Uncle C, back in the office.
And in today's video, I'm going to be discussing the exact five secret ways to know if a woman
that you are seeing or that you're dating, or that you're interacting with has been monkey
branching.
Now, real quick recap from the week, some of you might have seen me in a couple of older
videos from last month in the studio, and I've been slowly building it out and slowly
getting everything set up.
And you'd be surprised just how hard audio equipment actually is to get processed and
set up the correct way.
It's a nightmare.
But today, I wanted to talk about this because I know that you know, just from what I've
seen in the comments section, and what I've seen from, you know, guys who have been inside
of my closed members, groups and products.
I've seen a lot of men who are in long term relationships or have you know, committed
girlfriends, stuff like that.
And so because I've seen so many 1000s of students, and so many 1000s of comments, what
I wanted to do today is I wanted to go through the five telltale signs that a woman that
you're seeing or that a woman that you're engaging with is probably monkey branching
and finding higher value mate, so to speak.
So the very first thing you must look out for is going to be phone notifications that
are constantly off.
Here's what I mean by that.
Well, what will happen with the phone is there's a settings feature where the setting is flipped
on where it's like a notification comes in, but you can't see it pop up.
So what that is, is a text message might come in, but it doesn't say the name.
And it doesn't say the text, it just says iMessage.
Or it just says Snapchat notification.
In my experience, when I've seen this happen nine times out of 10, either the guy is being
cheated on or he's about to be cheated on.
So what I would recommend in this situation, if you see even just this one instance, is
because you there's there's a lack of clarity as to what are the actual stance of both of
you.
And ultimately, there's a strong chance you have lost the masculine frame within the relationship.
And because of that, you're probably not being looked at, as you know, the high value man
that you probably once were when you first started dating, what I would do in that situation
is you're going to want to just straight up dissolve the relationship and you don't want
to give reasons why you don't want to justify yourself, you don't want to go into big long,
lengthy explanations, you don't even want to tell why you're doing it, you just say
hey, based off of where we're at, I think it's best if we go our separate ways.
And the shorter you can be with it.
And the lesser reasons, the less you will be backpedaling on your own speech, and it
will play out better for you in the long run, just cut the baggage when the baggage is presenting
itself.
The second thing you're going to want to look for is tons of notifications just to stay
occupied.
So what I mean by this is, you will notice when you're in a relationship, or guys are
oftentimes in relationships, and the women that they're with are not necessarily even
if they're physically together, maybe at the dinner table, they're physically together
when they're out.
She's acting as if he does not exist.
Here's what I mean, the phone has became the main source of attention.
So between the Tick Tock notifications, going off the Snapchat notifications going off texting
this friend texting that friend calling that friend, maybe you guys are out mid supper,
and she'll just pick up the phone and call one of her friends.
It's like she's receiving all of the benefits of the relationship without actually putting
in the investment that you're hoping for.
This is the second aspect that not only is there potential monkey branching going on,
but you have to remember that the status of the relationship, there's just not that level
of investment that you probably need for the relationship cohesion to actually be smooth.
What's number three, number three, does not look for ways to improve the relationship
aka no fear of loss.
Now, if you're taking notes during this video, because I know a lot of you do take notes
during these.
I fundamentally believe you should put a star or a circle by this one because it is the
most important.
If there is no fear of loss, your relationship will consistently get worse.
And here's what I mean by that.
If there's no level of expectation, that means there's no level of desire that must be met,
which means there's no investment or there's no work being put into it.
So if I read this word for word, again, does not look for ways to improve the relationship.
That's going to be a telltale sign that most often than not the companion you're seeing
just doesn't care.
And oftentimes the reason why they were in a relationship with you in the first place
is either they were lonely and B were the best viable option at that time.
Or C you know, they just didn't want to necessarily be alone and take on life by themselves.
Because of that you have to look for that one and if that one
is coming up and there's no fear of loss, there's no genuine desire, if there's no genuine
desire, not only are you going to have, you know, a bedroom that is very lackluster, but
you're also just not going to have the key components components that it would take for
you to be fulfilled as well.
I'm trying to go through these slides, and I'm trying to go through through these kind
of methodically, so that way they really do sink in.
The fourth is going to be self serving.
This isn't just with women that you're dating, this could be with anybody.
Okay, if the person that you're consistently with whether it be friends, relatives, anything,
they're only with you, if they're going into it with a mentality of hey, what's in it for
me?
What do I get out of this?
What is it that I'm entitled to with this, I'm not willing or wanting to do it, if it
doesn't help me or benefit me in any way, shape, or form.
If that's actions that you are seeing.
Most often than not, what will happen is there will be monkey branching to a guy that will
be willing to set a standard and is self serving himself.
Now these truths as I say them, for some of you, they're going to probably or potentially
rub you the wrong way.
It's going to make you feel some type of way, okay?
That's okay.
To get in touch with that and to be okay with that you accept it for what it is, you accept
the truth and you move on.
Now, the one thing about life is that when it comes to psychological stuff like this,
or when it comes to, you know, the, the thoughts of a person, life's very hard, okay, unless
gonna have a lot of roadblocks in it.
Now, I'm not here to tell you that those roadblocks don't exist.
What I am here to do is I'm here to equipped you with the correct tools in your tool belt
so that way you can handle each obstacle as they come your way because make no mistake,
they will come and that's inevitable.
The fifth sign of monkey branching is going to be no desire or arousal from her.
If you're noticing that you have to consistently initiate intimacy first, if you're consistently
the one who has to, you know, do any sort of sweet gesture that could be physically
it could be romantic.
There's no genuine desire from the get go.
And if there isn't that not only do I recommend you exit the relationship first, but I recommend
you exit far before you're the one who's left dumped, heartbroken or cheated on.
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