Hello everyone.
I hope you're super excited because I've
decided to answer a question
that I get every single week.
The question is about Twin Flames and Soul Mates.
Do they exist?
If so, what are they?
And how do I find mine?
We live in a universe that is all one.
This means that the same energy that consciousness.
It's projecting itself forward as you.
It is also projecting itself forward as your boyfriend or girlfriend.
It is also projecting itself
forward as the living room couch.
To say that one thing, one
expression in this universe is
more important to you than
any other is a misunderstanding,
because it is all one thing,
and ultimately, that is you.
You are everything in existence.
And so that means, everything in
existence, at the highest
level, is your soul
mate and is your twin flame.
The individuality which you're experiencing
is an essence an illusion which
was created in this universe
for the purpose of expansion so
when we're talking about soul mates
and twin flames we have
to be talking from a
different dimensional perspective than
the ultimate universal objective of
truth we must
talk about it from a prospective
closer to the physical perspective that
we have which recognizes the difference
and recognizes the individuality as a subjective truth.
When most of us say twin flames
are soul mates, what we mean
is as soul connection between two halves of the same soul.
The theory is, in the
beginning of time we were
created as a perfect
soul that we split
into two soul halves, one
female and the other male.
Theory is, that those two
halves of one soul were
cast upon us to forever look for one another.
They would reincarnate over lifetimes with
this longing for each other
and once they finally met, they
would reunite and be in
love and then leave this physical
plane as one whole individual soul.
This idea is flawed as it
describes trait to souls that
are more physical than there are energetic.
A soul is not a
clump of energy like a
body is a clump of
bones and flesh to imply
that a soul can be cut
into two and placed as a clump of energy.
In reality a soul is
nothing more than a stream of
concsiousness in stream can't be cut in half.
Let's pretend that these unified
consciousness or this oneness
we speak of and call God or source, is an infinite ocean,
and all water comes from this ocean.
Rivers and streams are therefore
a projection of that ocean,
a different expression of that same ocean.
Rivers diverging from the ocean
and creaks diverging from the
rivers are still made of ocean water.
In the same way, what we
call soul families, are just
rivers that have projected forth
from the ocean i. E.
Streams of consciousness that have
projected forth from unified consciousness,
and what we call individual souls, that
experience specific re-incarnation path
are just creeks that have projected forth from that projected forth from that stream.
Now, interestingly enough, these creeks
can project forth into the
physical as multiple beings at one time.
Your soul could in essence
be incarnated here on earth
and multiple individuals both human
and non-human, and much of
the time, one aspect of you
ran into another aspect of you,
you would have no just awareness of it.
However, if you were
in a moment of true appreciation and
if you had released resistance especially
to yourself and you
were to rendezvous with another aspect
of you, you would recognize
an immediate feeling of oneness
and of coming home because oneness
and home is in essence
energetically closer to you
when you're encountering your own soul
stream, creek then we
were encountering another source stream, ie another creek.
Ultimately, we are being
drawn towards the ultimate reason
in the universe, which is that
we're all one and so
when you are in alignment you will
meet that person or those
people who are other projections
of you're same soul, and you'll
be insatiably attracted to them.
We're closer to the truth of oneness when we are with them.
that's what the feeling of being
completed by someone actually
is, it is the recognition of the self in the other.
Many of us did intend
to the experience of uniting with
another aspect of our very own soul.
When we came in, before we
came in to this physical
expirience we always
choose our gender according to
the way we serve our expansion the
very most in a specific
life, but because
some of so many of us come in
with the prebirth intention of experiencing
oneness on a physical level,
quite often we split into
polar aspects, so that
we can experience the unification of
those two genders which makes
a more complete whole, that's why
more often than not what
you'll find is an aspect
of the soul coming in female, an
aspect of this soul coming in
male and then experiencing that
feeling of oneness truth physical
body by the uniting the two of them.
Quite often a male
and female projection, from one
soul's stream comes into
life separately in order
to experience the contrast of loneliness
and separation which gives rise
then to the desire for unity
and coming home which when
we line up with it is satisfied
through meeting that either male
or female aspects of ourselves
and then pair bonding with him.
These pair bonding monogamous relationships
are often agreed upon in pub before birth.
and often when we meet that
person we can feel fit
and in a relationship because of
it.
It's also true even if this
an experience which we're having
we have most likely chosen to
do it in multiple life times,
we've chosen to come in again
and again to find that
same separation and then
find that same feeling of
unity, we'll continue doing
that potentially with this other
aspect of our same soul
string until that experience no longer serves our expansion.
