether
people like me or don't like me because I'm secure in Christ so no matter what happens in my life
like I'm totally like I'm fine because like Jesus is my rock and since I have that relationship with
God like um and I'm not walking in this place of insecurity and like fear and like oh well well if
they don't like me then what does that what does that mean for me and it's like it like whatever
it like me you don't like me like I'm gonna like I'm fine because I'm my rock is Jesus and um and
I spend time with God and a lot of people in ministry even they may be so concerned of like
well home if they don't like me you know then they may feel like their self-worth like even
like preachers maybe like all consumed with like like if people like them and and so many people in
facebook many like put up a post and then they may be like oh so-and-so didn't like my post and then
they actually get upset because someone so didn't like their post it's like whatever it's your toast
if people like it they like it or they don't like it they don't like it like it's like whatever like
so the important thing is to find the love of Jesus and love him back and when you have
really found the love of Jesus and love him back everything else is so much better and and then um
when you when you know who you are in Christ and you have that like security and that like rock and
you're like okay this is who I am this is what and you operate like out of that like it's like
totally fine if people you may be like oh you know like you may appreciate it people like you
like okay cool you know you might be see you might see something that you know like but if they don't
like you it's like you know but for some people they might try to do hate into them like they may
operate out of like insecurity and fear and that to them they may think well if I act like I don't
like this person that's gonna be detrimental to the person but the thing is is like that maybe how
that person is they mean need that like validation of other people but like honestly like I'm with
Jesus like he's my rock he's my so whether people like whether I got all thumbs up or all thumbs
down or a mixture in-between like I'm fine and so it's really important you to really do your
destiny and your purpose in your life you need to really know like like where how do you know
what your security identity is is your security identity only if you get like 20 likes like if I'm
in like a social media thing yeah is it if people share your post if isn't if people tell you a good
job like what if what if your boss or coworkers don't compliment you for like three months are
you gonna be okay what if it were like what if your spouse doesn't say something nice to you are
you gonna be okay what if someone says something negative to you and and so you may really need to
be like you know like all right like really ask yourself like how do I know I'm secure like how
do I like what do i how do I feel secure and if it's from people's opinion my friends that's a
terrible place to be because people's opinions can just go up and down and up and down and up
and down and so like some people might might act like they love you one minute and then they might
act like they don't love you the next minute and so they like are you gonna fall over if you think
they don't like you but the the great thing is when you have a relationship with Jesus and you
know who you are in Christ and he's like your rock it's like people can come and go in your life and
you're like totally fine because you're the you're on the rock you're like in Christ and so you can
see people come and go through your life and some people might stick around maybe for a month some
people might stick around for twenty years maybe some people may not like you from the beginning
maybe some people will like you your entire life like however it works out like it's totally cool
because as long as you are in the rock of Jesus as long as you have that relationship with God like
it doesn't like it doesn't really matter you're just like like you're secure and so whether people
like you or don't like you it's just like you know like you're good and so my friends like God loves
you and so I'd really encourage you find the love of Jesus and love him back and some people
may be like well you know I I got a rillette or they might I got a relationship with God yeah I
got a relationship with Jesus and like oh well do you hear God's voice oh wow like and they
may not like this is like like how can you have a relationship like with someone and not be able to
hear their voice many people may be like oh yeah you know mean god we got her we got connection
okay well so here's what you do I'm a been Billy Graham maybe been saying something about he could
tell what someone's priorities were by looking at their calendar and their checkbook so okay so what
do you spend your money on what do you spend your time on and you know like and you can just quickly
see what really is like that person is about if you can see what they spend their money on
and their calendar and so if someone say oh yeah you know me and Jesus or good and then and if you
don't talk to him you don't hear his voice unless maybe some people might go to Jesus and you know
if they're in trouble they think their marriage is in trouble where they need money in the movie
oh god I don't need your help now but like yeah yeah God's nice he like helps provide for people
but you know but like like God loves us but do we like but do you love him and so if you have a
good relationship with God like it's important to like be in constant contact with him like talking
to God let him talk to you even when when things are good not just waiting to looks like things
are falling apart to start crying out the out for help and it's important to crowd to God when when
things look bad that's fine but like when is when things are going good it's important to have the
relationship with him so I'd really encourage you to find the love of Jesus and love him back
and my friends my friends spend time with him like talk to him and listen for his voice and
when I'm and when you and when you cultivate that relationship with Jesus and you know like who you
are like in Christ like it's so much better and then you're like you're secure and you know like
I'm loved like God loves me and then when you don't have to like seek other people's approval
