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Well making others happy is the one of the best ways to have a great day, right? Do you
agree with me on this? Yeah of course you do. Well it can definitely brighten the world
around you. Maybe you're trying to cheer up your sad friend or you're trying to express
your feelings for your loved ones or maybe you are planning to greet your beloved on
their birthday. Wow, so whether you're in a new relationship or a matured one, may be
for a male or a female, friends or relatives, young or old, they all aspire to feel appreciated
and special, right? It just means so much for them. So how do you do that? How do you
make someone feel special? Well in this session today, I'm gonna help you with some fun and
simple ways to do that. So let's make the world a happier one.
So what's the first thing that you can do to make someone feel really special? Well
one of the most simplest things, smile. Greeting your friends with a smile, not only makes
your friend happy but it also makes you look beautiful, confident and positive. Well a
smile complemented with a hug, well that is also captivating and just throws away all
the negative thoughts. An enthusiastic hug may really help in strengthen the bond. Yes
that’s true. This gesture will also let him or her know that you're glad meeting them
and you're interested in talking to them. And what does it take to smile? Too much of
an effort, right? No it takes nothing to smile. So just stay optimistic and keep smiling.
What’s the second thing that you can do? Well compliment. If you are wondering how
do you make someone happy? You should think of things you don't need money for. One of
the best ways to make someone happy is to give them an honest compliment that really
works. There are a lot of positive things in life that are left unsaid. You should think
of a compliment that is close to a person's heart. You could also think about something
you know, that they put a lot of effort into. For example you have a colleague that you
work with and who has been working out a lot these days. So what do you do? Well you should
say something nice about their figure. Something like, wow, look at you, you look great, you
look so fit. Now just be honest in offering compliments or they will think that you are
mocking them. So one of the easiest ways to make someone feel special, well compliment.
Well here's the next thing that you can do, which is, to encourage someone. Actually this
tip I have learnt from my best friend. He is always there for me. Highly motivating
and encouraging. I can never have a dull moment when he is around. Yeah, that's for him. now
you know friends, the roads of this world can be sometimes be very difficult, rocky,
harsh, stony and negative thoughts are very much a part of this journey. So help a friend
who is struggling and dealing with the crazy times by positively encouraging and boosting
him or her up. Well you may share your experiences which might just act as a boost for them.
A good support in the form of a friend too can really make wonders in someone else's
lives. So why not do it? Just go ahead and encourage your friends.
Well here's the next thing that you can do to make someone feel really special. Well
listen to that person. Always listen to your special ones. Try to know about their interests.
About their hobbies, the places they like. Their opinions to certain things or to certain
special events. Listen to their good and bad experiences. Well of course it takes a good
deal of patience to hear someone's heart out. But when a person shares his or her story
with you, it means that they trust you with it. So lend them your ears while they speak
or share something with you. By listening you definitely understand the person well
and hence you can act accordingly, right so make sure that you listen to the others.
Now here's another thing that you can do. Well what is it? Something special, well gift
something special to your friend. Oh come on, like who doesn't like gifts? Gifts are
like the best ways of enduring the bond of happiness, right? So it just takes the other
person on cloud 9. Regardless of the gift, it's just the thought and the intention that
counts. Not only for the giver but also for the receiver. So choosing the right gift is
also important. Well take time and think because the process of choosing a gift is always so
much fun, it's just so rejoicing. Now money can't buy happiness, unless it is spent on
others. So show your love through actions. Make something creative like may be a greeting
card, may be a wall hanging picture or something just so personal and make sure you put in
a note, that hey this is just for you. Oh my god, if the person receives something like
that, like especially me if I receive something, I'm gonna feel so special about it. So yes,
the next time you wanna make someone feel really special, go ahead buy something and
like I said, it's just the thought that matters, so go ahead and gift someone something special.
So here's another thing that you can do for your loved ones. Well you can cook for them.
Whatever is your talent, employ it to create something different, something extraordinary.
Now if you can cook, invite your loved ones for a home cooked dinner or lunch. Maybe you
can cook their favourite dishes and food items at home. Especially if they're having a real
bad day or you can send them an invite for tea or coffee may be with your own baked treats.
Just in case if you are not able to cook, well just call for food, right? Or gift them
a box of chocolates on the grumpy days. Now this gesture makes the other person feel really
special. Meeting over for such meals, it just strengthens the bond between two people. And
if you live with your loved ones, well let them wake up with a surprise. Breakfast in
bed, wherein you wake up early to make some breakfast just to see your loved on wake up
with a smile. Aww... isn't that sweet? So go ahead and cook something special for your
loved ones.
And here's the last thing that you can do to make someone feel really special. Well
stay connected. Now we all well aware of this amazing development that social media has
made. Yes, they have really enjoyed the limelight. Various social media applications like twitter,
Facebook, Whats app, well they have really opened the closed gates of connectivity. Do
you agree on that? Well this has made connecting with people so much easier at such low cost.
People around the world can interact on the same platform. Keeping in touch with those
living far away from you, well it just makes them feel heavenly and unique. Now though
this is a virtual world but who says it, that you cannot make a real world a better place?
So just a simple text to check on how they are doing or may be commenting or liking on
their pictures, that they post on these social networking sites, well that will definitely
bring a smile on their face. So what are you waiting for? Just go online and start liking
and commenting right now, right?
So well it brings me to the end of this session today. Well the truth is, that today's society
isn't used to having you know very kind people around. And as a result people will really
appreciate what you are trying to do and they'll be nice to you in return as well. So what
are you waiting for? Well hope these tips are really useful to you, just choose your
favourite one and go ahead make others smile and till then I'll be back soon with a new
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