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good afternoon everyone I'm very honored
to be on this stage today so let's start
have you ever thought about how often we
change masks to be what others want us
to be how often we have to do what
everyone does
just in order to not to be different
from others many of us consider people
who differ from us insults who don't
have the same standards who don't share
the same ideas that we have as crazy
individuals we don't want to accept an
idea that contradicts to our own
worldview because it feels like noses
for us is the first thing that comes to
our mind is how is it possible that my
way of thinking is wrong
no it cannot be true but why don't we
have thoughts that the problem is
actually in us empty shell this is what
we are becoming we are losing our
identity our uniqueness and becoming
lost personalities we follow opinions
that were imposed on us by society and
don't you realize that this is not
actually what we want this our desires
of someone else but not ours you may
have a question so what should I do to
find a solution to this problem don't I
need to be a member of society in order
to be myself well we all know that human
is a social being and not everyone of us
can exist outside the society and this
is a fact so from the previous words of
mine it follows that in order to exist
you must necessarily be in society
follow its foundations
rules and be like others what paradox
just a minute ago I said that we are
becoming empty shell that follows all
the standards of the society and now I'm
seeing that we cannot exist outside of
it well let me answer to this question a
bit later and for now I would like to
continue exploring this topic further so
let's start from the main causes of the
problem that we have to start with the
main reasons why today people are losing
the uniqueness are the internal the mass
media and imposed opinions and ideas of
course this all above-mentioned reasons
are already known to everyone children
people especially still developing minds
I mean teenagers and young adults mostly
believe everything they read without
even thinking about that we don't often
analyze the information provided to us
relying on the veracity of the sources
channels where the data is given as I
read in one website the mass media may
be not successful in telling people what
to think but it's under blaa successful
in telling people what to think about
the mass media cannot straightly force
anyone to have a certain opinion on the
subject but at least it makes an
influence an impression on which side of
the coin we should look at in 1968 when
David Rockefeller visited the US as our
he proposed a deal if the USSR supports
America then tomorrow also it people
will stop having I'm sorry
then tomorrow all Americans will stop
having bad impression about soiid people
if the USSR doesn't agree then the
situation will change to the worst side
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unfortunately or fortunately the deal
was not meet so rexella did what he
promised what do you think how is it
possible to control source of the whole
nation
Derek feller meat newspapers used to
make newspapers print the articles that
he wants as this is the best way to
control minds what comes to the internet
Internet is like a virus
children are chasing trance without
having a clear understanding why they
need it say I like zombies follow what
is fashionable and this is the only
reason that is fashionable that's oh
there are no other reasons let's take
Instagram as an example I personally
know the goes who follows these trends
and make false impression about
themselves by posting photos that were
not taken by them I mean that they post
photos of some gifts or mills from
expensive restaurants and you know it
would be totally okey if they did it
just because they liked that picture or
they just wanted to make their page in
Instagram more beautiful but instead of
it they continue arguing and saying that
those gives her a limit for them or that
they really had a dinner and that
restaurant
despite is not true tell me please if
someone's admiration of the sink
that was your uniqueness by such actions
they want to be cool in other's eyes but
they don't see the price they are paying
for it they'll live in none of your own
life pretending to be who they are not
following the motto if you didn't put it
in your Instagram then it's not true of
course it would be silly to say that the
internet and everything that's connected
with it is evil it all depends on how
and for
what purpose you use it another
confirmation of my worlds can serve as
challenges that are so popular last
times I guess each of you have heard
about the school breaker challenge if no
let me explain you what it s the school
breaker challenge elbow involves two
people fooling a third person who is in
the middle into jumping into the ear and
kicking their feet from under them
doctors see that videos are no matter
laughing and kill which the broken wrist
sprint ligaments or spine and brain
injuries dozens of teenagers around the
world have already been injured because
of this silly trend and now this is not
only the problem of your health but also
the problem of losing your with your own
eye and you need to remember that your
health cannot be what sometimes in some
cases so you need to think please stop
being into that from all of the above
mentions that question arises so how can
I find out am i following what I want
because today it's really difficult to
distinguish precisely your own desires
from thoughts that were imposed on us by
society while conducting my research to
answer to this question I came across a
very effective solution to this problem
Toyota's founder Sakichi Toyoda
constantly use the rule of five vice in
all incomprehensible situations he used
this method and everything immediately
became clear let me explain you how this
works for instance we want a fur coat
so we need to ask ourselves why do I
want a fur coat this is the first why
then we need to answer to this question
I want to note right now that you may
have different answers because all of us
have different problems and the answers
that I will bring are just examples the
only thing that you need to do is just
to be honest with yourself while
answering to these questions so let's
continue why do I want a fur coat the
answer is because according to the
prevailing stereotypes all rich women
have a fur coat I also won't appear the
same I want to surprise people
so from this follows the second why why
do you want to surprise others and the
answer is because I want people to pay
attention to me so why do you want
people to pay attention to you because I
feel insecure the fourth why but I do
feel insecure because I cannot be
realized in any way I just sit in one
place and cannot develop and finally the
last why why Cannot you develop yourself
why Cannot you realize your dreams
because I do what I don't like tell me
please what does it feel Court have to
do with it Sakichi Toyoda told that the
answer to the fifth why brings to light
what cannot be visible at first glance
this is the real you this is the root
cause this is the root of your problem
the fifth because brings to light was
hidden so try to find the root of your
problem and fight against it stop
following hinged labels there is also
another cause of this problem that
cannot be always solved by this method
this is society
it's opinion about you many of us give
up on some of our goals dreams just
because we're so afraid that other
people will love it us was so afraid
that people will judge us and that's why
we are so afraid of doing what we really
want time passes and this leads to the
case that we have spent a whole life
just useless I'm sure this is not the
first time you're hearing it and of
course not the last one but you need to
remind yourself always that people will
judge you anyways in any case the number
of opinion is equal to the number of
people so don't be afraid of being
yourself you have only one life to
realize everything that you want but not
others at the beginning of my speech
there was a question in order to exist
you must necessarily be in society
follow its foundations rules and be like
others yes if you want to exist you can
be like others you can do the same
things that everyone does but if you
want to live and not just exist if you
want to be and I just pretend to be then
learn to recognize what you want that
your family teachers friends but you
don't spend your life so that when you
are old you'll be regretting of not
doing things that you wanted oh you will
be regretting of not following your
desires when you had a chance the
Unicorn is the world of horses don't be
afraid of being yourself thank you
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