and like it's like I'm loved it's like it's so amazing it's like such an incredible spot to be
to be like secure okay before I used to be like insecure I did I hadn't found the love of Jesus
and I was like insecure but now like I'm secure I found the love of Jesus I like to spend an hour
to three hours a day with God and so when you're secure it actually helps to be better like with
people because instead of me trying to like just suck from them like suck a compliment or oh do you
think I you think I'm good at this yes because if they don't say yes it's gonna turn you up inside
like you oh yeah you think I'm good at this do you think I'm good at doing this do you think I'm good
at doing that and and then hoping that they say yes it give me like if they think I'm good as cool
if they think I don't I'm not good it's like you like I'm fine either way here I mean because like
I got my my rock is Jesus and so like I don't have to have people's like opinions to like
validate me and that's a very shaky shaky place to be if you're just like hope if you need to be
validated by people because people's opinions can just change like so fast um so my friend I
would like encourage you like go to God like ask God say God help me have a relationship with you
please as you want help me like please God fill me with your Holy Spirit help give me help me
have a relationship with you and spend time with God like find the love of Jesus and love him back
and listen listen for his voice he talks in so many different ways like God will actually like
many times he's like talk to me like maybe even about a particular person maybe about us maybe
about a person in a situation before it actually maybe and or a situation before it even happens so
like like God may tell me something and then later that situation may like may happen and so like God
has already like like you know he knows it's gonna happen before it happens and the people that may
have had like a situation like with me they may have had no idea that may have been warned ahead
of time by God of what's going to happen and God may even like help give me like help me to even
know what to do to even act with like with like confidence and so it's like it's just incredible
and but people who may be trying to have in a situation mean they may have no idea that God
may have I already actually like told me about this beauty and it's like a really cool thing
when you have like the God of the universe who can like who knows it's going to happen ahead of time
you give me able to give you like a heads up on like a situation person whatever it is before it
even like happens and who knows it has happened every time but it's the God he's like told me
stuff beforehand and it's like super cool and then then that situation whoever may like occur
or something and so my friends like how cool is it to have like the rock of Jesus as my rock and
he can even like give me like heads up ahead of time maybe about a person maybe about a situation
it's so amazing so I my friends I love you all God loves you it's so incredible to not need to
be validated by people to get your self-worth and identity when it's so cool to be like secure and
it was something I didn't know about like earlier in life about really like how to be secure and a
lot of people they may have this whole thing of like maybe they try to get secured an identity in
like money and so they're like clutching onto money and this it's like if they lose their
money then what happens then they may lose their security identity maybe it's about being friends
with like so-and-so maybe it's about trying to be in a relationship like they may be trying to get
into like some kind of a boyfriend or girlfriend if as long as they have a boyfriend/girlfriend
they're like secure well what happens if your boyfriend or girlfriend like breaks up with you
what then like who are you and what or maybe they like if I just get married to this person
like I'm gonna get my Sakura Dania this person and they may try to suck a little self-worth in
that person oh do you think I'm good do you think I'm good this do you think I'm glad this oh do you
think I'm better looking this person and they made constantly just like trying to like suck suck suck
to like feet and it's like this never-ending like you'll never be satisfied trying to get
compliments from people and just being like oh well do you think I'm good at this do you think
I'm going to this activity do you think I'm good at that other cavity and then just like need more
and more it's like this never-ending thing can never be satisfied and Jesus when you have the
rock you like I'm good and and people may come and go and like I'm still good and because I
got the wrong of Jesus I got a relationship with Jesus and so that my friends is how to be secure
so whether like you're going through any kind of situation if you have found love of Jesus a
mum back like and Jesus is your rock you're good you're safe you're secure and you can when you
like anchor deep in Christ like you're in Christ you can weather a storm because you're totally
secure there's this incredible past like this incredible person in ministry I should say and
he had oh I guess it's like media like telling lies about him or whatever and I guess there's
like this big deal but I guess what he did he like spend time with Jesus like you know lots of time
with Jesus and so like even if all the media is like going and like saying lies against you even
if people believe allies people from your past like when you have Jesus and you are like in that
relationship with God like what can shake you like what can shake God like he's like so secure and so
god is my rock so I'm like if you like this video great if you don't like it oh well I'm secure I'd
really encourage you to find the love of Jesus and love him back and say you can say right now
now I'm dear father please help me to find the love of Jesus I'm back I want to pay you didn't
find the police up all these people to find the love of Jesus and and love you back lord please
them to your purpose and destiny for their life in every way God and please have you'll be done
with their lives and Oliver lives in Jesus name I love you amen so um my friends thank you so much
for watching I love y'all you are amazing it's cool I have a good one my friends and hopefully
you found the love of Jesus love them back have a great day if you like this video please give it
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