hi everyone. hello. today we have a fun q&a all about making a baby. yeah we we filtered our
questions and a ton of them were about having kids so we decided we will just
put them all together into one video. you guys are a bunch of perverts. not perverted questions they're
cute and nice. i have a question to begin but it's not on the list but it's very relevant. do i
shane burcaw accept the responsibility of hand delivering the baby by myself?
i've been thinking about this a lot and i think once i have my jaco arm i will be more than capable
of delivering our first child okay i'm just going to use the jaco to pull it right out. yes I accept.
okay before we begin which we're beginning now i just want everybody to see my nope shirt
oh i love it one of our followers sent it to me so great shirt i love it wonderful
very very hannah yep shirt yep i should have said nope when you talked about delivering the
baby oh yeah missed opportunity. i know nope let's redo it ready hi
okay um these are in no particular order i probably should have put them in a better order
so that we're gonna be jumping like alphabetical no i should have put them in chronological
you know like like when will you have kids then do you have baby names then what about
delivery you know whatever i mean we didn't so bouncing around okay first question that
i wrote down are you worried that shane won't be able to parent a child someone asked are you no
it wasn't specifically me it was like to both of us are we worried that you won't be able to
be an effective parent what do you think no we have some friends with either sma or you
know other disabilities that are parents we've seen them in action we've seen their wonderful
kids we've had people write into us who uh have parents with disabilities who are like you know
you guys are gonna be amazing parents obviously this is gonna be different physically a little bit
like when the kid is three years old i will not be able to pick it up off the ground yeah but i i can
do every other aspect of parenting yeah i will instill in it values yeah good values hopefully
uh i will teach it i will love it i you know plenty of jokes everything that a parent does to
raise their child and set them up for success i can do yeah i get a free pass on not having to
change diapers i know all right baby names so many people asked us if we have baby names
picked out kira oh my god that was the name that i couldn't remember the other day oh yeah
shane loves that name k i i think k i r a is how i like it spelled not k e i r a no kira i think this
stems from shane's love of keira knightley no that is a different name that's kee-ear-uh
i want kira. it's keira knightley yeah you're saying keeeera here i'm saying kira anyway k-i-r-a
is gonna be one of our kids i don't really care about we have not decided any of these i really
like the name ellie i really like the name no you really like the name ava yeah we don't really have
any boys names picked out but so does everyone ava is the most popular i know baby name right now
that's what shane wanted to name chloe was ava um and i i said that that's a weird name for a dog at
least in my i don't know i just thought ava was an odd name for a dog we were thinking a little one
teensy-tiny. we're going for the alternative naming blueberry blueberry just a list of numbers
um yeah i can't really i don't know why we don't have any boys names picked out that might i mean
someone else asked us so we can just do that now are we hoping for a boy or a girl yeah like maybe
the baby names that we picked suggest a girl you know imagining a girl i think i'm imagining a girl i
i want a girl but i'm sure that the second we find out that it's a boy will be like just as
excited so in my imaginations of like chasing our kids around the backyard but sounds like
i'm terrorizing them playing with them in my head it's always like boys and girls yeah it's and
there's lots of them oh god the backyard is filled to the brim they're trying to climb over the fence
no but the fence is too high they're forming a human ladder to lift each other over the fence
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how will hannah take care of shane and a baby and there was like lots of variations on this
question like do you guys have plans for when you're pregnant like lots of lots of questions
i think there's two main solutions a we're going to probably hire a caregiver for
some amount of time during the pregnancy and afterwards probably not a full-time caregiver
yeah but someone that comes in probably morning morning and night and helps with my like bed
routine so that's one yeah other two is family support yeah my mom is definitely going to be a
presence in our lives when we have a baby which i mean i think a lot of parents you know come
come stay with you or visit often when you have a baby um so we'll definitely have our
parents support i'm sure your parents will be involved when we are there and when they
visit here and hannah's mom already knows how to do my care and she can lift me um
so that is like two important check boxes yeah uh that are checked off so that's really helpful
to know that she's available and happy to help yeah we'll figure it out yeah when will you be
having kids this was another common one i think all of these are like i think a lot of people
want to know all of these this is so hard to answer because i have such a strong suspicion
that we're going to like tell you our plan for like the timing and then it will change won't be
that you know yeah it'll be unexpectedly sooner or other life events will happen and it'll be
later it's so hard to know exactly we feel pretty ready yeah but we have our i think the main thing
that you lots of you already know is that we have our wedding coming up in august like our
wedding celebration with our family and friends which fingers crossed can take place safely um
and so like that is now eight months away it you know the the dress is really affecting our decision to have kids
i want to wear that dress i think if there is no like
wedding ceremony we might be doing it now yeah but hannah has to fit into her dress
so oh this kind of leads into another question would you ever adopt a kid because in this
you know talking about how like hiring a caregiver for when i'm pregnant and me not
fitting into the dress we have discussed what if we adopted a kid yeah and like even if we do have
a biological kid and i'm pregnant later like you know it doesn't have to be that's first right so
in the disabilities community um there is a an understanding that disabled children often have
a very hard time getting adopted yeah so a lot of orphanages um or foster homes have disabled
children yeah um this is a worldwide not just US yeah so we've talked about you know we are capable