The traditional view of a
soul mate, or twin flame is
that it must happen between polar
aspects, a male and female.
This is not the case.
we can bump into and find
unification with an aspect
of our soul stream, that is
incarnated as the same gender as ourselves.
When this is the case, we
will experience the same level
of romance and sexual attraction
as the heterosexual soul mate couple would have for each other.
Here is an interesting side
note though, if you are
in a resistance vibration, if
you are profoundly out of
alignment, you will not
rendezvous with your soul
mate, and if you do they
will most likely be a clash at first.
This is why, where there
is powerful and strong desire
and intent which there always
is when we're dealing with a
Soul Mate or Twin Flame, that
in this moment not being
satisfied from when the
two of you get together and see
each other in that aspect of
disconnection, the friction
will be palpable, this means
if you are your Soul Mate, focus
negatively in a way that
causes you to hold yourselves in
resistance to each other, you
will be going so against the
current of the stream of
consciousness within the both
of you, that it will be
like trying to hold a high
powered magnet apart, great pain would be the result of that resistance.
This core between soul mates
and Twin flames is particularly painful.
So how is it exactly
that you know you have met your Twin flame or soul mate?
Here's a list of common attributes
that go along with the Soul
Mate, or a Twin Flame relationship.
You had dreams or vision of
this person before physically meeting in this lifetime.
Meeting your partner felt like coming
home to a familiar long
lost energy after meeting
you may even have memories of
other times and places with
that person they are not part
of this life experience so far.
Your partner mirrors your own
issues, concerns and imbalances but
you also complement each others
skill sets of talents and capacities.
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You may of different ages the
same or opposite sex that's no
different backgrounds opposing religions or
cultures but you feel
an incredible unity or an
incomparable sense of oneness with this partner.
You feel each others symptoms illnesses
and emotions even when you
are not near each other or in communication.
Your functioning might be impaired
or less after all when you are apart from your twin flame.
It physically and mentally hurt
when you are not together like trying
to hold a high powered magnet
apart when you're with
your partner and your relationship
is imbalanced, you become stronger
more powerful and more capable
of whatever you felt you feel
united and a mission or
calling to see if others
who are the world your unconditional
love for your partner is like no other.
Your partner is likely to have
a certain habit, quality or some
of the offended baggage that would
be a deal breaker for you
in the other relationship, however, you
over look at willingly and you
work through with your partner no matter what it takes.
You met your partner after being
forced to develop some measure
of self acceptance or self approval.
It's likely that you met, when you were least expecting it.
As a result, you have an
intense level of friendship, on
top of the sexual attraction between you.
In effort to harmonize, expand, and
balance each other, you push
each others buttons and test each
other each others limits, in order to
call each other into becoming the highest version of yourselves.
Friends, family members, and others
in your circle are affected and
humbled and deeply moved, by the relationship.
They too express that they
feel that there's something cosmic at work in the union.
They are sometimes threatened by this.
The growth you experience, the lessons
you learn, and the person become
in the twin flame relationship are
more significant, happen much more
rapidly, and are more
powerful than any other experience
or period of growth in your time.
You realize that your previous
soul mates or other relationships prepared
you for the twin flame reunion,
your twin flame may even have
own body a number of
the unusual characteristics or outstanding
attributes of your previous
mates, or relationships.
You feel as if you've been waiting your whole life for this person.
When you looked back at your
life you see that all
of the sabotaged relationships, or other
situations that manifested that may
have seemed unfortunate at the
time manifested because you
were still waiting or looking for this person.
Even if you don't particularly enjoy
a three dimensional experience here on
earth, you heal, evolve,
mature and continue to live.
Earth itself begins to feel
more like home because they are here.
The more that you and your twin
partner spend time together, the
more rapidly and completely you
will awaken to higher consciousness you
have a deep internal knowledge that
your twin partner is your destiny
and the feeling that this is
the case for more than just this lifetime.
When most of us say that we
want a soulmate or we want to meet our Twin Flame.
Want most of us are
meaning is, we want to
have a relationship that has
a lot more enjoyable partners
to it than contrasting parts to it.
We want a relationship that feels good.
We want that sense of belonging
with another person, that sense of unity.
But if your soulmate is in
essence, you, expressing yourself in
a different body, you cannot
even with this person, until
you start having a positive
emotional experience relative to yourself.
So how do you go about meeting your Twin Flame or your Soul Mate?
The answer is, you dramatically improve your relationship with yourself.
There is no one on this
earth who meet their Twin
Flame partner, in any
other ways than on the hills
of a dramatic change in their relationship with themselves.
a dramatic improvement in the way that they treat themselves.
