Why walking away can be the best decision you ever make!
Learn why walking away from difficult people can lead to the best outcomes... discover how to
make the most of difficult decisions and create a life you truly love! Welcome to The SCG Show! This
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I love the subject of "The Power of Walking Away" firstly because I've got personal experience
in doing so! Let's say someone's in a toxic relationship, they're miserable, unsatisfied,
depressed and disrespected... the decision to stay with such a person is wrong in my opinion
because you'll never be good enough for the wrong person!
Other reasons why it's foolish to stay in a toxic relationship are as follows = Staying in
a toxic relationship can cause mental problems such as anxiety, depression and more! You may find
yourself making excuses for the other person's bad behavior which may lead to a lack of self-esteem.
You may begin to lose faith in yourself, your decisions and life the longer you stay. You
may start to feel trapped in the relationship and be afraid to leave, because of the cycle of abuse.
The relationship could have a negative impact on your work, studies, friendships and family.
Staying in the relationship could affect your physical health, leading to issues such
as fatigue, insomnia and high blood pressure... If that's not inspiration enough to walk away
then I'd be very shocked to hear otherwise! I am sure there are reasons you want to stay,
plenty of excuses, I'm sure it's most likely not the right time or you're dreading the
thought of it entirely. When I say to you personally the moment I walked away from
a toxic relationship a few years ago, it was one of the best decisions of my life and the bravest,
and I am not exaggerating. I felt really liberated... I still do to this day all these years later.
I felt so free and I want others so badly to feel that same level of euphoria and
freedom too! Here's why walking away can be the best decision you ever make!
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Walking away from toxic people can give you a fresh start and allow you to move on and create
a better future...but when we're deep in the mire of a toxic relationship for example, our
decisions, mindset becomes completely clouded... we don't think straight or logically or rationally
We are and probably for the first time in our adult lives all over the place,
as we try to make even simple decisions as to what to eat, where or watch on TV.
Back in my toxic relationship I wasn't myself... I felt like I was in a prison.
I remember towards the end casually excusing their bad behavior and treatment towards me
with "Well this is my life now, just grin and bear it SCG." I saw no light at the end of the
tunnel, I saw no hope, no matter what I tried to do. I saw no opportunity for change or growth at all...
but the moment I finally walked away, the moment I said goodbye something incredible happened
those next few days. I felt like I was reborn, that I reclaimed my life again. I felt like my authentic
self "I'm back" I said to myself smiling, walking down the street... free from the prison of the toxic
relationship. Walking away is so powerful because you can get your life back, and deciding how you
wish to move forward as well... you can do what you want, you can date who you want, or not date at all,
you can see who you want on your terms, you can now say what you want, you can eat what you want,
you can drink what you want, you can wear what you want ....enjoy that liberating feeling of the
fresh start which comes from walking away from the wrong person and staying away from them as well!
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Walking away will ensure you're able to stay true to yourself... it will help you make better decisions
in the long run too. Check out this email from a subscriber of mine = "I just knew despite seven years
dating my partner he was wrong for me. From the very moment we met something felt off with him. I
never felt true happiness or love. I never trusted him at all. I never saw a future with him. We never
shared the same values or morals. I felt like I was forcing him and myself to get along and connect
better than we truthfully did. We were a bad match and I only see that now after I have walked away."
Can you relate to this scenario, because I certainly can! For me in my past toxic relationship
it happened a multitude of times, there are plenty of scenarios where I just felt off, my stomach
churning as the things she was coming out with was just wrong, the idea she shared about life, family,
the world... I would cringe and think to myself "Good Lord SCG what do you see in this person?"
We shared no mutual interests, no mutual ideas, no mutual values and there was no connection...
and every single time an incident would occur and she'd expose herself to be the
complete opposite for me, I chose to ignore it... worse I made excuses for it.
When I walked away I recalled the incidents and disagreements that caused us to clash so much,
and I realized that is not me or what I believe in. How can you honestly have a relationship and
grow and build something meaningful with someone who's not in alignment with you? How can you buy
a home with them? How can you live with them? How can you raise children with a person like that?
I believe you can't truthfully... in order to stay true to yourself you must walk away!
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stress and improve your mental health as well as give you time to heal and recover from everything.
How is that not an incredibly positive decision to make? Imagine someone promising you the following =
How would you like to experience less stress and drama and have more mental clarity and comfort
in your life? Sign me up! Toxic relationships can lead to a sense of insecurity and sadness due to
the other person's behavior... constant fighting or arguments will take a toll on your mental health.
You may find yourself always walking on eggshells or feeling like you're constantly being on your
guard. You may feel like you're always trying to please the other person and meet their
expectations. The other person may make you feel unsafe, uncomfortable and trigger feelings of fear
You may feel like you have no control over the relationship... you can't express yourself
The other person may have a negative impact on your confidence and self-worth... you may have become
exhausted trying to keep the relationship working and on the verge of being burnt out.
At the time of walking away and enduring the toxic relationship I had, I never signed up
to therapy which is something I regret... but it was honestly no surprise at all that my mental health
suffered immensely the longer I stayed. Sadly most empathetic people who go through toxic
relationships do this, therefore the only logical healthy best decision to make is to walk away.
Years later despite many setbacks and stresses in life, mentally I'm in a better place...
with far less stress, especially less stress for my new relationship. What a decision it is to walk
away from a mental health point of view. This might seem blatantly obvious but walking away
can be the best decision you ever make because you have the opportunity to find a better relationship!
Now of course some people sadly keep repeating the same mistakes, finding the wrong people and
the same times that is because they've not properly healed or done the work on
themselves to identify what's going on inside of them. To attract such people in the first place
however those who do or who make a solemn vow never to have a toxic relationship again
they have a far better chance of finding maintaining and experiencing a better relationship!
Years after walking away, healing doing a hell of a lot of work and of course staying
no contact and never going back, I managed to attract the best relationship I've ever had...
and so have many subscribers of this channel and every single day. I'm proud of myself for making
the best decision ever to walk away from the wrong person... hopefully that inspires you to do the same
The grass particularly in these circumstances is certainly greener!