Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Let's talk about texting.
I know that a lot of guys are obsessed with the idea of texting girls,
what to say, getting the girl to text you first, which we're gonna go over on
today's video, but I just want to really make you understand what texting is all
about. You have to know that texting is just the communication tool to be able
to see the girl again. A lot of guys think that the text messages are really
important and that's the meat of getting her to like you, but it's not. When you
get a girl to like you, when you get her attractive to you, all of this is
happening in person. I want you to remember that as you're going through
your journey and being able to find the right woman. It's that it's not about the
text message. The text message is just to get her to meet up with you. Today I
do have a couple of cool techniques to be able to get her to text you first
which in a weird psychological way does get her invested in you and that's kind
of second part of getting a girl interested. At first you gotta get her
attracted then you got to get her invested. I actually talked about those
two concepts in my program called Hooked which you can check out at www.getherhooked.com.
I discuss what that means, but just for today's video, here's what you
should know about getting her to text you first.
There's two ways to do it. I'm gonna give you two techniques and they
work extremely well. Here's the deal; before you implement these
techniques, it's very important to know that before this happens
she must be somewhat attracted to you. This is not gonna work if this is some
random girl in your class who just thinks that you guys are just friends or
she's already a friend of yours and you're trying to get her to like you.
This is not gonna work if you end up meeting a girl at a bar or on the street
and she doesn't seem that interested. This is only gonna work if
she is attracted and that's why the success rate is very high. Here's
what you can do. When you're at the point where you can tell that the
girl is interested in you and you're going to get her number say hey let's
exchange numbers, let's hang out again sometime soon. When she
says okay say here get out your phone and grab my number. She'll get on her
phone, you're directing her to get out her phone and then you're gonna tell her
your number and then right when she's putting the number in, say text me with
your name. Boom, there you go she texted you first. Of course you're
like okay obviously that's gonna get her to text me first. There's nothing
magical there and there's nothing magical there, but the whole point is
once you get her to text you first, again psychologically she's becoming
more invested in you because she actually went through the motions of texting
you first. She did put a little bit of work into texting you and then you can
respond later on and of course, what are you gonna do? Yeah, that's right
you're gonna set up the date. That's right. You're not gonna continue texting her
all day long. And by the way, before we go into the next technique to get her to text
you first, which I promise is really super cool, just know that for
free you can get my 7 Deadly Text Messages That Make Her Want You.
For free, down below in the description go check out 7 Deadly Text
Messages. It's a little video that's gonna give you the exact text messages
to copy and paste to get her to meet up with you on a date. Go get that, it is
free. The next technique is this; I know this is gonna sound so old-school
and you're gonna be like what, do I really have to do this? This is gonna
probably get her to text you back and if she doesn't text you back, well there's
good news. She's gonna call you back. That's right, you are going to call her.
This is something that guys are not doing anymore because it's so much
easier to text a girl. Here's the thing, if she texts you back, that's fine. It
doesn't matter as long as she gets back to you. And she will get back to you if
she is initially attracted to you. When you get a girl's number
later that night or the next day, sometime within the first 24 hours,
what I want you to do is give her a call.
Again she's either gonna
text you back and start a text message conversation there, which to be honest
with you I think is kind of lame that she doesn't call you back, so it's kind
of a first sign that could be a red flag,
but we'll give her a break,
she backs so boom she's texting you first right there and then you set up
the date or even better news boom she calls you back.
She calls you back and then you guys can talk for a little bit, catch up on
whatever it is that you want to talk about and then get her to meet you up
for the next date. I mentioned two things here in this
video again my Hooked program. I'll put a link below if you want to learn how to
get a girl attracted and invested in you and it gives you all the techniques on
how to do so. But also my free gift to you which is 7 Deadly Text
Messages That Make Her Want You and that she can't resist. Go get that for free
in the description below as well. Check those out, get her to text you first and
I'll see you on the next video.