Today I’m going to share 3 Texts that will make a man fall in love with you. So, if you’re
dating a person and you want to keep him thinking about you, smiling, and falling in love with
you, you’ve gotta see these texts. So don’t go anywhere, because we are starting in 4
seconds.
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the three texts to make a man fall in love with you.
More and more, it seems that texting is our preferred method of communicating… and that’s
for a number of reasons. Texting is direct, efficient, and doesn’t require the formal
chit chat that is typical of phone calls. Texting is the fastest way get a communication
to another person And, has become the go to tool for people who are dating and starting
to get to know one another. And it works.. When used properly, texting can do everything
from spicing up a relationship to promoting respect and value. Texting isn’t going anywhere,
if anything, it’s getting more popular, so it’s in your best interest to become
good at creating or maintaining attraction via text messages.
Do you want to make your man smile excitedly when he hears a text notification from you?
Do you want him to eagerly await your next message? Do you want to make keep him smiling
and missing you when you aren’t with him? Well, then your texts need to stimulate him
emotionally…just enough… So, without further ado, here are the three types of texts to
send that will make him smile, miss you more, and make him fall in love with you. Oh and
then I’m also going to share the one…the most important rule that you must follow when
sending any text to your man. So make sure you watch until the end.
1. Compliment or Praise Him. Compliments make anyone feel good… but men probably don’t
get compliments too often. Think about it… guys don’t usually compliment each other
unless playing a sport on the same team… I mean we just don’t tell each other that
their hair looks great today… or that a color is really nice on them. And many women
friends only compliment a guy in a flirty way when he’s treating them like he has
a crush on them.
So when you say something nice to a guy now and then, be it a friend you like or your
new boyfriend, he’ll definitely remember it and feel more appreciated too.
So, What types of compliments are best… well, I’ll tell you what I like….haha
kidding.. not kidding
Specific compliments that appeal to his sense of masculinity, sexuality, intelligence, accomplishments,
and sense of humor work well.. For example.. if you were to text him something like;…
“I always feel safe when I’m in your arms”, you will be appealing to his masculinity and
his protective instincts.. he will certainly be smiling and feeling proud of himself when
he reads a text like that.
Or, send him a text that compliments his sense of humor. This is a big one for me… I’m
not sure why, but I love knowing that people think I’m funny. When a women tells me that…
wow.. I certainly feel super proud, it makes me happy and…… it makes me want to see
them.. spend time with them and make them laugh.
So keep in mind.. these are texts that you are going to send spontaneously and they are
going to be specific. … if your man is funny and you always laugh when you’re together…
let him know in a text like this… “It’s so great when we are together. You always
have me cracking up”
2. Send him a text that creates sexual tension. We experience intense emotions whenever we’re
thinking about or anticipating things that are to come – especially sex. So, When texting
and flirting with your man, help him to develop fantasies that remind him of what sleeping
with you is like. And focus on the effects of your physical attraction by creating an
image for him to think about.
Remember showing something is more effective than telling. So for example, you might want
to let your man know how you’re feeling when you were daydreaming of your last night
together. Rather than saying something like, that was Hot, or I’m turned on, you can
describe something hot by the reactions from “hotness.” So you might describe a physical
or mental reaction that you’re having at the moment and include words that describe
sensations in your body… words like tingling, flushing, feeling faint, sensations in different
parts of your body, heart beating… an inability to speak, a stutter, ..
* For example… Casually mention that you were just thinking about him while in the
shower and now your heart is beating fast and you have flushing sensations in parts
of your body. Be open. Or say, "I can't stop thinking about how you looked the other
night… it’s making me feel faint." Again, use words that describe how you feel
physically… paint a picture of the way you’re feeling. This has a powerful effect because
he is going to be imagining what you tell him… so make it good.
3. Texts that Make him remember a powerful memory or experience you’ve shared together.
Remind him of a special time in your relationship where you felt super close and special. you’re
going to text him and help him recall this powerful memory you’ve shared together.
And you’re going to get really detailed so that he will be able to see the memory
flashed in his head like a movie. For example.. Let him know you just drove
past the place you first kissed, or that you heard a song that reminded you of when you
went on your first date. Use vivid and descriptive language and Give lots of detail and tell
him what it meant to you. Make him smile, make him reminisce and make him remember why
you two are so good together.
And most importantly… the most important rule that applies to all texts.. Before you
send a text, I want you to ask yourself if he’s going to know right away who it came
from. Ask yourself if you’re showing your personality, your sense of humor, your own
style of writing –all the things that make you and your relationship unique. If it could
have come from any other woman in his contacts list, delete it and start again. That means…
so….texts like… hey.. sup? Make sure that even if your name was deleted, he would know
the text is from you.
Ok… now that I’ve shared the three types of powerful text messages with you, it’s
your turn to weigh in. Do you have text messages that you’ve sent to your man that have had
a profound affect on your relationship? Or have you tried any of the ones that I’ve
described? How did they work out for you. I’d love to hear from you, so please share
in the comments section below. Oh, and please feel free to ask any dating or relationship
related questions down there too. I’ll be sure to give you a personal reply.
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