of taking care of a child with a disability yeah so we could do that yeah um that's something we
talked about a lot yes so yes to that question we would have to we are definitely open to adopting
kids we just haven't you know began either path we're still just talking about it another aspect
of adopting a kid that we've talked about is that there might be some difficulties adopting because
of shane's disability whether that disqualifies him from adopting from like an entire country if
we were doing an international adoption or if we were doing like a private domestic adoption if it
disqualifies him from being like just picked by a parent you know or if we're doing foster care
if he's deemed uh you know it's just it really it could affect it there is that stigma that
you know a disabled person can't adequately fulfill the duties of parenthood yeah so there
are countries that like just don't allow disabled people to adopt yeah but there are others that do
yeah we know disabled parents who have adopted yeah so it's doable but just another complication
exactly all right this is a nice question what's the biggest lesson you want to teach your children
i think being open-minded oh yeah uh mine will be how to tell a joke
with a deadpan affect not laughing even when you know you're being absolutely hilarious
that is the biggest lesson and open-mindedness but i want them to be funny if our kids aren't funny
wow do i even really consider them my children no i'm sure they'll be funny yeah i think
open-mindedness you know yeah caring about other people and curiosity yeah i want our kids to
like want to learn yeah you know okay do you ever feel too young to be married and thinking about
having kids i think people think you're younger than you are i'm 28 i'm like old does everyone
know shane's 28 yeah i think that's a very average age q a how old is shane i will be 25 in a matter
of days wow hannah's birthday is december 12th it's coming up everyone say happy birthday to
hannah not yet ahead of time not yet guys it's not yet my birthday but i am almost 25. we definitely
don't feel too young to be married yeah um we've been living together for two and a half years
so not a whole lot feels different about being married but having kids yeah yeah we go back
and forth on that that's like a big consideration definitely it's like are we are we ready to begin
that part of our life yeah and we don't really have any friends that are doing that right now
you know most of our friends i mean your brother's married yeah um but like all of my friends from
college are not married right now so it's yeah it's kind of funny looking at like our friends
and the differences and where we are but i think in our you know if you don't think about those
like societal expectations and what other people expect of you then no we're not we don't feel
out of it because we are very happy with where we are yeah we feel like personally mature and
yeah responsible and able enough to handle a child. how many kids do you guys want we kind of touched
on this i think more than one a few yeah i think it'll really depend on when we begin and we're
like this is you know depends how the first one goes yeah literally it does and like you know
shane's parents had like him and his brother close together i'm far apart from my brothers so like
you know the spacing kind of depends it's a big difference having like three that are two years
apart and three there are ten years apart so i think it you know we'll just have to see how it
plays out but yeah more than one i think we like the idea of siblings yeah yeah all right two more
do you think you will move when you have kids live houses after the fact right i don't know they just
said do you think you will move when you have kids i think we'll move before we have kids because
this house isn't really equipped for my wheelchair and therefore not great uh my parents are just
like i can't get to the basement so if the kids are playing downstairs
yeah i can't really do anything else yeah yeah and you can't get into the bathroom you know
you want to be able to be there when we're like giving our baby a bath for the first time yeah i
think we're going to move into a more suitable house before we have kids or at least you know
shortly thereafter around that time yeah all right last question what is your biggest worry
about having a child and then they wrote during pregnancy birth after question mark
i think i'm terrified of like pregnancy and birth just down down right i'm just really
scared of having uh like i don't like being nauseous so that like terrifies me
like having morning sickness or like worse if i just have like nausea all the time i don't want
like the baby to kick me and like my brother broke my mom's rib like i don't want that to
happen to me that sounds like an actual nightmare sounds scary i'm a little disturbed about that
the physical aspects yeah um otherwise i think i would enjoy being pregnant like that
sounds so magical and wonderful but also i'm horrified at the idea of it yeah i don't even
i don't even want to think about birth mine's more like just you know you you don't know how
to be a good parent like ahead of time ahead of time yeah like i'm worried that we would like
to do the wrong thing and they can grow up to like murder people you know like honestly
that's gonna happen obviously i know that like you love it and you take care of it but it's like the
smaller details yeah of like if the kid asked me something and i say slightly the wrong thing
what domino effect will that have in its life 30 years down the road yeah you can read parenting
books when the kids like remember when dad said not to look out the windows after dark
well don't tell them that but something my point is like i say someday like innocuous yeah
and then it messes them up has a really big effect on their life i don't think that's gonna
happen i don't think that works that way but you you i think will be a big fan of parenting books
you know reading them figuring out how to handle different situations different techniques yeah i
think that's going to be your thing for a while putting them into a spreadsheet yeah if the
baby says this we will respond my options are so yeah i think i think that's uh that's true good
summary of our yeah about baby thoughts right have any more questions about you know having us having
kids or whatever anything that we didn't answer feel free to comment it we'll try to respond
or make another video if you guys there's a ton yeah but otherwise we'll try to respond
individually yeah we'll see so that's where we're at yeah thank you again yeah hope y'all have a
wonderful weekend bye i think this is coming out on a friday oh have a good weekend bye everyone