This video is about this is "What Your EX is Thinking About You!"
I will reveal what your ex is possibly thinking about you right at this very moment
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This is going to apply to anyone and everyone irrespective of age, gender, race, religion, where you're from
etc. Of course I'm going to generalize here but not too massively so hear me out
Whether it's been one week or one year, your ex and you didn't work out... perhaps you broke it
off with them... maybe they were toxic and abusive... maybe you were just unsatisfied and miserable
maybe you were sleeping in separate beds... maybe you just fell out of love with them over time... maybe
you really struggled to see a future with them... maybe you mentally checked out years before... maybe
they were not who you thought they were and The Mask finally slipped. Or perhaps they broke it off
with you? Maybe they out of the blue packed their bags and left... maybe they secretly had an affair
maybe they felt Fed Up and dissatisfied or fell out of love with you... maybe they lost attraction
or just wanted to be single... maybe they wanted somebody of a particular religion and culture
To be honest all of those things, reasons the multitude of scenarios and circumstances don't
really matter ...the reality is they are now an ex to you and you are their EX, and rather than going
through the grapevine or speaking to them directly (which I would advise you don't do) your curiosity
is peaking... "I wonder what they're thinking about me right now..." you might say you dedicated so much time
energy, money, emotions, resources to this person... it really is only natural to feel like that deep down
People say they don't care but in the initial period AKA The Grieving Period early on after
a breakup they're still curious about their ex and what they may be feeling towards you
What they might be saying about you... maybe they still love you... maybe they still want you back
Why don't we find out what your ex is thinking about you considering you're so curious?
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"Who Do They Think They Are?!" That's what your ex is thinking... let me explain
nobody likes to be dumped or be single again after a long time. Breakups of any kind and in any way
are a real blow to a person's self-esteem and ego. I once forced the hand of an ex-girlfriend who
suggested we should split up, I said "don't delay let's just do it then!" She agreed and wanted to
go through with it. I was actually shocked by her decision and had no choice but to accept, I did
try reasoning, talking things through, but she was stubborn, difficult, insisted on the separation so
much so she wouldn't even come and say goodbye to me face to face, and did everything over the phone
As I said goodbye for the final time blocking her as well, I'll never forget muttering these words I
said "who does she think she is treating me like this?!" Now granted I was upset, hurt and betrayed
at the time so it was only natural for me to react in such a way, and my emotions were really getting
the worst of me I was thinking "I felt like I was nothing to her, like my love meant nothing"
Everything I'd done was a waste, and my even my last ditch efforts to talk things through were
just a waste of time. The cold hard truth was I was essentially rejected when I didn't want
to be. I loved her, I felt bad that we didn't work out but she made up her mind the rest is history
Your ex is feeling the same. Their breakup is a real bruise and scar to their ego especially if they're
entitled, rude and immature. They stubbornly and foolishly just believed you were going to hang
around forever and most likely tolerate them too, but they were very wrong weren't they? Your
ex is annoyed but mainly deep down even though if you don't think it... they're just hurting because
you concluded you're better off without them. Now breakups of any kind can be really detrimental to
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"I Hate Them!" is possibly what your ex is thinking about you right now
Again this is them just hurting, coming to terms with the fact you're no longer together and so on
I dated a narcissist for years, I was in a toxic relationship for a long time, in fact when I left
I was emotionally drained and it took a while for me to get my life back together. At the time that
I walked away from the relationship I muttered these words "I hate her for the way she ruined
my life! The time wasted, the frustration I hate her!" Looking back a few years later with a calmer
hopefully more mature perspective, I clearly saw that I was in pain and suffering. Most people
who survive and walk away from these relationships can relate. Toxic people can even post breakup make
their victims lives a living nightmare, through nasty divorces, smear campaigns, stalking, lies of
manipulation, flying monkeys etc. The truth is I do not hate that toxic ex ofmine anymore, I've detached
myself from that person who I was attracted to in the first place and she certainly hated me for
dumping her. A massive bruise once again to the very fragile ego of a narcissist... when you eventually
move on grow, heal and learn from your mistakes, you hopefully become a healthy mature person...
and as awful as your ex was to you... you kind of learn to let it go and realize they were just
a brief chapter in The Grand Book that is your life. But some people never let it go, they take
that hate to the Grave, they carry their resentment forever, but it's not again about you as such it's
that you manage to beat them to it AKA breaking up with them before they broke up with you or having
the courage to do so or even believing you can survive, thrive without them in your life anymore...
So your ex probably hates you but take that hate with a pinch of salt please...
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"I Still Love Them" is what your ex is thinking about, whether it's been 24 hours or maybe even
24 years in some cases and some scenarios, your ex still loves you. There's a woman who walked away
from a relationship for the wrong reasons = she assumed she could do better back in the day
but her boyfriend left the country, moved on, got married, started his own family
for over 20 years and despite doing really well in her life, being so beautiful, she struggled to date
When asked about her ex she honestly replied to the following "I still love him... I always will... I
know I'll never see him or be with him again that's just the way it is..." 20 years later!
Love and relationships can in some cases be very generalized and formulaic
but when you really strip it away it's of course very personal and specific. This woman for example
has never found or met anyone like her ex and it's nothing to do with looks... it's just how he made her
feel... the connection...bond and has struggle to move on despite being a very eligible woman
EX's will always deep down have some form of connection to their former partners
they once lived with you, experienced life with you, parented with you, made love to
you, were a huge part of your life and you theirs and now they're gone or you're gone
Depending on the person and the scenario they will always love you and maybe you them but I
want to make a very clear distinction... they may love you but still not be in love with you... they
will cherish the memories you shared but perhaps they've moved on and you have too be wary of toxic
people who will manipulate the word "love" as a way to Hoover you back in to give the relationship
another try! You must stay strong and you must resist that Temptation, ideally by going no contact
Those people do not love you, they just want what they cannot have and to continue to manipulate you
"I Miss Them So Badly!" is the desperate cry of the ex... it could be the ex that screwed up the
relationship through cheating, making mistakes, never appreciating their partner... this ex is now
cursing their luck for taking you for granted but so too can the healthy person who walks
away from the relationship! There's a man I know who broke up with his partner of several years
because truthfully he saw no future in the initial period... he muttered these words every night "I miss
them so badly" he was now living alone... eating alone..spending many nights alone.. it was a real culture
shock and difference to his previous life in a relationship. It was the right decision as not
long afterwards he met the woman of his dreams and now settled down and had a lovely family
Toxic people again are not missing you, they miss your attention, they miss the arguments, the abuse
the shouting, treating you badly, cheating on you... they miss is having a puppet to take advantage of
Make no mistake these particular people have no empathy...so therefore why on Earth will they genuinely miss
you in a genuine loving healthy way? They don't, despite what they may say or do trust me on that...