Hey Guys, Beardy and Kay here from Mantelligence.
And today we’re going to show you exactly how to be more attractive to women by explaining
the ways you’re actually making yourself less attractive and not realizing it.
You see, there are a lot of little things that happen deep in the recesses of your brain
that can either make or break your success with women.
So naturally, you want to learn how to attract women, you’ll need to be aware of what those
tiny psychological things are AND how to avoid doing the ones that make you look bad.
It seems simple, right?
The more self aware you are, the more success you’ll have in, well...
Everything?
The hard part is maintaining that self-awareness.
And that’s where this video comes in.
These 5 psychological things that make you less attractive to women should help you start
that journey of self-awareness.
But that’s not all...
At the end of this video, we’re also going to show you the most common sexy and seductive
psychological thing that women love that you should immediately start doing.
This is our own take at Psyc2Go’s video 7 Psychological Things That Can Make Us Less
Attractive, which inspired us a lot.
Let’s get started, shall we?
5. Pity Party Pete
Hey Kay, what’s the worst thing a guy can
do to instantly turn off a woman?
The worst thing?
Well, Beardy...
Lemme tell ya about the worst date I’ve ever had.
Once, I went on a date with a guy who was a total pity party.
We’ll call him ‘Pete.’
Nothing seemed to go right in Pete’s life.
How was your day, Pete?
“Terrible” What’s wrong?
“Everything” Wah, wah, wah.
...Jeeze, Kay...
Don’t get me wrong, Beardy.
Pete had some reasons to complain.
He DEFINITELY had some stuff he was dealing with.
But guys, here’s the key point: EVERYBODY has reasons to complain.
EVERYBODY is dealing with SOMETHING from day to day.
So what if you missed your train this morning, and your boss yelled at you for being late?
There are people in this world living on less than a dollar a day.
Perspective is important.
But do you wanna know how to attract 99.9% of girls?
Even on the bad days?
The secret law of attraction is this: women don’t need a guy who has a perfect and easy
life.
No, all your crush is looking for is a strong guy who can weather life’s ups and downs
without crumbling into a little helpless ball of neediness.
When the going gets tough ... The tough get going.
That’s exactly it, Beardy.
But let’s talk a bit more about Pity Party Pete for a second.
My date with him probably wouldn’t have been so bad if he had a different outlook
on his bad luck.
Instead of being so negative about it, he could’ve just as easily laughed about it.
If Pete had been able to make light of his bad day, find the humor in it, and maybe even
laugh at himself, Then all the negativity Pete was dishing out
wouldn’t have been so negative.
In fact, his stories might have been pretty entertaining.
Here’s the thing, guys: In the drama of life, you can’t have joy without misery.
So if you’re psychologically focused ONLY on the misery, where’s the joy?
Studies have shown that laughter is one of the most powerful non-verbal behaviors that
can make you more likeable.
So use that powerful psychological trick to turn your negative mindset into something
a little more positive.
Hey, aside from laughter, we have more body language tricks to make her chase you in this
video.
4. Passing Up Manning Up
Guys, there’s a certain image of the ideal
man who is strong, courageous, stoic, and proud.
Think an American cowboy or the traditional male superhero.
Pretty manly right?
But too often in our pursuit to be rough and tough, we end up being straight up mean.
There’s a fine line between being an attractive tough guy and being a total A-hole.
This is one of the most important things we can learn as men
Because being an A-hole is a guaranteed way to instantly turn off 99.9% of women.
So you wanna know exactly how to avoid being the most unattractive butthead who no woman
will ever go for?
Guys, this is one of the key psychological tricks to get her to like you.
I dated this guy once who was a total hunk.
He was big and strong and athletic.
He could definitely kick butt and take names, and I’ll never forget the day I fell head
over heels for this dreamboat.
We were out and about one day, and there was this homeless guy who was acting a little
crazy and making people feel uncomfortable.
All these guys were being so mean to him, calling him names, and bullying him.
Now, my man could have easily folded this guy up into a pretzel and kicked him to the
curb, But instead, he reached out a hand and asked
the guy if he was alright and if he needed help.
It turned out the guy DID need help, and we were able to help him.
The difference between being strong and tough and capable versus being an A-hole starts
with your mindset.
So what kind of guy do you wanna be?
The kind that intimidates people and makes them feel small?
Or the kind of guy that people look up to?
The kind of guy that helps people when they need help?
Wanna make sure you’re the latter?
Try these psychological tricks to get her to like you we have listed in another video.
3. Too Close to Bros
Guys, did you know there are particularly
unattractive things guys don’t know they do that you probably do all the time.
You’re probably being super unattractive right now and you don’t even know it.
Like monkey over here - shoulders slouched, looking at the floor, arms crossed, super
hairy, and … smelling himself.
Studies continue to show that your non-verbal behavior has a huge influence on your attractiveness
to women.
And by being unaware of this law of attraction, you could be chasing women away before you
even get a chance to say, “Hi, my name is …”
Yep.
And one of the most important things I noticed early on when my friends and I started venturing
out to bars and places like that trying to meet girls is that
I never had any luck meeting cute girls since I never ventured away from my boys.
