what's going on guys mad artist in here from the attractive man calm and today
we're going to talk about how to touch a girl during the daytime
time because a lot of guys get confused about this because they know it's a
daytime situation where you know you can be the touchy I can come off really
creepy wears a nine time you can touch right away kind of normal and a lot of
times you have to is so loud you have to get really close to her just to in order
to hear her for her to hear you but in day time it's different so a lot of
times guys think they shouldn't touch at all but that's not good either because
you want to start that physical escalation right away so what do you do
well it's really simple it's only gonna be a few opportunities for you to touch
one of them is going to be doing the handshake
so when you first meet her you might walk up and say hey real quick
this is really random but I just saw you here at the beach and I just want to be
a good idea to say i do high as you want to be direct like that to say hi and
then stick out your hand don't here's a key to I see a lot of guys do this they
look at their hand they're like hi nice to meet you
you don't want to do that ok so instead look right her eyes notice the whole
time I made good eye contact
look right in the eye and say hi I'm Matt
ok then shake her hand obviously strong handshake but here's the key let it
linger a little bit if you're just like this
hi nice to meet you it's kind of formal now if she pulls away then obviously let
her pull away don't just hold it but it's much better you can create a more
intense moment and that's what you want to do you want to create this moment
this movie moment you want this really have an impact you don't want to just be
the nice guy who is having a nice conversation with her and everything is
in a very nice and platonic and you just do a nice handshake instead notice what
I'm doing standing pretty close to him about arms i'm a little bit more than
arm's distance away now sometimes you have to stand a little further back
she's gonna be like what's going on but sometimes she's just gonna be totally
comfortable and just hold that moment with her shake hands with the hand
linger
handshake later and then keep talking so listen I gotta go in a second but I
don't know anything about you
so before I go tell me one cool thing about you like
besides your looks what are you all about so notice this whole time we're
having this conversation
I'm holding her hands now again sometimes a girl just let you should be
really into it and children you'll just hold hands the whole time
sometimes I'll notice things on her hands
some girls like her don't just really have anything on your hands but I'll
notice something on her hands and I look down and I'll just say oh that's a
really interesting ring what's the story behind that it just adds a little bit
more touching or i might notice her her nails and say wow this is really
interesting color
and just make a little comment like that ok so that's another way to add a little
bit of touching during the daytime or a brace
wow that's a really cool bracelet ok so you can do that you have two options
when you can do that you can do that during the handshake right hold the
handshake and notice something I typically don't do it there i like to
hold and you can just create that moment like i was talking about so maybe later
in interaction we're talking let's say she pulled away really quickly during
the handshake and then out we're talking and then later I just glanced down and I
noticed something I said well that's an interesting watch is that Michael course
she says yes now i just kind of look at it and that's it and then drop it
the key is to release in that kind of situation i'm not going to just hold
like this and say okay so tell me glob more about you that's just kinda weird
if I just hold it so I want to release it in that kind of situation
and honestly guys that's really it I mean you can do a little bit of touching
like really oh my god that's crazy especially if you're standing this close
and this is why you need to stand this close if you're further away like this
and I'm like really that's weird that's crazy that's that's just weird
I had to like reach and lean over so instead you stand right here and as
we're having this conversation
it's called just normal conversational touching if you said something
interesting really are you kidding me
it has to be in context i can't just be like so tell me something interesting
about you
that's weird well so do you look around here that doesn't make sense it's like
where it's going out of nowhere it has to like make sense like I'm I'm touching
her for impact
like maybe I say hey have you been to that store over there and see I touched
your shoulder there are no my god I have to tell you what happened to me earlier
today
okay so check this out blah blah blah so I'm touching her and it just puts
emphasis on the word
ok so you're touching for emphasis and then at the end you say goodbye
this is the other place where you'll touch so i usually do this I say okay
well it's nice to meet you
and I kiss
the chick just wants usually now some guys think that's kind of crazy to do if
you don't live in like a Latin country right now we're in Mexico it's totally
fine in Brazil you do too kisses it's totally normal
I don't usually do two unless I'm in Brazil or somewhere like that but even
if i'm in the US or other countries where it's not the norm Europe for
example unless you're in France Italy Spain I think they'll kiss
even if I'm in like UK I'll still do the kiss on the cheek and she might be not
expecting that's okay because it just creates a more more of a moment its kind
of charming its kind of icky just a cute thing to do so i highly recommend you do
the kids i'll do the handshake was nice meeting you cheat
and then walk away now if you're in India if you guys are watching this in
your Asia most parts of Asia I wouldn't do it india places like that I wouldn't
do it in those places that they were just kind of freaked out i think if you
went for a kiss on the cheek but if you're in any type of Western culture i
recommend you that now you if you don't want to do that you can also go for a
hug and say okay it was nice meeting and just go for a hug and make sure you do a
good hug don't just do like okay and like the pat on the back i don't know if
you can see that but don't just do this like make it a good hug where you
actually like embrace ER doesn't have to be long be kind of weird five-second hug
would be a little weird you just met the girl during the daytime here in like a
coffee shop or something like embracing know just keep it like this one more
time
I just like hugging you that's all ok so again just to recap shake hands hold the
hand longer than normal
make sure it's a strong handshake you can also notice things on her hand
you can also notice things that she's wearing two she has a necklace and
things like that but you don't want to be the weird touching idea in the
daytime and nighttime you can get away with a lot more during the day
don't do too much touching don't go overboard with it and then at the end
either hug or kiss on the cheek
so that's it guys if you do that it's going to make more of an impact and just
you know no touching at all and little handshake at the end and handshake in
the beginning it's really like short you want to have an impact so use your
touching to create that physical dialogue and you'll see that your
interactions will go a whole lot better
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