- If you could re-live one moment from our
relationship forever what would it be and why?
- Uh… I think like
you should kinda know this
this is like one of the very first times
that we actually met in the beginning and
and we were on a road trip
in the back of the Uber for like two hours.
- Yeah.
- We were just talking about everything
and then not only that like he was like
really scared.
Hell, we were scared.
- Yeah cuz we didn’t even know what
spooky ass house we were going to.
It was still spooky when we got to that beach too.
- Yeah...
and I think...
the best conversation is...
is like in that moment
like when we were talking about...
I know it’s kinda weird, but...
like the phases of the moon
and I was so surprised that you knew them.
I was like...
- You were surprised that
other people
- were smart in the world - This girl.
- but except you.
- No not that, just because I thought
it was an astronomy thing
so but...
I mean and also a spiritual thing too but…
That was one of like...
fun moments for sure
that I would like
re-live the very first moment in the beginning.
- What is something you think I need to hear?
- I love you.
- That's very true.
- In what ways
am I a partner you’ve always dreamed of
and in what ways am I not?
- Dig deep.
Uhm...
You are one of the...
smartest and most
ambitious people I’ve ever met.
Uhm...
You have one of the biggest hearts
of anybody I know.
And...
you motivate me,
you inspire me.
I love all that about you.
I love the fact that...
we have...
the same interests as far as our spiritual journey
and we have...
the same ideas as far as
what we want in the future
and what we want out of a family
and even like marriage.
I feel like we connect on that level.
In what ways are you not?
I don’t think you’ve realized...
yet...
how soft I really am on the inside
and it’s like…
it’s funny because you like
attention and affection
you really like me to be all over you.
like..
if I don’t sleep on you, you get an attitude.
So it’s just like why do you think
I won’t want the same thing?
You know like...
Slap my ass when I walk by every now and then.
Just kisses for no reason.
You know,
shit the girls like.
- Oh.
- I feel like you’ve never
You know cause we’ve talked and you...
told me, we’ve expressed to each other that...
this feels different
even in the bad times, but in the great times
we’ve both expressed that this feels different
for us from other people we’ve dated
so I think that
from what we’ve talked about
in your past relationships
it wasn’t required of you
it wasn’t asked for.
You know...
and that was based on the fact that
they were doing their own thing
or they just were
you know, a personality
similar to yours
or maybe I’m a needy little bitch
either way, you know
I don’t think it’s ever been something you had to do
so I think that’s kinda why it’s harder for you
even though...
you like to be loved on like a whole girl.
- When do you think I feel the closest to you?
- I think when...
I think when I’m like laying on top of you
-I thought you were gonna say something nasty
I’m proud of you.
- I'm not gonna do that.
- But you were about...
- Kids will be here, will be watching this stuff,
but...
I feel...
that way like when...
You know we have our moments.
Like when you have your dad moments.
- Or when you have your mom moments?
- Yeah.
Like when you are...
just like your dad’s song comes on.
Or is like...
Yeah.
That’s, I mean, that’s...
Cause we get like
really, like vulnerable.
That’s what, that’s what I love.
- And then... - I’m gonna cry.
I’m not gonna cry on my birthday.
- Yeah.
And then like...
When we both like, see and like feel signs...
of him, you know what I’m saying?
Like when I catch moments of you
and I’ve caught moments of you
like in your elements
and then it’s like the aura pops up.
- You’re the first person that...
- I saw the aura with. - Yeah.
- When you uhm...
When we did like the spiritual bath
and...
we had like our incense and our candles
and we did all that
and...
the memory of my dad for the first year
that he’d been gone
and uhm….
It was like
one of the hardest days ever.
- Yeah
- But it was like, then I realized that...
I could trust you with my heart and my feelings
especially going through like a grieving process.
- What’s your greatest insecurity
in our relationship
and how can I help you overcome it?
- Uhm...
Definitely trust.
We have...
You know, in the time that we’ve been dating
I feel like...
things have transpired that
have made my trust for you
kinda shaky.
In certain aspects
it just...
feels like...
sometimes you are unsure
wether I’m your person or not.
You uh...
You are a bit of a flirt.
- Me, flirt?
With who?
- Ok, ok, maybe it’s not you flirting,
but I don’t think you dislike the attention.
- And I think you are used to it - What?
- which is like...
it's gonna sound weird,
but I think you are used to it
so it kinda doesn’t faze you anymore, but...
You know what? Cuz I’m realistic...
and I love women, you love women
I love pretty women, I love pretty people.
And it’s not like...
the looking or...
You know.
Even...
speaking like I’m not...
that...
super psychotic jealous.
Just a...
but I mean, I still wanna feel like The One.
- What do you think I need from you
and are you providing it?
- I think...
well, you know, we've already been doing like...
the sessions but...
I think...
something else you would say
is probably more effort.
I think with us being like
going through that rocky period
a month and a half ago, that...
we probably were both
were feeling like we weren't giving our best...
or really putting much into it at the time.
What's the next step for our relationship?
- Next step?
- I don’t think that our answer is over there.
- There was an ant?
- I said the “ans...”
Answer.
- Oh, the answer.
- Yeah. - Oh.
Yeah, I can’t hear, uhm...
What's the next step for our relationship?
- That is what the card said.
The question is not gonna change
just cuz you keep repeating it.
- Are you cold?
- What?
- Are you hungry?
Alright, cool. So...
The the next step is uhm...
I feel like we should...
keep going to our sessions
- And then... - Definitely
- Yeah, just kinda...
see where it takes us.
- I agree.