And I now know that the closer that I get to truth, the simpler it has
to be. The more complex we make it, the more we're going to analyze.
And we can't get there in analysis. Because analysis is trying to
figure it out.
Now, there's nothing wrong with analyzing things. But when it comes time
to create or to change, you have to lay that down.
So I think, from a very practical and experience-based model that people
have to begin to embrace knowledge and information before they get
about doing anything.
So I'm not so interested in labels, NLP, hypnosis,
because I think people get stuck in
trying to create a limited model.
Now what I love is truth. And there are similarities, whether you're
talking about NLP, or talking about the Bible, or the Quran, or you're
talking about hypnosis, there are elements of those things that have
helped people.
Now, I don't study NLP, although I'm invited to NLP conferences
to explain the neuro science and biology of personal change and
transformation.
I started my journey studying hypnosis and hypnotherapy, because what
separates the conscious mind from the subconscious mind is the
analytical mind.
And when you teach people or help people get beyond their analytical
mind, now, you enter the operating system where you can begin to
reprogram a person.
If you feel wholeness, it's impossible for you to want! How can you
want when you're whole? When you're whole, you feel like you have everything!
So, I want people to reach that point where they feel so whole that
they no longer want, and that's when the magic happens. Teaching them that
allows them to understand that when they come back to their
senses, they open their eyes, they're not
looking for the experience, they feel like it's already happened.
And if you feel like it's already happened, why would you be looking for it?
Then, if your body is conditioned emotionally into that future, you're
not separate from the energy of your future, you are connected to it!
But the moment you get in traffic and you start getting angry,
you get on the line at the bank and you start getting impatient, or you're
sitting in a staff meeting,
you start judging a co-worker,
you just disconnected from the energy of the future
and now you're back to the energy of your past! And you've done nothing wrong.
You just lost your connection to the future.
Now, the importance of that is to notice that you're disconnected.
And if you say to me: Well, that person made me feel this way and think
this way, I'd say: Oh my gosh, you're back to the unconscious program
of being a victim in your life.
The victim is saying that someone or something is controlling how I
think and feel. But a person who's producing outcomes in their life,
all of a sudden they say: Wow,
the way I'm thinking and feeling is creating outcomes in my life.
Now I'm a creator in my life and now I believe less than I'm a victim
of my life, point 1.
A point number 2
is that people think that they want certain things because they're
experiencing lack.
And so, they have to go about becoming the very person.
So then, if we reframe it and you say:
Oh, I really want to be wealthy.
I want all my needs met. And I'll say: Really, why you want to be wealthy?
And they'll say: Because I want freedom. And I say: Okay, let's focus on freedom!
So now the person understands the sponsoring thought or the emotion.
Why would you wait for your wealth to feel free?
That's the Newtonian model of reality of cause and effect.
Waiting for someone or something out there to take away this
emptiness or lack.
And what if I'm feeling this emotion, this emotion is influencing
certain thoughts, and how I think and feel creates my life.
If I'm living in lack, I'm not going to create anything new.
But if I say to you: Hey, when you become that person, once you become it,
then your reality is going to reorganize itself! Instead of
living by cause and effect,
let's teach you how to cause an effect.
So then, the person then is no longer interested in getting something
in their environment. When they realize it's about who they become and
all of a sudden
now the emphasis or the interest is
becoming that person. And we have a week with those people. And I want
them to walk as it, sit as it, stand as it, lay down
as it, I want them to get in the habit of walking from their room to
the ballroom.
It's become the new habit.
That's why when we do our work, we're doing sitting meditation,
we're doing standing and walking meditations,
we're doing lying down meditations.
I wanted that to become a new habit.
I want them to become that person.
So then, this happens thousands of times. People come for certain
reasons.
They come to heal their disease. And once they heal their disease, they
realize it was never about healing disease. You know what it was?
About unlearning.
Breaking the habit, deprogramming, becoming conscious of their
unconscious thoughts, becoming aware of their automatic habits and
behaviors, noticing that they've been living in unworthiness and guilt
for the last 25 years.
But they're so
so used to living by that feeling, they don't even know
it's guilt, it just feels like who they are.
Point number two is that becoming that person requires you to stop
being the old person. That's the work!
And so, when people come with a passion and enthusiasm to overcome that
old self, they're going to understand then that people who live in
the past or asleep in the present. And they have to die!
That old person has to die! And the dying of that old personality
is an uncomfortable process. But if you apply the formula, when you're
in that uncomfortable process, you will literally begin to become
somebody else.
So, when they start becoming that person, they'll say: I thought I
wanted wealth but I really don't want wealth,
I want this! And all of a sudden here come
the synchronicities, the opportunities, the serendipities, the
coincidences, you know, the wonderful wonderful event start
unfolding in their life. And they're going to say to you:
I'm not doing anything.
Because they took care of the past personality.
Because your personality creates your personal reality.
Your personality is made up of how you think, how you act, and how you feel.
So then, if they're no longer thinking the same way, no longer acting
the same way, no longer feeling the same way, they're thinking
differently, they're acting differently, they're feeling differently,
and when they return back into their lives
they're able to maintain that modified state of mind and Body.
That's the new habit, they're embodying that energy. Then all of a
sudden, people in their life are going to say: Something's different
about you, something
is, something happened to you.
Because the person is not showing up in the unconscious predictable
habit of themselves. And they're outstanding, because they're not
reacting emotionally.
They've overcome that sitting in their meditations.
They're no longer judging.
They took care of those circuits.
The hardwired programs, they're no longer blaming or complaining or manikg
excuses because they sat for 2 hours. And I left them sit in that
emotion and those habits until they finally got beyond them.
Now, that's the work.
So, that person that they've had to conquer, that person
they've had to overcome, that they had to become conscious of so they
would not go unconscious again,
the side effect of that is self-love! The side effect of that is a
level of satisfaction
with yourself that allows you to be satisfied with others!
And people who judge themselves will judge others, people who hate
themselves will hate others.
People who are impatient with themselves will be impatient with others.
People who abuse themselves will abuse others.
People who love themselves will love others.
People who feel gratitude for their effort will have gratitude
authentically in their life!
People who are joyful because they sat in the fire
and something changed are going to naturally be joyful.
Not because they need a car, or a wardrobe, or vacation to feel that.
They feel joyful because they really feel joyful.
It's not coming from out there.
It's coming from in here. They will be joyful in their lives and it
will be real.
So, we're just seeing a community of people reaching that
consciousness. And they're not relying on somebody out there to bring
them joy, they are joyful because they're in love with who they are!