Brazilian men, most of the time, they have rhythm. They know how to move right
They all do! They they will call you names, they will like touch you. They
will put your head and they would slap your ass also like really hard.
All right my name is Hayanna and Im from Sao Paulo - I'm Hayanna
and I'm from Guyana. I'm Lucas, and I'm from spiritual Santa Bella.
Even when Brazilian women they are not speaking - they are clearly sending you
a messages. You just have to learn how to read them. I see the way that she's looking at me. I see the
hair flick you know? I see, I see. They're so funny and all of that. So is that true? It is sure. Do it, do it! WOW!
If we are interested in you, we want to make 100% sure that you will know. I think it's a Latino
thing. Yeah, we're too much. If you're gonna flirt with the Brazilian woman if you're interested
you know show her that you're interested but don't do the hair thing. I still think that's creepy even
If you're in Brazil man the hair, that like is so beautiful - don't do that - don't touch her hair!
I would remember parties like they were grabbing my hair. I hated that! Yeah that thing or when or
when they grab your waist like, "Oh come here" like what am I an object right now?! They think they have
so much confidence that they can just grab you. And then even you just look at them and you're
like "N". Then they would think that that "No" mean "yes" but it's like "NO". Like just don't know like -
there's this one time I went clubbing with my friend and he's like touching this girl's hair.
Out of nowhere he's like "hey you're so beautiful." I'm like, "Bro, you're not in Brazil!" Brazilian girls
are already used to men approaching them that way. Yeah and they're also used to being like
"back off". Be extra nice and extra friendly like compliment a woman. Definitely don't the touching
Um wait until it gets to that point right.
"The bar!"
They just literally take you out to a bar that is like right there in the corner. They sit
down on the sidewalk and drink like a drama. Yeah - Budweiser or whatever, I don't know how I say that.
That's the best date. Oh yes it's so easy to just get to know someone and there is always
a party going on somewhere. There is always a bar right at the corner that you can meet someone
and also is way more informal than here. So if you want to go on a date, which date is already.
It's something that we don't actually have. I think nowadays is being implemented in our culture
but you just usually invite someone to hang out.
From what I hear other women saying about us, they like the confidence, the more social style.
Most of the guys that I know, they're funny. If you're dating a Brazilian you need to be used
to be loved - yeah - so much. A lot. They would do everything. They would make you feel so much
special. Everything's so like intense, like we touch. Yeah - we look into each other's eyes, hugging all the time.
All the time. No Brazilian guys they are players. We know that.
We know that! They have at least three girls, four girls at the same time.
Not at the same time, as in like hours. At the same time as in talking to them. Talking to and
saying the same thing to each girl. Girls do the same thing - no - come on!
To connect. They don't propose to you like - you be dating the guy for months, if they don't propose
you so then when you ask them, "Okay so are we officially dating? -" Yeah they yeah. And then they're
like, "yeah you're my girlfriend". No, lke how - if we're your girlfriend,yeah like you
didn't it topropose me yet! And they used for the long time just with "fikandu" that means like "seeing each
other". That's literally what it says but then it's weird because it can be actually hooking up with each
other but yeah. That is what I am for you for a year?! And they're like, "Oh no you're my girlfriend now".
But they like, they tend to be very jealous from personal experience. Men, all women are jealous yes
I was about to say that. I was about to say, I think European women - they are more independent and they
are not so jealousy - jealous and controlling. I would say but Latinos in general, and that goes
both ways for men and women, but women jesus man - oh they can be jealous! Sure it's easier to be
jealous than if you were here maybe. It's expected even. Yeah like that like the whole touching thing
and like being friendlier. It's, I guess - it's kind of harder to read. When you're in Brazil right
Because everybody is like that. So it's like, is this person being a flirty with you or not?
It's gonna be intense. It's gonna be loud. It's gonna be very verbal. You're gonna know what she wants even when
she doesn't speak, she's sending you a message. You have a temper. I think most of Brazilian women we
do have a temper like - don't test it. Yeah, because we will show you how the hot-blood comes from. Some people
or some cultural, uh some cultures think that Brazilian girls are like too "out there". Yes - When
they're not because they're so used to everybody already being like more social and more touchy. Not
in a sexual way, like the tapping the shoulder or hugging. If I just met her I could be like ah like
laugh with her. She wouldn't be like, "oh my god yeah creepy guy", like "why is he hugging me?"
you know. She would just be like oh you know we're having a good time. We're laughing. it's just "carinho".
Oh yes! He's amazed like right like, I i really missed that. Like I
really really missed that Brazilian kiss. You need to be prepared. Yeah to like to
feel the tongue in your mouth like it's gonna go exploring all the way over there.
It's gonna like clean you, gonna bite you a little bit, suck your tongue a little bit. And the hands!
It's a whole experience!
It's the chemistry that you have in the first kiss. We Brazilians, we are the best kissers -
ever in the whole world! No? You disagree?
