what's holding you back from
doing some of the things that you need to do
let me tell you what is the most common thing
in my opinion really as to why people
are held back from doing what they need to do
I mean there are many things but one of the main reasons
is the approval that people desire from other people
you know people just want other people to approve of them
and their work people want to be affirmed people want other people to
tell them how wonderful they are to give them permission
really that's what it is people want permission
from other people to live their
lives are you one of them are you waiting for someone else to give you
approval
to give you permission to pursue your goals
it's almost like you're just sitting there waiting for your dad or your mom
or your husband or your friends to approve
100 percent and tell you that well what you are doing
is the right thing to do so you go out there and do it
but you know what what if the approval never comes
what if your husband doesn't approve of what you have to do
what if your best friend does not approve of what you have to do
is that the end of your dream is that the
end you are waiting for your family to
you know applaud you
I mean it's good to have that approval and it's good to have that applause
coming from people that you care about
but what if it doesn't come some people just don't have people to approve of them
you know but they are kind of waiting for someone out there to come and tell them
that
what they're doing is the correct thing to do instead of listening to
themselves
your truth is the highest truth your dream is yours alone
and no one really cares about your dream
the way you do until you begin to
act on your dream until you have the courage and the confidence
to go on your dream it's not possible for you to sell anyone on it
and you know its so funny how sometimes
after you have started acting on your dream after you have started pursuing
your dreams
when people see the dream is forming and has turned into something that's
tangible
then you have a lot of supporters you know
people come out of the woodwork everybody wants a stake in it
everyone wants to say how brilliant and how wonderful you are
now that things are happening for you when things are not happening
none of these people are anywhere on the scene after the things have started
going
right for you then everyone loves you you are so wonderful
you are so brilliant this is my friend everyone is proud of you they want to introduce you as
so-and-so the founder of E E E you know what i'm saying
it's ridiculous but that's how it is so
in a weird way if you really want to get approval
you better stuck acting on your goals but before you act on your goals
its usually going to be hard to get that kind of support that you need so
don't wait for approval don't wait for permission
the only person who gives you permission to do anything
is you so you have to do what you gotta do on your own terms
success on your own terms is so sweet
it so sweet it is so sweet
so do what you have to do there is nobody's who is gonna give you permission but yourself
give yourself permission and get that energy and that drive and that passion
going
and do something for yourself then the world
is gonna stand and applaud and you know really the world is so kind
people are so kind everyone's waiting to applaud
you so go for it no permission necessary
other than the approval of yourself and the permission
that you grant yourself that's all you need
so say yes to you you go