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-OKAY. IT'S READY. -YOU READY?
YEAH. I'LL JUST WAIT UNTIL YOU GET BACK OUT OF THERE.
[ HUMMING ]
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SO, I BATHE OUTSIDE IN THIS TROUGH CURRENTLY
BECAUSE I CANNOT PHYSICALLY BATHE IN A SIT-DOWN BATHTUB
OR A STAND-UP SHOWER AREA.
OH. THIS IS SLIPPERY.
OH. OH.
BECAUSE I'M A BIGGER GUY WITH, LIKE, FOLDS AND FLAPS,
I HAVE TO MOVE AROUND, LIKE, ALMOST LIKE A PIG IN A WAY
AND WALLOW AND ROLL OVER TO GET, LIKE, THE BACK OF MY LEG.
I HAVE TO LIFT UP LITERAL, LIKE, PIECES OF SKIN.
IT'S JUST A SUPER DIFFICULT PROCESS.
THERE'S TWO TIMES I'VE BEEN KIND OF STUCK IN THE SHOWER,
AND I COULDN'T GET UP.
I SAT IN THERE FOR, LIKE, NINE HOURS --
JUST COULDN'T GET UP.
AND I CAN'T ASK MY DAD TO GET ME UP.
AND WE WERE LIKE -- I WAS LIKE,
"DAD, I'M AFRAID TO GET BACK IN THERE AGAIN."
HE'S LIKE, "WELL, I GOT THIS THING I CAN BUY."
Danny: IT GETS OLD. IT GETS OLD.
AND I GET TIRED OF IT.
AND HE SHOULD BE MORE ACTIVE, BUT HE'S NOT.
HE'S -- HE -- HE'S JUST THERE.
HE'S JUST THERE.
AND I WAIT ON HIM HAND AND FOOT, AND I SHOULDN'T DO IT, BUT I DO.
-WHEW. -I LOVE HIM TO DEATH.
HE'S MY SON, AND I FEEL OBLIGATED TO WAIT ON HIM.
I SHOULDN'T FEEL THAT WAY.
I WISHED I DIDN'T.
I SHOULDN'T, BUT I DO.
[ GRUNTING ]
Casey: ME AND MY DAD'S RELATIONSHIP,
IT'S KIND OF TOUCH-AND-GO.
LIKE, SOMETIMES WE'LL HAVE GREAT MOMENTS TOGETHER
AND THEN HE'LL -- RECENTLY, IN THESE PAST, LIKE, YEARS --
THERE'S A LOT OF, LIKE, NEGATIVITY AND ANGER
AND FRUSTRATION.
BUT NOW I'M AT A SIZE TO WHERE I NEED HIM TO HELP ME
DO THINGS THAT JUST NO PARENT WANTS TO BE DOING
WHEN YOU'RE IN YOUR, YOU KNOW, 30s, OR WHATEVER.
JUST POUR IT ON MY HEAD.
-ON YOUR HEAD? -YEAH.
ALL RIGHT.
CHECK IT OUT AND MAKE SURE.
YEAH, JUST POUR IT ON MY HEAD, SLOWLY.
AND MY BACK.
YEAH.
I NEED HIS HELP A LITTLE BIT TO CLEAN MYSELF.
YOU KNOW, WIPING, JUST, MY ASS
'CAUSE, I MEAN, I CAN'T REACH EVERYTHING ON MY BACK,
AND I CAN'T REACH EVERYTHING BELOW ME,
SO, YOU KNOW, IT'S WHATEVER.