A dramatic improvement, in their idea of self worth.
A dramatic improvement, in level
of commitment to one's unhappiness.
By its very nature of Soul
Mate relationship is one where
a partner hold intense levels of positive focus towards us.
To be amatched to another person
focusing that way towards us,
we must focus that way towards ourselves.
Submitting your soul-mate calls for
radical self-acceptance, self acceptance
is a by-product of focusing towards
yourself with attitude of approval towards yourself with an attitude of approval.
I find it ironic that spiritual
people tend to be the
ones which is the most focused on
finding soul-mates and on finding twin flames.
However, they are the ones that
are least likely to line
up with a twin flame or soul-mate
relationship earlier on in their lives.
Why is that?
It's because most of us in
the spiritual community are obsessed
with self improvement think about self improvement for a minute.
It implies that there are something
which needs to be improved, something
that's wrong with you right now
and thus it implies that you're focusing negative towards yourself.
Unless you can't be a match
to someone who focuses positive towards
yourself, and is a twin
same relationship, is a relationship
with someone focusing positively towards you.
You can't be a vibrational match
to them, form that standpoint.
We can only be matched with
soul mate if the things we
want to change about ourselves, we
want to change because we love
ourselves and think that the change will add to our happiness.
Not because we disapprove of ourselves
and think the chance would make us more lovable.
This means, quit trying
to change yourself, to make yourself
get to a space where someone will love you.
Start do accept who you are right here and now.
I mean is, nothing will ever
change about you, all those
flaws, are there for good.
I know it sounds radical, but
this is what's it's going to
take for you to meet your soul mate or your twin flame.
You're only going to be
able to attract them into your
experience when you're able to
find approval for every single
aspect of who you are right here and now.
no amount of changing yourself is going to make yourself, a match to them.
You do not need to change
to meet this person, you just
seem disturbed finding appreciation for yourself.
The very best exercise you can
use to help you line up
with your soul mate your twin flame,
is a self acceptance, self approval exercise.
What you do is you start in the morning.
Every morning when you first
wake up, you choose one
thing that you don't accept back yourself.
Something you can't stand you consider
it a flow on a major problem, on a major decept.
Discovery what that one thing is and then write it to the top of a paper.
And now you have to make
yourself right, as long of
the list is possible, of why
that particular trait is beneficial,
why it's good.
Find any thought that you
can possibly think of that
makes you feel better about
having that particular trait
or about that problem that you
can't accept, you want to find approval for it.
Now I'll give you
an example, let's say
that what I hated about myself as I'm emotionally unstable.
Let's find for it.
I give other people permission to
be where they are, no suppression,
intense periods of self awareness in growth.
I make it safe for people to be emotionally in tune and vulnerable.
I'm real, I have no
versed, Buddha was emotionally unstable.
Crisis leads to self discovery.
I draw people to life and it inspires them.
I know where I am in
a relationship and where the relationship is out.
My relationships are sure as hell never boring.
They're deep and they are epic.
When I'm emotionally unstable I'm not hiding from my partner.
He knows exactly how I am and who I am.
It entails tons of relationship
growth, I get
emotional love and support from other people when I'm emotionally unstable.
I'm a huge mirror for other people.
If emotions are a guiding
system I have a big
internal camus and I'm less likely to loose my way.
I'm healthy and have no addiction
because I do not suppress and I can not escape from the emotions.
I create unity power around
my healing crisis that connect other people.
I smashed the idea that you have to get on with it and buck up.
Stability equals suppression and
facades most of the time,
that is not a good personality trait.
I'm vulnerable.
I am transparent.
I give people permission to acknowledge
and honor their feelings instead of ignore or suppress them.
I'm asking for recognition and help which I couldn't ask before.
I'm good at asking for help, and now I receive it.
I'm proving that life doesn't fall
apart if you let yourself get caught by people.
I authentically heal and authentically
rally instead of fake it
on the exterior while I'm falling apart inside.
I had excess emotional energy which
makes me a brilliant and successful artist.
It is self expression.
So do twin flames exist?
Yes, they exist.
Does this mean that you're incomplete without them?
No, but it does mean
that you will feel more complete with
them because being with them
will bring you closer to the
universal truth of oneness.
And I've got and good news
for you if it is
a desire of yours to
meet your soul-mate or a
twin flame, it means
you have one, cause you
couldn't have that desire if you
weren't meant to achieve that desire.
You couldn't desire to have a
soul mate unless their was
one out there for you, so
have fun aligning with yourself
in finding approval for yourself to
such a degree that they come into your experience.
Have a good week.