The longer I stood around with them and talked about how I thought that girl was cute, or
that girl was a solid 10, the more I realized that I wasn’t actually talking to any girls.
I was taking the most comfortable approach and just expecting some bold woman to walk
up to me and my friends and ask me out.
And let’s face it…
That’s not practical at all.
You remember being in middle school, don’t you?
If you ever wanted to talk to a girl, that’s EXACTLY what you had to do.
It was the worst!
I was guilty of that…
But here’s the thing, guys: When you hang back and play it safe, you’re actually sending
a signal that you might not be open to meet anyone.
And it doesn’t matter how alpha you might be.
No girl is going to venture through that psychological barrier that you’re unintentionally putting
up, or the physical barrier you and your boys are putting up.
By sitting or standing in a closed circle with your buddies, your body language is doing
all the talking that you’re too afraid to do.
And closed off body language just doesn’t signal that you’re open and ready to strike
up some entertaining conversation.
In fact, it’s a really big turnoff.
Interested in learning more psychological things that can make someone less attractive?
Check out this other video here.
Understanding what you’re doing wrong without even realizing it?
Well don’t go anywhere.
Because we still have to show you the most common sexy, seductive, subconscious psychological
thing that women love and you should immediately start doing.
Or maybe you’re already doing it, and you just need to keep doing it.
Either way, stay tuned ‘til the end.
Now, let’s get back to the last 2 items on our list.
2. Forgetting the Chill Pill
Guys, of all the reasons girls think you are
unattractive, there’s one crippling factor that plagues all of us.
It probably won’t surprise you to hear that studies have shown that people who look stressed
tend to be perceived as less attractive than folks who seem to be stress free.
That’s right...
Life’s grinding weight on your mind is one of the psychological things that make you
less attractive to women.
Just think about this.
Would you look better in a photo of yourself taken at some stressful function or vacationing
at the beach on a tropical island?
I mean, of course we can’t all move through life completely stress free as if we were
galavanting along a scenic trail in the Adirondacks, but we can find time to take a chill pill.
Figuratively speaking, of course.
So here’s one of the most useful things I learned to do to beat down unwanted stress
and boost my attractiveness.
Anytime I feel stressed, like when I’m rushing to meet someone after a stressful day at work,
I always make sure to find some time and a place to decompress before meeting someone,
especially a hot date.
Even just a walk around the block or a 5 minute meditation to clear my mind is all it takes
to reset the brain so I can focus on making a great first impression.
Because the last thing you want to do is come running in hot into a first date with the
day’s stress plastered all over your face and body language.
Learn more of the reasons girls think you are unattractive by checking out this video
we dedicated to this purpose.
1. Language Disadvantage
Guys, here’s one critical psychological
thing that makes you less attractive that you might think you have no control over but
you actually do.
We often hear from guys who are struggling to meet cute girls after moving somewhere
new.
When you relocate to a new city or state or country, the entire dating culture changes,
And most guys have to scramble up a steep learning curve to regain their bearings in
a new dating scene.
Here’s the most frustrating part: you can be the most attractive, alpha guy doing everything
right, but if you’re not in sync with the local
culture, you’re going to be ignored.
And it can be extremely frustrating.
Social psychologists call this phenomena group cohesiveness or social identity, and it plays
a huge part in the game of attraction.
We know that people form an ideal image of a romantic partner in their heads and this
image has an enormous influence on who we end up partnering with.
Much of this image comes from who we see around us on a daily basis.
Our social groups, our work friends.
It all plays a part.
So if you don’t quite fit in that regard, there’s a good chance you’ll go unseen.
So here’s the psychological trick to overcome the social cohesion barrier.
People identify with others who speak the same language.
That is, if you can learn to walk the walk and talk the talk, you can effectively moon
walk your way onto your crush’s social radar.
And we’re not just talking about learning a foreign language while you’re living abroad.
Statisticians have actually mapped the differences in the way Americans speak English throughout
the country, and it’s eye opening.
And while, yes, you might find that cute dame tucked away in the Pacific Northwest who adores
your southern drawl, your best chance, according to science, is
to tone down your home-town lingo and learn to blend in with the crowd.
Because the difference between pork roll, taylored ham, and spam might mean the difference
between scoring a hot date Or going home alone.
Want to know more psychological things that make you less attractive?
Check this video out.
The #1 Psychological Thing that Makes You MORE Attractive to Women
According to a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers
found that perceived dominance increased the attractiveness of males.
But the influence of dominance was mitigated or eliminated by measures of aggression or
domineering behavior.
These findings suggest that the influence that male dominance has on attractiveness
has to do with your dominance over your own life and NOT necessarily over others.
Wait…
What?...
Oh, sorry..
In other words, women want a guy who is in control of his life and has his act together.
So how do you practice this in your daily life?
Fake it ‘till you make it.
Keep telling yourself you’ve got it under control and more importantly, actively take
steps to make it so.
Eventually you’ll feel completely at home in your own skin and it’ll show.
Do you know more psychological things that make you less attractive to women?
Let us know in the comments section.
Are you curious about what other major reasons girls think you are unattractive?
Check out our other video to find out why.
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less attractive?
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