Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to attract women. 7 behaviors
that are irresistible to women. If you are looking for a happy, lifelong relationship,
the kind of relationship where you're married to your best friend and you're in love forever,
then these are the traits you need to make sure you have. If you've been following my channel
for a while you know something you can expect from me is real skills that actually work. I'm
talking about science-based skills. So if you are looking for that lifelong relationship, if
you're looking for the absolute love of your life, make sure you watch to the end. Before we dive in,
if you haven't seen any of my videos before, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian
dating coach for men and I teach you how to stop wasting your time and your energy
and your money on bad relationships and dead-end relationships by instead learning the skills you
need to get the girl of your dreams. Sounds amazing, right? So make sure you subscribe,
ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Now as I mentioned everything
I teach on my channel is about how to have that happy lifelong relationship.
So some of these things I'm about to share with you may honestly surprise you, like a lot. And
that's because most people don't talk about these traits because most people are teaching
you how to have like an overnight fling, okay? They're not teaching you how to have a healthy,
happy, crazy in love relationship. So honestly I think these traits are going to surprise and
comfort you a lot. With that let's dive in with our first tip on how to attract women.
She wants a real man. Now what I mean by this is she wants a man who's real, who's human.
Society tries to tell both men and women that we should be perfect, right? We should be plastic
and fake and and supermodels really. But at the end of the day none of us are actually like that,
including the supermodels. Trust me, I've done a little bit of modeling and I can tell you guys,
yeah, it's not remotely real. So at the end of the day a real woman, a woman who's not toxic, she is
very aware of her imperfections. And so what she wants is someone who's not perfect either.
She wants somebody who can laugh at himself and who she can laugh at herself with and someone
who's realistic. Yes, she wants you to always be improving, she wants you to have a growth mindset,
she wants you to be trying to be the best person you can be, but ultimately she's just looking for
someone who's very human. Now my second tip on how to attract women is realize that she wants
someone who is assertive. Now here's why: When you are assertive, you know how to set appropriate and
respectful boundaries. This lets people know that you have respect for yourself and frankly it makes
people feel more safe when they are around you. A lot of people don't feel that way. They feel like
setting boundaries is unkind in some way. But in reality when you do it the right way
it makes people feel safe with you. When we aren't assertive and when we don't set appropriate
boundaries we tend to let the tension and the frustration build up and then it's a lot easier to
just snap at someone and be a little bit unkind. Where if instead you just set boundaries you don't
have to worry about that. Also, if you're not setting boundaries, if you're not being assertive,
it's really hard for her to respect you. It's really really hard to respect someone who doesn't
respect themselves enough to set boundaries. As a matter of fact, if you're watching this right now
and if you feel like one of the nice guys who never gets the girl, I get comments about
this all the time, "well, nice guys don't get the girl," or "good guys don't get the girl,"
actually, guys who are not assertive don't get the girl. It has nothing to do with being nice
or kind or anything like that. Being assertive and knowing how to set appropriate boundaries
is a game changer. Make sure you watch this video to learn more about that. There is a link in the
description below if you haven't seen it yet. The third thing you need to know about how to attract
women is that women want a mature man. Pay very close attention to what I am about to tell you.
Are you with me? This one mistake keeps so many amazing men single. This may be the biggest
thing that keeps really good guys single. Are you with me? What worked in high school
to get the girl is not going to work as an adult. So many amazing guys, they learned how to text
girls and talk to girls and ask girls out and act on dates and all these things from high school.
Either by doing it in high school or by watching their peers in high school.
That will not work if you are trying to attract a mature woman. It just won't
work. She has grown up and she is looking for a man, and she does not want to see you
as a school boy. She doesn't want to feel like she felt when she was hanging out with
the boys in high school. She wants to see you as a man. So if you want her to see you as marriage
material and as a man it's very important that you learn the right dating and relationship skills.
That right there is the game changer. That is how you make sure you get the kind of woman you really
want instead of a toxic woman or a needy woman or a drama queen. Now I have had a lot of you asking
me lately "okay Melannie, you keep telling us we need dating and relationship skills.
