I know you think they don't care about anything at all.
Right?
Now there are things that they actually do care about.
I'm gonna tell you what they are in this video.
So that you know what they care about
because you need to know so that you
can use them to your advantage,
especially if you're communicating with them.
If you're trying to deal with them.
If you're trying to negotiate with them,
you need to know.
Hey there, Rebecca Zung.
I am a narcissist negotiation expert.
I'm an attorney.
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I wanna help you shift that dynamic. I wanna help you go on the offensive,
so you're not on the defensive all the
time when it comes to narcissists.
I wanna tell you that there are things that narcissists
actually care about by the end of this video.
You're gonna know four things that
narcissists actually care about.
Yeah.
There's actually four.
I'm gonna give you the number one thing
that narcissist actually care about at the end.
We're gonna go from number four to number one.
Yeah.
There's actually four things
that they actually hear about.
They're all wrapped up in narcissistic supply.
Supply is anything that feeds their ego.
So supplies the really kind of the one
thing that they're all kinda after and that's
you know their their food,
their lifeblood,
their ox oxygen.
They're like kinda going after
that one thing all the time.
They craze that in order to
feel good about themselves,
it's like that external thing.
There's almost like a black hole inside of them
that can never be filled and
you might wanna fill it for them
and they want you to fill it too.
And so what happens is you're left
feeling totally and utterly depleted,
yet they're still starving a lot of ways.
So but there's different forms of narcissistic supply.
Alright?
And that's what I'm gonna go over here.
So we're gonna go from number four
all the way up to number one.
Alright?
at the end of the day,
they really just care about themselves.
I mean, they may sit there
and tell you they love you
or they care about you or if it's a
business partner or even as family member,
whatever it is.
But at the end of the day,
it's almost like somebody who is
in full on survival mode all the time
or almost like somebody who has
like a really bad toothache
or they're really in pain or something
they may wanna care about you,
but they just they can't because
all they can do is see their own
pain or feel their own thing that's going on.
I mean, they just can't right now.
That's why they really just don't have empathy
or care for somebody else because
they just can't at that moment.
So number one is they just only care about themselves.
Number two or if we're work working our way backwards,
number four, and then we're going to number three,
their things, which by the way,
So they care about you in the sense
that you are a possession to them.
You're just like, almost like a jar on a shelf
and you know, they wanna kinda take you down
and use whatever supply they can
get out of you if they still can,
that's why they kinda move on to a better form if
you know, there's not much
left that they can get out of you,
where they pick the bones off the
carcass or the meat off the bones
and if there's nothing left,
then go to get another source.
Possessions is number two that there's stuff,
there things you know, don't touch
my things and think you know.
I mean, they hoard things.
They hoard whatever they can.
They hoard money and I have a whole video
on why narcissists hoard money.
Definitely check that out.
They hoard things.
You know, they're ery scarcity minded.
They have a very scarcity mentality.
Not an abundance mentality at all.
Number three or number two if we're
working our way backwards.
Four, three, two, we're working our way up to number one.
Power is something that they
actually care about very much so.
Control, power,
their kingdom.
You know, especially the ones that are very successful.
They have big kingdoms and they
will protect their little kingdoms
and they don't really go out of their
realm of their kingdom that often
because they wanna stick within the kingdom
that they have built and they you know.
That's why they're so driven to success to have
and create kingdoms because they
want to make sure that they create a
kingdom that they can control.
So having power, having that control,
having that control over people and
you know, they they degrade people.
They they debate people.
They do that sort of thing.
They diminish people.
You know, in order to maintain that power,
to maintain that control.
So that's number two.
If we're gonna way up to number one, which we are.
And you know, it is so time for you to SLAY.
You know, SLAY is the name of my program.
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We are working our way up to number one.
Number one thing,
the narcissist actually care about what?
They will protect and defend that at any cost.
Any cost.
That's the only thing they really really care about.
How they look,
how they look to the world,
how they look to their new form of supply,
how they look to the best form of supply,
how they look to people that they
respect image is absolutely
everything to a narcissist.
Everything.
They're literally obsessed with their image.
You know, having the right friends,
the best houses,
the best cars,
most prestigious jobs.
All of that sort of thing is
absolutely the most important thing
to a narcissist image.
Number one.
Alright.
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