- Do you think easy accessibility to casual sex
has anything to do with the declining marriage rate
amongst younger people?
- You know what Steve?
I don't think that social media having more accessibility
to it makes you more of a ho.
Alright?
I don't think you scrolling then all of a sudden
something hits you and you're like,
you know what, I'm just gonna sleep with everybody
all the time.
(audience cheering)
- Steve one of the reasons divorce is down
is because marriage is down.
If people don't get married, they don't get divorced, right?
And the young people, Nina you're right,
except for the fact that young people have seen
catastrophes in marriage, they don't trust it.
Their families have been broken, they were hurt by that
as kids, and they're like I'm having nothing to do
with that.
But they're still living together, having babies together.
They just don't get married so often.
- When you refer to cheap sex, are we also talking
about what's free and available to everybody on the internet
because everybody's in this adventure stage
in the younger generation, so they're exploring
and they're quite busy, and they're having less
human connection, and spending more time to what's available
which is, you know, encouraging them to delay
the actual challenge of a human connection
or a relationship.
- That's one of the reasons that sex is so casual,
because there's no connection.
- We used to have to show it with roses.
We used to have to actually put on deodorant.
(audience laughing)
We'd go out on a date.
- We've talked about that.
- We still want that.
- I'm like, I still want a rose.
(audience clapping) (laughing)
- There's a different social standard.
- I will say this, I think you're right,
in a way, because I do think that,
as casual as relationships are becoming,
because you can just Tinder someone
and say I'm down the street, yeah I'll meet you out,
there is no gravitas to having and wooing a partner anymore.
It's maybe not so much the fact that it's cheap sex,
but I think all the rules of dating, and being chivalrous
have gone out the window.
So maybe people are like, I'm not gonna marry that guy.
- I just don't like the idea where it feels like
it's up to the woman to make you be a gentleman.
That should be ingrained in you just as things are
ingrained in us, and I feel like there's a lot of pressure
on the woman.
- That's true.
Two things have happened.
In order to get easy access to sex, we got to get it
from somebody.
- What?
- So now, if you easy and accessible, that's it.
So your standards have been lowered
as a whole.
But the reason women's standards have been lowered,
is because men have deceived you.
You have been deceived, and we done had faked you
to death.
To where now you've lowered yourself just so you could say
you with somebody.
Because like you said, you used to have to
get some flowers and go,
and women still would love to have that,
but now that's not a requirement.
It's swiping right, swiping left,
it's you have no contact, you're standing there
texting each other.
Until the standards are put back in place
we gonna keep stepping over your little two-foot high fence
'cause the rest of all the gate you got guarding your yard
we gonna step over the two-foot fence and we gonna play
in your grass.
(audience cheering)
- We need bring delayed gratification
back just a little bit.
- Let me give something that I think is really gonna help
a bunch of women in this particular space.
Right now, most of our women don't know how to properly
identify the difference between what I call a grown male
and a man, okay?
A grown male can look, he's wearing the uniform of a man
but still stuck in the emotional capacity of a boy.
(audience clapping)
A grown male is a male who generally looks to be served.
A man is a male who generally looks to be of service.
(audience cheering)
- That sounds like a man in balance of masculine
and feminine energy.
- We gonna take a quick break,
we got more Straight Talk, so stick around folks.
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