How do we get those skills?" Guys, this is what I created my program, How to Get a Girlfriend,
to teach you. To walk you step by step through how to have all the dating and relationship
skills you need to start attracting the type of women you're wanting so that you can create that
crazy happy lifelong relationship. So if you have ever watched any of my videos and wondered "okay,
how do I do that?" guys, I try to pack as much information as I can in my YouTube videos. I go
to great lengths to make sure I am over delivering for you guys like crazy. But there's no way I can
add it all in a YouTube video or even several YouTube videos. There's no humanly possible
way. So that's why I created my program, so you could have that place to go and get those skills.
It really is like sitting down for one-on-one coaching with me. So everything I teach across
my channel I dive deep and walk you step by step through specific action steps so you know how to
have those dating and relationship skills so you can get them easy and you can get them
fast. I have literally made it as easy as is humanly possible for you. So to learn more about
that program, to learn more about my framework and why it works and why it's so effective and
see how it has worked for others, make sure you watch my free masterclass. There's a link in
the description below and a link in the pinned comment. But some of you are like "okay, I've
already watched your masterclass." Don't worry, go check your email. I have sent you an email
with a special link where you can learn more about my program. And there may or may not be a special
discount for you there. So make sure you check your inbox asap. Bottom line, if you want to know
how to attract women one of the biggest mistakes you need to avoid is using the same things you
learned in high school or taking advice from people who learned these things in high school.
That's why I became a certified coach, so I could serve you guys at the highest level. So again,
if you haven't checked out that masterclass there's a link in the description below. Now
my next tip on how to attract women may surprise you. That is that women really want someone who is
compassionate and someone who is gentle. I know this is not what society's telling you and I have
so many men reach out to me and say "okay, but she's going to see me as weak." Well if she's a
toxic woman she might see you as weak. Make sure you watch this video to learn a little bit more
about that and how to avoid it. There's a link in the description below. But honestly, real women,
the kind of woman you want to spend your life with, being compassionate and gentle is one of
the most attractive and one of the most masculine things you can do. A real man, a masculine man,
protects those weaker than himself, right? Ultimately what women really want still
is she wants that knight in shining armor. This is why the superhero industry is booming, guys. This
is why it is so popular. Because at the end of the day a superhero protects those who are weaker,
but he's compassionate, he's gentle, he's good, he's kind, and he's never been more masculine
in a woman's eyes than when he is doing those things. So it doesn't matter what society tries to
make you think, that is what women want. She's imperfect, like I've mentioned, she knows she's
imperfect, and she wants someone who's going to be compassionate with her about that.
Someone who she can trust and someone who's going to be very gentle with her. If you have
those traits then you are someone she can see as a potential partner. Quick question before we get
to our next tip. Are you enjoying this video on how to attract women? Would you like more videos
on how to attract women? If you would be sure to comment "YES!" guys. That seriously helps
me so much. And if you have any questions about this or if you have any suggestions for future
videos be sure to leave those in the comments as well. My next tip on how to attract women
is to make sure that you are not a religious snob. As I mentioned I am a Christian. And the truth
is Christian women are looking for Christian men. They just are. They want someone who's on the same
page, who has the same priorities, who feels the same way about God that they do. One of the main
things I see keeps so many Christians single, both men and women, is that they kind of use religion
as a way to be better than other people or to feel better. Religion is not about what you look like
to other people or being better than other people. Religion is about your relationship with God.
Period. That's it. And a lot of people, without even realizing it, they come across as judgy or
snotty or arrogant all based around religion. So make sure you're being an awesome guy. If you
have a close relationship with God nothing you do will be more attractive to her,
okay? I'm being completely honest with you here. A man who loves God with his whole heart and soul
is more attractive than I even have words to express to you. However,
if you turn that into arrogance she's done. She doesn't have time for someone who thinks he's
really awesome because he can quote scriptures all day long. She cares about a man who knows Jesus
and loves Him. Be sure to also watch this video. I talk about this a little bit there as well.
