So, a friend of mine in college, we used to tease her for being a goody two-shoes.
She didn’t drink, she didn’t smoke, and she never used a swear word.
That being said, one night, she blew everybody’s mind by revealing that she had dated a drug
dealer in high school.
And that takes me to the first point in today’s video why good girls date bad boys, they want
a reputation.
[sound effect] Again, back to my friend, Sarah, in her mind,
this association with the drug dealer made her a bit edgy.
In fact, the article I was reading written by a psychologist talked about why women do
this.
They want to be able to step out of their boundaries without actually breaking the rules.
So, in today’s video, gents, we’re going to talk about the scientific reasons that
women are attracted to bad boys.
Are you ready, gents?
Let’s do this.
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Next up on the list, excitement. Dating a bad boy for a lot of girls brings out a side they didn’t even know existed.
Or has been there and they just get the chance now to release it.
Now, personally, I’ve never seen myself as much of a bad boy, but when I had the motorcycle
wore my leather jacket, I had random women jumped on the back of my bike, put their arms
around me, hold me close and say, “Hey, let’s go for a ride.”
Why?
They’re looking for something out of the ordinary.
Their lives perhaps are incredibly boring and a lot of us live lives that it’s the
same thing again and again.
To be able to – all of a sudden interject some excitement, something that’s unknown,
something maybe their parents and friends tell them not to do, all of a sudden, they’re
living a life they’re living on the edge.
They’re doing something that is outside their normal boundaries and they find they
love it.
And, let’s just face it, when you’re with somebody who doesn’t listen to what everything
society tells them to do that breaks the rules, it’s a lot easier for you to follow suit,
to break the rules as well and they don’t judge you.
So, all of a sudden, yeah, you can have a little bit too much to drink, you can finally
smoke whatever it is you wanted to try.
You can put yourself in those situations, they’re a little bit edgy.
Yes, it says do not climb the fence, do not go on this private property.
Guess what?
You’re going to go out there and you’re going to do it anyway because you’re going
to have fun.
And this is what, again, a lot of people are drawn to, not just women.
A lot of guys, that’s why we like hanging out with that rebellious friend or that friend
that gets in a bit of trouble because he seems to know how to have fun.
Next up, let’s talk about bad boys and sex appeal.
They have a reputation for being good in bed.
Now, is there any data that actually backs that up?
I wasn’t able to find it.
But, people’s expectations, guys, it has a huge effect on the reality on how much they
enjoy something.
And here is the reality is 52% of men are dealing with erectile dysfunction.
So, if that’s you, if you’re having trouble in the bedroom, think about how that’s affecting
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The next scientific reason why women are drawn to bad boys, it’s based off the good gene
theory of mate selection.
And this was highlighted in the book, Hormonal.
The doctor there, she’s going in a lot of detail about how when women are ovulating,
they are drawn to Chad.
Yes, we all know, you know, Chad, no one can compete with Chad.
He is the sigma male.
But, that’s the idea is that women, they are looking for very strong masculine features,
the physical attraction.
What basically nature for a hundred thousand years through selection told, hey, you need
to kind of get with this guy because his kids are probably going to be the most likely ones
to be able to survive and pass on your genes.
Now, in today’s modern world, does it still matter?
To a degree.
But I will say that women are very complicated in mate selection.
And during the majority of the time, they are drawn to actually the provider, to the
guy that actually can bring stability to the relationship.
And that was a big thing that women are looking at.
It was interesting, the author of the book, she’s a woman.
She admits that, hey, women should understand this, so that they can make better decisions,
not, you know, a couple of days out of the month, you know, when their emotions are drawing
– their hormones are drawing them towards a certain guy to fall into, yeah, his lap
that could lead to a, you know, maybe a strong coupling, but a bad long term relationship.
I don’t know, what do you guys think?
Is that theory a bunch of BS?
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This next point was brought up by a psychologist and I actually agree with her point that she
says that women enjoy the chase just as much as men.
And I know as a guy, if you have things thrown
you, I mean, they’ve shown lions in cages when they are just thrown meat.
After a while, they don’t eat very well.
They need to actually engage, they need to go after something to feel the chase.
And that’s why I feel even in a healthy relationship, a long term when you need to
have a little bit of excitement, a little bit of fun, play a few games with each other.
But, point being is that women enjoy the game as well.
So, yeah, they may have somebody coming after them that is right there, but they are, you
know, especially if they’re young, if they are at a point where they’re still looking
for that one right person, yeah, that person is little – I’m going to have to go after
and do some work and they’re drawn to it.
And right with the chase, there is the challenge.
The challenge of they want to be the woman, they want to be the one that converts him,
that brings him back to the light.
They want to be the one that they – he’s a wild horse, they want to tame him.
They view this as, hey, no one has been able to do this, I am the woman for the challenge.
You know as men, we are drawn to challenges as well.
We are chase, you know, the chase the challenge, I can definitely see how those two play, you
know, a role in why women are drawn to the bad boy.
Now, these next three reasons were all negative, so I’m going to bring them all together.
And that is they are may be emotionally damaged.
[sound effect] They actually cannot be in a stable relationship because they weren’t
raised in a stable relationship.
And it doesn’t feel normal, it feels strange and they have to get out of it and they actually
seek damaging relationships.
Relationships with guys that are going to cheat on them, are going to leave them.
And this is what they’ve known and in a sense, that pain, yes, it’s bad, but it’s
familiar to them.
Also, you’ve got some women that they choose a relationship with a bad boy because they
view this as it’s an F you to their ex.
They are so vindictive that they want to be in something that’s opposite.
They want their ex-boyfriend, who had everything together who provide, you know, was just a
great guy, but for some reason they just simply want to, you know, flip him the middle finger.
And this last one now that I’m thinking about it actually isn’t bad, they’re just
going into the relationship knowing that it will end.
They see the exit, they know where the door is at.
This is a bad boy, this is not going to work out.
This is not what I need in my life, but you know what?
Maybe it’s what I need tonight, maybe it’s what I need for a few weeks, maybe it’s
just what I need for, you know, a few nights out just to simply live and try something
different.
But, yeah, I know that this is not going to last and so, I can already plan where I’m
going to get out of this.
So, what video to watch next?
Do women prefer masculine men or feminine men?
Guys, find out in this video right here.
I had a lot of fun putting it together.
Seriously, click on it.
Go check it out, a solid video, you’ll enjoy it.
Boom, click right there.
All right, guys, see you in the next video.
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