So, we are being dead serious.
Keep it real, mom.
>> I am real all the time.
>> Is Daniel really your
favorite?
>> Yes.
>> Oh, Jeannie.
>> Her brother Daniel and her
mom in the popular YouTube
series.
>> She is so cute.
>> She is funny.
She moved in after I got
divorced and she hasn't moved
out.
She was there to support me.
I'm good mom.
I'm straight now.
>> I'm good, you see this hat.
>> You guys look like sisters.
>> You think so?
They say Asian, no raising.
>> Like a black don't crack.
>> What do you guys got.
>> We brown, don't frown.
>> I have a spray tan so --
>> You look good.
>> Congratulations.
So funny.
I have known Jean any for a
while.
She said what is up with the
gf.
>> Oh, gf.
>> Acronym.
>> You guys were so secretive
about it and I could tell you
didn't want to tell too much or
ruin things.
Then when you got married and
the kids and how sweet your
daughters and bring her out on
stage at the emmys, beautiful,
congratulations.
>> You are real, too.
>> She does not play.
>> I love that about you.
>> I'm real.
>> Exactly.
>> But speaking of real, do you
go for real or fake Christmas tree.
>> I heard you earlier.
>> Break it down.
>> Zoom in on this.
The only thing fake in my life
are my eyelashes.
We will keep it real.
Why would you get a fake tree.
>> Better investment, eco-
friendly.
>> Get out of here.
>> Environment angle.
>> If you help communities, you
keep small businesses open when
you shop for trees.
>> For all the families out
there, a lot of Asian families
that keep your trees up to
March, there is a reason why
the real tree works, it dies,
you throw it out.
It's a reminder.
The smell, no candle.
>> I get a candle.
>> Do you have dogs.
>> What do dogs do.
>> They use it like a tree and
--
>> Don't blame the dog.
>> I had the dog for eight
years.
No did that on the tree.
>> He is chubby and can't get a
leg up on the tree.
>> He is big bones.
More curvy.
>> I want to point something
out, you were killing it in
people's magazine.
>> Do you have a copy.
>> Here is what it says.
>> I like the headlines.
I'm a hot mess and a
masterpiece.
>> I am.
>> I love that.
>> You have to own that.
I earned in life you have to
own you before they do.
The second somebody calls you
out for mistakes you made or
choices aren't great they have
taken the power from you.
No, own the things that you are
learning through.
I made messes and choices in my
life that I am not proud of it.
When I own it I can heal and
move on.
>> Help somebody else.
>> Yeah.
My mom is walking around in
nail salons using this article
to get discounts.
This my daughter, give me 50%
off.
Go, go.
>> She would get along with my
dad great.
>> Does it work?
>> Yes.
Why she famous.
She turns on the TV so every
nail salon playing the real --
>> I love your mom the more I
know about her.
>> Let's talk about me.
You can have an interview with
her another time.
>> Let's talk about you.
You got a new relationship.
>> I do.
Jezzie.
>> There are a couple.
>> We have to hang out some
time.
No, it's so therapeutic to be
in a relationship where both of
us met at an important part of
our life to heal from the past
and choose the next four years.
It's different when you date in
20s and 30s.
You figure out what the
decisions are.
In your 40s, you decide what
you want and you make that life
what it is.
>> You are right.
It's not often they say the
right person but it's the right
timing.
You can have a great person but
if they come at a time in your life --
>> You may not be ready.
>> You will mess it up.
>> Stop talking to me.
I get it.
>> You just met his family.
>> I did.
>> Ohio did that go?
>> First Thanksgiving in
Atlanta and it was dope.
We are talking like started as
an intimate dinner.
Started into adult party, dj,
electric slide.
His aunt, when we have
Thanksgiving we have oaks tails
and his -- oxtails and his aunt
made oxtails.
>> You ate chitlings?
>> Yes, sir and I like them a lot.
I do.
>> For you all at home, that
is.
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>> Here is the best part.
>> When you meet somebody like
you said you have a purpose
together, we managed to visit
two organizations that were
really passionate about.
We went to well spring which is
a shelter for trafficked women.
We spent a day with these
ladies and heard their stories
and make cookies with them.
Then another home for inner
city kids.
This is called turning point.
He was able to gift them with
flat screen TVs because my
ma'am be doing things like
that.
We played with the kids.
The family was a moment but
seeing the vision of what we
want to do together.
>> A Thanksgiving that you will
never forget.
>> Absolutely, Courtney.
>> Before we have to take off,
your new podcast -- did I say
nude?
New podcast.
>> That's another --
>> New, called listen honey.
Tell us about it.
>> It's kind of a dear Ari to
yourself -- diary.
You think about what happened
in life and reminisce about it.
So it's a moment.
Every episode teaches you about
why you do things that you do
in your life.
It was a quote by Eckart Tolle,
rather than be your thoughts
and emotions, be the awareness
behind it.
Why did you marry, why did you
have kids.
Why are you still single --
Why do you do the things that
you do.
We have a sex educator named
shan bootie.
>> Congratulations on
everything.
>> Appreciate it.
>> Thank you.
>> New episodes are available