- So you want to learn how to touch a man
to build instant attraction.
Well fear not you sexy single lady,
you are in the right place.
Because the best way to build attraction
and sexual tension in the early stages of dating
is to touch a men sensually, but not sexually.
And nowadays, with 21st century casual dating,
people just jump to things way too quickly.
They go from you know, going on a first date
to a couple quick drinks,
to a little ha, ha, ha, laugh.
Before you know it, they're having sex.
And then two months later,
you wonder why it is
that he's not taking the relationship seriously.
So let's try on a new strategy here.
Touch a guy in these four sensual places,
build that sexual tension
and hold off before sleeping together
and I guarantee he's gonna be pursuing you
in ways you never knew possible before, keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam LoDolce from lovestrategies.com
where we help successful single women
get out there and attract long lasting love.
And in this video, we're gonna be talking all about
how to touch a man to build instant attraction.
Now I remember years ago, back when I was single,
before I met Jessica,
I was on a way work trip.
I was a professional speaker
traveling all across the country,
lecturing about the science of attraction
and dating and flirting,
and I was speaking to this woman
and it was a very professional acquaintance
although we're the same age,
and she was attractive.
But I thought nothing of it,
I thought that this was just purely
a professional relationship, until I said some
ridiculous joke, and she laughed
and says, "Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha" touch,
and then she touches my arm and just holds it
for about two seconds longer than most people would.
And it was at that moment when she touched my arm
and held it for just a little bit longer
when I realized she's probably attracted to me.
So for all of you women out there
who want to show a little bit of interest
in a guy that you're attracted to,
maybe it's your crush, maybe it's a guy,
even in a professional work place,
or even if it's a guy on a first date,
the best way to do this is through the act of touch.
And just to circle back on that story with that woman,
no, nothing happened.
So here are the four places to touch a man
to build that tension.
The first place is the forearm or the inner wrist.
As I just mentioned, that woman
in that professional setting,
she didn't have to put herself out there that much, right?
It's not like she was rubbing my inner thigh okay.
That would be inappropriate.
Instead, you can just lightly touch someone's arm
and it's really just a matter of how long
you're holding or maintaining that touch.
And certainly, if you can touch a man's inner wrist
because the wrist is a very, very vulnerable area,
these are very subtle, but easy ways
to build that attraction.
The second place to touch a man to build attraction
is the lower back.
I mean, have you ever been walking with a guy
and you know, things are going okay,
maybe you're on a first date
or you're just flirting, getting to know each other.
But then he lightly touches your lower back,
and it just sends this massive amount of energy
and signals down through your body.
Well the same applies to us men.
So an easy way to do this
is if you're going in for a hug with a guy,
kinda hug him of course and be touching his lower back
but even when you let go of the hug,
still kinda hold onto his lower back,
once again, just for a couple more seconds.
It gives you an opportunity
to rub his lower back, or at least touch his lower back
to once again, send those signals
that you are interested.
The third area to touch a man
to build that attraction
is a little bit more vulnerable
and I would only recommend doing this
in a romantic setting.
And that is touching his hair.
There's an old rule where if you want a man
to kiss you, then go ahead and just touch his hair.
Touch the side of his face.
It's the easiest green light signal
for a man to know, you know what?
She wants you to kiss her.
Now, there's an asterisk to this principle,
it doesn't mean you have to just go right up to him
and just start slowing caressing all of his hair, okay?
You could even find, maybe he has a little bit of hair
you know, it's hard with my fluffy hair
that I've got going on right now,
but let's say he's got a little hair
kinda hanging down just like this,
just kinda get close to him
and just slowly do the swoop up
and that is going to build a lot of sensuality
in that moment.
This is a really, really effective thing to do
on that second or third date
when you really wanna push things forward.
And the fourth area to touch a man
to really build that attraction
is the neck.
Now this is similar to the lower back
in that if you're giving him a hug,
you can also touch his neck,
but notice, even just rub your neck right now.
It's a very sensual area
and it's very rare that anyone's ever touching your neck
because it's a very vulnerable area
for a reason, right?
But when someone allows you to touch their neck
or you're touching each others neck,
that's actually a sign of vulnerability and trust
between two people.
So when that's happening, once again,
this is going to build a massive amount of traction
between the two of you.
So I want to hear from you,
where is your favorite place to be touched by a man?
The forearm? The lower back?
The hair, or the neck?
Leave a comment right there below.
And if you're ready to take this to the next level
and learn how to build emotional attraction with a man
and connect with them on a deep, emotional level,
go ahead and register for the free training we have.
We'll leave a link in the description
or you can head on over to lovestrategies.com
where we have a free training
that's going to teach you the three steps
to building emotional attraction with any man.
Thank you so much for watching
and I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady next week.
Buh-bye.