alright guys today I'm going to teach you how to attract women with
conversation so guys thank you very much for tuning in and my name is Jeff
kidding if you do not know me already I make a lot of videos about no FAP and
overall videos that I think can help you to level up your life so before I teach
you what I'm gonna teach you be sure to like this video and subscribe to this
channel and at the end of this video be sure to comment down below but how do
you attract women through conversation now the whole realm of picking up women
attracting women is not something that I normally make videos about occasionally
I do some attraction videos but this is basically a video that I think can help
you guys in attracting women and in order to attract the woman is all about
being authentic there is ways that you can track them in by being unauthentic
or in other words faking it so you make it or portraying a persona if you will
are acting like someone that you know it's deep inside you're not an example
is guys who basically drive really nice cars and put themselves in debt to drive
nice cars in order to get attention from women or guys who really try to work out
and cabs get shredded just so that they could attract women and act like they're
just some hotshot playboy I don't know I'm probably just being very stigmatic
I'm probably not even being accurate but what I'm seeing but overall high value
women can see past that okay high value women can see the actual guys who are
trying to be something that they're not in order to get one thing and that one
thing is what validation through a woman and that's something that I think that
you guys should be aware of in order to attract women through conversation is by
not trying to get her validation I know a lot of guys and it happens usually
guys Ward just started college guys in high school where they feel like to
break the ice to conversate with the girl they need to attract her right off
the bat they need to feel like they are the man
you know what I mean and they got to make her feel like he is the man in her
eyes - I almost had that type of mindset back then I almost had that mindset
where I felt like if I've never met a girl and if I'm going to conversate with
her and if I want her to be attracted to me I better become attractive and as I
was doing that as I became that type of guy I basically became like every other
guy I became like every guy in a room who is trying to attract a girl by
trying to be attractive and by doing that you're no longer in your comfort
zone you're no longer confident because you're in acting mode you're in
portraying mode overall again high value women can see
through that so what's my point the point is that that way of trying to
attract women can work on low value women I say low value women as in women
who almost doesn't have standards in attracting quality men so again if you
are new to this channel I do emphasize being a high value man and being a
better man than you were yesterday and just overall being the best version of
yourself so if you're trying to attract women then fellas you need to be a high
value man that attracts high-value women now high-value women what do they want
high-value women they already have a screening process they already know that
all these guys whether you're at the club in the bar or at school at the
grocery store high-value women know that they are
beautiful they know that they're attractive okay they also are aware that
guys are gonna try to hit on them and that is what low value guys do low value
guys try to hit on women high value men on the other hand try to get to know a
woman and there's a difference between the two things that I just mentioned
hitting on a woman is saying things in order to get end results they're saying
things in order to hopefully score her number or basically score physically I
value men just interact to interact they're being authentic they're actually
attracted to this woman whether she's attractive physically her emotionally
high-value authentic man talks to her because he truly wants to get to know
her he truly wants to connect with her and he's not trying to get into her
pants he does realize that there is a possibility of that happening if he is
still attracted to her after the interaction I'm seriously not making
this shit up guys but in order to attract women you need to stop trying to
attract them instead I really tried to get to know them and this happened for
me after I basically started working in the service industry I was working at
Peter Pitt once and then now I'm working as a server and as I got to slowly get
out of my comfort zone actually talk to people it almost became very easy for me
to basically be authentic and just talk about what I want to talk about be silly
wouldn't want to be silly and from what I've learned and what I figured out is
that women actually like that women like it when a guy can just be themselves and
not be afraid if they say stupid shit and embarrassing shit you know what I
mean and then try to hide it and and try to play it off like they're all cool so
you know what I mean own it if you said something stupid and
funny and you're nervous selling a girl own it just be honest and tell her that
you know I'm come under I'm a little nervous I don't really talk to pretty
women like you and I just really want to get to know you like be authentic don't
be like oh ma you so fine that mm you know what I mean you so fine that all I
just kind of speak because you look so good like guys there's there's guys who
talk like that because they're trying to act like a GQ playboy you know what I
mean and then there's guys who just are real about it they're just real about
how they feel they're real in the moment and that's what being well that's what
that's what being alpha is guys it's just being in the moment being authentic
with it you know I'm saying so again attracting women through
conversation is all about getting to know the girl all right getting to know
the girl and knowing that the possibility of you guys having sex or
you guys going on a date or you getting her number is not her choice but it's
yours you need to have that mindset you need to have that frame of mind knowing
that hey you know I'm in charge of this I'm in charge of where this is going if
I like how my conversation with her is going then I will continue to talk to
her then I will continue to ask for her number and if she doesn't ask for my
number didn't through it and if she doesn't give me
her number then it's fine there's more me there's more authentic me and there's
more people who would actually appreciate the authentic me it's all you
need to see yourself and that's how you need to see the situation so next time
you're talking to a girl that you are attracted by okay
don't try to attract her fellas so you need to just get to know her try to get
to know her and you decide if you wanted to go further than this conversation and
if you do like her and he's to one this conversation to keep on going and the
youth and if she genuinely feels the same way she might even ask you for her
number that actually happened to me once and yeah guys is it it's all about it's
all about being real and authentic don't act don't try to be someone you're not
be yourself okay if you're if you're a nerd be a nerd if you're a Pokemon nerd
tell her you like Pokemon and ask her if she likes Pokemon get to know her get to
see what she likes and throw some throw some pants about what's your like but
overall when you're conversating wear girl get to know her your goal is to
know her okay when you're talking to her she's the most important thing in that
your world at that moment just get to know her okay and don't try to be
someone you're not don't try to be the playboy and don't
try to say the right things just say what you feel and if she likes who you
are genuinely then it would be so much easier for you to genuinely ask her out
but yeah guys very random video I figure I post this on a Friday since you guys
are probably gonna go out on Friday night and you're gonna try to pick up
some women these guys I hope this video was helpful for you before you leave be
sure to like this video and be sure to subscribe to this channel because I make
a lot of videos about nofap and overall videos that I think can help you to
level up your life so guys thank you so much again for your time remember
whatever you're going through strive to be better if the average envy yourself
as always god bless you and have a blessed day ever