Hi, in today’s video I’m going to reveal the Real Reason why Men pull away…
Now of course there is not just one reason why… there can be thousands of reasons why,
and some of the most common are…1.
He may have met someone else that he also likes so he’s hedging his bets and has pulled
away to give himself the space to work out who he likes more.
2. He may not want to be in a relationship right now because he’s emotionally bruised from
a past relationship.
He wants attention, that’s it.
3. Or he may not be that into you.
I know this one can sting, but it can be the reason.
4. You might remind him of his ex in some way and it’s triggering some emotional pain
and he wants to be as far away as possible from that past pain.
Even if in reality you’re nothing like his ex he’s not willing to take the risk.
5. And lastly some men during the early stages of dating emotionally withdraw from a woman
not because they don’t want to be with you, they’re preparing themselves emotionally
for commitment and they’ll rubber band back in no time.
This is quite a common type of pulling away men do… they’re mildly freaked out that
they’ve met an amazing woman, though the freak out is only short lived.
Once they’re through it they’re ready to reconnect and keep building the relationshipThough
there is one other reason why men pull away that most men won’t talk about and the reason
why they won’t openly talk to you about it is that they can feel some level of shame
or embarrassment around this.
Why?
Because what I’m about to sure with you is largely linked to a man’s ego, masculinity
and the story he has built up in his mind about what it means to be a man and to be
successful as man in a committed relationship…
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So let’s get back to it…The real reason why many men pull away and wont tell you why
is because they don’t feel like they’ve achieved enough in life to be with you.
Being with you highlights aspect of themselves that they’re not yet happy with, namely
they believe, true or not, that they’re unable to provide for you in a way that makes
them feel good about themselves.
Even if you’re financially secure and you don’t need a man to support you.
If this is his insecurity, the more successful you are and the more you’ve achieved will
only highlight this insecurity within him that will see him feeling worse.
At first he may come across as though he’s met the woman of his dreams, because you’re
precisely the kind of woman that he wants in his life, but he’s not the man he thinks
he needs to be to make you happy.
He will feel an increasing pressure to be more for you and everyday when he looks at
himself in the mirror he will feel like a failure and this pressure makes men run for
the hills.
And you don’t need to say anything to trigger this insecurity in him.
It’s a part of him that only he can come to terms with by either; achieving more in
his career or making more money, or if he wins the lotto.
Now you may be wondering, well, how do I not trigger this in him… the answer is there
is very little you can do to shift this insecurity and fear in him.
Even if you’re personally not financially in a great position, yet he sees you as this
amazing woman that he wants to care for, love and protect.
He will still feel the same.
He will feel not enough for you.
When a man’s worth and value is attached to achievement, status and money – he’ll
need some serious therapy to get over that.
Now of course there are some women who’ve got their own insecurities when it comes to
relationships and have their own egocentric behavior running when they meet men.
Some women will be sure to let a man know that they don’t need a man, they will say
certain things that indicate how much they earn by talking about something expensive
they bought to prove that they don’t need anyone.
This will be a turn off for pretty much any man except a gold digger type of male … and
yes, they do exist, though that’s not attracting the right kind of man.
When a man talks about money or perhaps overshares about his bonuses, his cars, and so on it
can he a turn off for many women so why would a man like this…
When a man does this it feels as though he’s trying to buy a woman’s affections though
his money.
A woman who’s looking for a compatible partner will see through this and will become cautious,
sure she’d like a man who’s financially secure, though that’s not the only thing
she’s looking for in a long term partner.
So what does all of this mean?
Well, as I said before when a man pulls away because of this reason there is nothing you
have done and little you can do to change it.
You’ve shown up as your gorgeous self and he’s battling with his own demons.
And be careful - men who have this mindset can battle with their desire for you and their
insecurities, and will often run hot and cold, they want you don’t want you…and not because
they don’t like you.
This kind of yo-yo-ing is not healthy for anyone.
Most importantly, not for you.
You can’t take this personally.
It’s in your interest to accept it and let him go and focus on meeting a man who’s
ready for a lasting partnership with a special woman.
The strange things is, once this guy feels better about himself he will most likely reconnect
with you months or even years later to see if he can give it another go – now that
he’s truly ready for big love.
And sometimes within in a short period of time you’ll see him dating someone else,
which will trigger you to think that it was you that was the issue.
Men in this situation usually date “lower hanging fruit” or younger women, who in
their minds want less from them.
This doesn’t mean you wanted more from him, this is all about his perceptions, not what
you said or did.
In a nutshell, a man can adore you and still run away and there’s little you can do about
it.
So please promise me that you won’t turn yourself inside out trying to work out why
he pulled away.
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That’s it for this topic – please let me know your very own experience with this
topic in the comments.
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