Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com wearing the shirt that’s on the banner right
now.
On today’s video we’re going to be talking about a surprising trait, a unique trait,
something different, something I don’t think a lot of people talk about that makes women
more attracted to you and even people more attracted to you.
This is a double whammy. Let’s get into it.
No boring beginning rant.
Here’s the answer.
The surprising trait is curiosity.
Curiosity.
Don’t click off the video quite yet because I need to teach you why and how to use this
for your benefit.
For your worldly benefit.
So many different benefits.
Showing interest in a person makes them a little bit more interested in you.
It also makes them reciprocate.
There’s something Robert Cialdini talks about in his book called Influence, the law
of reciprocity.
When someone feels that you’ve done something for them, they feel this need to reciprocate.
That’s going to make them want to ask you questions.
Not 100% of the time but it ups your chances of someone asking you questions back and getting
into a full conversation.
And he provides the foundation of a good conversation because if you can ask someone something about
themselves.
We’re talking about curiosity here so showing curiosity into someone’s life who they are
as a person.
If you can do that, there’s a whole array of things that a person can tell you about
themselves.
And this can make conversation blossom and go into a hundred different directions and
they can last longer (I know a lot of you guys have trouble keeping conversation) and
make it more interesting.
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I hope I’ve convinced you enough the curiosity can be very powerful and also very beneficial
for you in the long fun because when you learn about people and you learn about why they
do what they do, the things they’re interested in, you’re learning something.
You’re soaking in knowledge.
If you learned something new from someone about them that they’ve done before, that
they’ve experienced, that can end up having a major impact on your life.
I know there’s been times in my life when I’ve talked to someone and I’ve heard
about a new experience they had and I was like whoa I gotta try that.
One example of that is this thing called fly boarding.
Fly boarding is when you’re strapped in with your feet and connected to this tube
that spits out water and it’s like you’re flying above the water.
That was really fun and I would’ve never known about that unless I had a conversation
with someone about it.
Again, very beneficial.
Let’s get into the how.
How do you do this?
How do you cultivate this personality trait?
I feel a little bit blessed that I have been lucky to be born a curious person.
Here’s the thing.
I think a lot of people are curious.
I think you’re curious.
But for a long time maybe this is true to you too, it’s like you’re curious but
you’re nervous to ask questions to start conversations.
You have this inside of you, you love to learn about people but you can’t do it because
you’re too shy.
I’m asking you at this point to access that part and try it out.
Just try it out because that’s the key here is experimentation.
Let’s try it out and see what it would be like to be curious and to ask some people
some questions to ask the next girl you meet some questions about her and learn something
new about her.
Or maybe you don’t care, maybe you’re like I’m just not a curious person and I
don’t care.
I’m going to ask you again, if you’re that person on that side just try it out.
Try out being curious just for one conversation and see where it gets you and also I question
your motives.
If you’re trying to get into conversations to meet girls and you absolutely don’t care
about them at all, why are you talking to them?
To use them?
To not make a real connection with a person?
Seems a little shallow if you ask me.
Have to say it.
By the way, some people are asking me where I’m at right now.
I’m in Bali.
I’m with an amazing co-working retreat called Find Your Pack.
This has been awesome so far.
Basically you join a co-working group if you work from a computer or if you have some time
off of work and you’re hanging out with a bunch of people who are adventuring and
doing stuff in a new country and you get to hang out and do some work, do some play and
it’s a fun month.
I suggest you check it out and if you want to learn more about the one that I’m at,
I’ll put a link in the description below.
It’s called Find Your Pack.
Curiosity, can you do it?
Can you do it?
Can you try to access that part that gets you a little bit more curious?
Because I think once you experiment with it like I’ve been trying to teach you here
and tap into it, I think you might end up liking it because it is interesting learning
about people and having conversation that are less superficial and of course deeper.
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Talk to you tomorrow.