Falling in love with someone is the easiest part staying in love is not as
simple or is it in today's video I reveal five secret passion and devotion
builders but not only make him fall more in love with you they'll keep you both
satisfied to the core at the beginning of every great relationship
sexy heartwarming passionate love is like a fire running through your veins
but when things cool off and routine sets in you might wonder how to keep
your love alive how do you avoid taking each other for granted and not
completely lose that feeling of wanting interest wonder and desire well in a
moment you're in luck I'm going to answer those questions and many more so
stay with me as we talk about real ways you can make love grow and hang in there
to the end as I have a FREE GIFT for you that will help you to put all of this
into practice if you're new here I'm Nadine Piat, a confidence dating and
lasting attraction coach for smart savvy women and the founder of Healthy You
Healthy Love. Please be sure to comment below and let me know if there's
anything specific that you'd like help with and if there's a topic you'd like
me to do a video on I want to find out who you are and what your needs are so I
can support you on your path to passionate and compatible love and when
it comes to this topic please share with me in the comments below your struggles
and triumphs when it comes to keeping the love alive in your relationships
present or past so what are these five secret passion builders I can tell you
what they're not they are not elaborate not expensive and they're not anything
you're not want to do for your loved one they transcend the bedroom and they are
things you can do anywhere anytime these are ways to show him that you value your
relationship and that you value and appreciate him as an individual now I
want you to think about what tends to happen when couples grow used to each
other and life becomes a very predictable routine firstly routine can
be great though not when we take each other for granted healthy love lasting
requires both of you to poke the routine enough to create some positive intrigue
and tension because for a relationship to thrive for eternity it needs the
right kind of attention and nourishment and on a regular basis if you're in a
long-term relationship or you're just starting out in a new one and you want
to keep moving from strength to sexy strength then these are the secrets to
long lasting l.o.v.e number one be present technology is so handy and
sometimes it makes us disconnected and even rude without realizing it
get off your devices when you want to connect with your man Tech's can wait
emails can wait and Instagram and Facebook can definitely wait life can be
busy and stress can stop us from being present with our partner and yet we can
still make time quality time I'll share a story that will help a couple of know
both had extremely busy lives particularly the man which made it
difficult to spend a lot of time together he was working full-time and
also studying so to avoid one or both of them building resentment feeling
disconnected and shortchange of love and affection each day when they got home
from work they would lie down together Kol and tell each other about their day
so there was touch and 100% attention for each other this worked brilliantly
as I had found a way to connect amongst the chaos of life and commitments they
did this for about 10 to 15 minutes before he went to study for a number of
hours even though it wasn't long it was quality connecting which filled them up
until they could get some a longer time together so what does this mean for you
find ways to be more present with your men and be there for each other often
it's about quality over quantity to support you with this I have a gift
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The next love and passion is #2 Appreciation & Affection
= Intimacy Magic -- A powerful way to show love with your man is to appreciate
him in ways that make him feel seen and valued it could be helping him by doing
things for him maybe something he doesn't like to do it could be giving
each other a massage it could be verbally sharing kind words of gratitude
and appreciation it could be cooking for each other or making each other a cup of
tea did you notice I said each other this video is about supporting and
nurturing both of you then there is affection when couples have been
together for a while affection isn't always something that's high on the list
and yet affection is so necessary for love so make an effort to touch and hug
each other it releases oxytocin so be sure to hug and touch for longer than 20
seconds regularly some couples might have sex though rarely show each other
affection any other time make sure to touch each other regularly
outside of the bedroom it will help with the connection in the bedroom too number
3 give him freedom let your man breathe outside interests do not detract from
your relationship now this is not just about him and his interests I suggest
you both spread your creative wings and invest time and interests outside of
work and the relationship when done mindfully this adds some variety into
your lives which you can tell each other about later so you still make time for
each other while making time for yourselves allowing you both to feel
fulfilled on all levels basically let him engage in his own interests and
don't ask him to sacrifice personal interests for you
this frees resentment if you're feeling that he want to do things without me to
get away from you then you're probably not giving him enough space and here's
the but what if you feel he's selfish about his interests and they tend to
rule his life well you don't feel that your needs are taken into consideration
well you then need to master the next point. #4 learn how to manage
conflict well when you learn how to express your emotions with grace and
dignity and when you choose your battles carefully you'll realize that not every
issue is an issue yet every issue does have a solution
don't fight to be right rather focus on a solution and avoid a fight altogether
when you overcome your ego you will allow for vulnerability and a values
based conversation to take place this allows you to arrive at a place of
mutual understanding and harmony fast and yet there are specific ways to do
this I have two videos on this very topic that expands on this in great
detail the links to these videos are below in the description they are how to
resolve conflict and have a healthy relationship and the weed way to know if
he's the one this is powerful stuff so check them out after you watch this or
save them to watch later the reason why managing conflict is so critical for
lasting devotion and passion is the way we communicate and show understanding is
what binds two people together now for my last point number five surprising who
doesn't love a little bit of mystery and mystery and surprises come in all shapes
and sizes such as small little gifts his favorite chocolate a muffin and magazine
fruity love's and so on suggested ly something a little unexpected what about
some secret little love notes some sweet some sexy why not a mix of both why not
be sexually open to try new things nothing like a bit of variety in the
bedroom or maybe you need to get back to basics and actually connect so many
people have sex because they think they should at least once in a while and yet
there is no connection it's a formality maybe it's time to start seeing each
other and actually being present for each other in this way time for some
rediscovering in fact in my program Unlock HIs Heart I have a technique
called mind-sex that teaches women how to emotionally connect with a man were
also boosting the passion between you the link to Unlock His Heart is in the
description below. There are so many powerful techniques in this program that
can quite quickly transform your relationship so if you haven't got it
yet check it out I think you'll well there you have it five ways to keep
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