It varies from person to person. Like I've kissed Brazilian girls that were terrible kissers but
I've kissed Brazilian girls that were like amazing kissers. I will kiss different than Allen would kiss
you know I mean? And then hopefully there's only one way to find out, Allen! Whatever I'm a good kisser
I like to kiss. It's something that I really like. I really enjoy slowly but patiently. I don't kiss
like in Carnival like oh let's just keep - but I don't like to do that. It's like you don't
sometimes you don't say too much you just look as like wow, "you're so hot" and then you just like
just like. It's just the passionate taste and then you like you go like this. Yeah and the person going
that way. Like that's it, you never saw that person in your entire life again but you still have like
20 minutes making out and it's a passion making out. I think most of the times you start just
kissing you don't even think about it. I think sex and kiss is not a related thing. If you don't kiss good
most of times we won't go to bed. Yeah but if it - if you do, if you're good. but I'm like what's next?
You need to be expected to be like a whole performance. They will! They would do like
a whole thing. It's not sex worth presenting even if in the first stage. It's not just sex. It's like
A whole. I think that is how they like "you know i'm gonna show her!". Everything they can
do and they push you down. That move, I love. Brazilian men's most of the time they have
rhythm. They know how to [moves} right?Their heads. They all do. They will call you names.
They will like touch you. They pull your hair and they would slap your ass, also, like really
hard. Yeah you feel prepared to like oh i'm gonna have sex now you need to be aware that that sex
that you start like one hour we will go to like five hours. Like easily. 30 minutes break. And then
if you're still hanging out with the person. He's like, "Hello! Are you ready again?"
It's a bit again, it's a passion in it. Yeah It's like amazing. That is how much I want you.
In Brazil, I have had girls telling me look if you're not gonna [ __ ] me for at least one hour
don't even bother coming here, alright? I have had girls telling me that - okay. And I got here and
we like being intimate for like 20 minutes and the girl comes to me, is like, "Are you okay? like
is everything going all right?" It's just such a different rhythm because in Brazil the experiences.
In my experience, girls expect you to last a long period of time or until they are like
completely satisfied. And here in Canada it's more straight to the point. Listen, I don't have all day.
Okay. So wrap it up! Oh Brazilian women, they are so more passionate
and they are so more verbal and they participate throughout the whole process you know what I mean.
And some other "cochas", they are more like, you know what - you're gonna do the job. I'm just [leans back to relax].
It's literally a contact that you have on your phone. That if you
give a phone call at 2 AM, you know they're gonna come and they're gonna help you
with whatever you need. It's basically, it's basically [__], are we still allowed
to say that on Youtube? If you're looking for a contact instagram lucas underscore bertolino.
Have you seen this guy's profile picture?
Oh my god! He's like - he's like photoshopped! He's like the Ryan Gosling of Brazil.
Women love, love white men with blue eyes. Yes so and basically, all gringos - you get a
get a point, plus one. Because they will look at you and like, "oh my god you're so handsome"! We always want something different.
Oh to be honest, I never dated a gringo. A Canadian guy. Really? Really. Why?
I remember when I arrived here. My friends in Brazil asked, "Oh how the boys?" and I said, "man I don't know -
kind of ugly". Because, it's so weird like the guys. They're like afraid of you or they they look like
they they don't want to do anything with you. I think Brazilians, we love eye contact. We do eye
contact. We look at you. It's like so, how's going on a date. Like you know, your smile is beautiful and they [Canadian men]
just don't do anything. I don't even go to a second date with a guy like that. I was the one chasing the gringos
and like I did not want to have a relationship with the Brazilians as much as I could but
then now i think I missed that part. I missed the intimacy that a Brazilian would give you.
Like if they wanna, I don't know for five minutes.Iff he's in break from work he will make sure to
text you and say "I love you, I miss you". Exactly. And Canadians, they don't do that until I don't know
two years of a relationship. They actually become I think vulnerable. Brazilian men are vulnerable.
Brazilian men, they are so picky about beauty. Are they? Yes! They want you to be like a superstar -
like a model. We're very very concerned with our bodies like we do everything about it. We spend
a lot of money on it so yeah, plastic surgery. uh makeup and the way we dress up, just like cleavage.
Of course, we're always showing off curves. Yeah, I think that we show the curves a lot. There's so
much options for men there. There's like you're a single guy. You go to a club. There's like 10 girls and
there's only you. I think like because there's more competition, they're going to compete against one
another. They're going to work out to be the best. Perfume. They spend so much so much money on that.
Thank god! Yeah, no thank you - like they always want to have showers together yeah for some reason.
In other cultures it's different but like we like to take like at least one shower a day.
And if you're like at least one yeah actually - at least one shower everyday. Yes yeah
Even if it's minus 25 outside yeah you have to shower. I think that will look really weird
this this will sound so weird. I'm going to get some hate but it's true.
When I make the person that I am with, like, "you are mine - you belong to me but in a nice way".
You know me, I got my pieces. Oh we talked a lot. We're always like you know yeah
yeah touching like I don't know. Nickname! like nicknames like "linda", "princesa".
In a restaurant, oh I bet money they will like put a chair next to you! To be like it's not
like this [gestures]. It's like this, yes. And then, it's the whole time in the bar like this yeah and then you kiss.
and then you guess so - this is really shocking - overwhelming to someone that is not
used to someone that wants to grab you all time. She could be like "please [stop]". You know, we
embrace everyone. Like as themselves. We would have appreciated them like trying to.
Because here, everything is about the system and I think back home it's just
go with the flow. Life is about that. If you just sit down and think about the shit -
You don't go anywhere. Its a bunch of shit down there but it's the most happy place to be
Cheers! Cheers!