There is a link in the description below if you'd like to check it out. Our next tip is she wants
someone who's physically attractive. Now, before you start leaving me hate comments and before
you start freaking out, hear me out. Do you want a woman who is physically attractive?
Of course you do, right? That's a silly question. And that's a good thing. There's nothing wrong
with that. That's actually how God made us. He created us that way on purpose. And frankly,
anybody who tells you that physical attraction is not important, that's actually a red flag of
a toxic person, so be very careful about that. God created us to be attractive to each other and to
be attracted to each other. With that being said though she doesn't want someone who's perfect.
Society again tries to make us feel plastic and perfect and like unless you have abs and are like
6'7" and like super buff and have a like tons of hair that she's not gonna like you.
None of that is true. There's nothing wrong with a six pack, there's nothing wrong with being tall,
and there's nothing wrong with a lot of hair, but at the end of the day she's not perfect,
she doesn't want you to be perfect. So here's the basics of physical attraction.
Pay close attention. This is how God created it. Physical attraction comes down to what you eat,
what you wear, and how you hold yourself. It's as simple as that. Honestly, that's it. If you want
to be incredibly physically attractive those are the three areas of focus that you need to have.
If you would like to skyrocket your physical attraction these are actually the principles I
teach you in my program, How to Get a Girlfriend, that I just talked about. So not only are you
going to learn the dating and relationship skills you need but you're also going to learn how to
skyrocket your physical attraction and I make it so easy. So again, if you haven't yet watched my
free masterclass make sure you do it. It's going to help you so much. And if you've already watched
the masterclass and you're thinking you'd like to learn more about that program be sure to check
your email. At the bottom you're going to find a link to to learn more about that. Bottom line,
physical attraction is very important, but it does not mean perfection. And there are so many
married men who have wives who are insanely in love with them and they do not have six packs,
okay? She doesn't want you to be perfect because it actually intimidates her because she knows
she's not perfect. Even if to you she looks perfect she does not look perfect to herself. So
she's not judging you that way. Instead she wants someone who is actively trying to be attractive
and someone who knows how to put in the right type of effort. Now our next tip on how to be
attractive to women is to be supportive. Again, if you're looking for that lifelong relationship,
obviously she is too. And so she's asking herself "would I enjoy spending the rest of my
life with this man?" And if you're someone who's supportive, wow, that's a good feeling, right? She
wants someone who supports her dreams, who helps her dream, who helps her feel like she can do
anything. Supporting her is going to make her see you as a superhero. It's a trait that definitely
attracts women. All right let's recap real fast, shall we? If you're trying to figure out how
to be attractive to women it's important that you are a real man. Meaning that you're human,
you're real, you're authentic. You also need to make sure you are assertive and know how to set
appropriate boundaries. Next it's very important that you are mature, that you have dating and
relationship skills that are mature instead of doing what worked in high school, because it's not
going to work anymore. So again, to learn those solid dating and relationship skills that's what I
created my program to teach you. So make sure you click the link in the description below to watch
my free masterclass and learn more. Next, she is looking for a man who is compassionate and gentle.
That's what makes you a superhero in her eyes. And make sure that you are not a religious snob.
Religion is about your relationship with God, not about feeling better than other people and judging
them. Next remember that physical attraction is important. It does not mean perfection,
but it is something she is looking for. It's about effort, not perfection. And make sure that you are
supportive. When a man supports her she totally sees him as a superhero and as that knight in
shining armor. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw
be sure to give me a thumbs up and subscribe and ring that notification bell. I want to hear from
you in the comments. Did you enjoy this video? Do you want more videos on how to attract girls?
If you do be sure to comment "YES!" so I know to make that for you. Also, I want to hear which of
these traits surprised you the most. Do you have a friend who would like to know how to attract
women? If you do, be sure to share this with him. It's going to help him so much. If we're not yet
friends on social media we totally need to be so check out the links for that in the description
below as well. Thank you so much again my amazing friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] If
you've been following my channel for a while you know that one thing that- [messed up]
All right let's talk about how to attract women. Now as I mentioned, these are traits
women are looking for in a lifelong partner. It is very very important to know- [messed up]
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