Have you ever been ghosted after a date that you thought went pretty well? Have you ever
gotten this reply when trying to set up a second date? "Um i.. i don't know i just don't
think that i'm ready to date right now." or maybe this one "You're really nice i just
wasn't feeling it." Well guys i hate to break it to you but these are almost always excuses
the girls were just being nice to you they didn't want to hurt your feelings they didn't want to
make you feel rejected but she did not like you enough to want to go on a second date with you
and to make it worse she'll probably never really tell you why well that's what i'm here for in
this video i'm going to share with you the nine attraction cameras that women will never tell you
and to help you guys truly understand i'm actually going to be sharing with you my
own personal recent dating story where needless to say no second date because he was committing
almost all of these nine things you want to avoid he took me to a really nice place he arrived on
time the conversation was flowing i'm sure he thought that we had a great time but in reality
it was not going well at all and make sure that you stick to the very end because i'm going to
share with you the one thing he did that was so uncomfortable it was so awkward it completely
turned me off and i want to make sure that you guys never do this on your dates ever again
number nine you're not fully present guys we can tell when you're not present we can tell
when you're in your head when you're feeling uncomfortable when you're trying to plan out
what to do next what to ask us next where to take us next when to kiss us we know we can feel
that and it just comes off as you being really disconnected from us we want to feel you we want
to be in the moment with you we don't want to be having a conversation with you who's having
your own conversation with yourself in your head number eight he was boring this is not some formal
interview full of niceties and pleasantries over here we want to get to know you and
more importantly we want to have fun so drop that list of interview questions and start really
engaging with us one thing that you can do that's really going to help us is start genuinely getting
interested about us getting curious about us be playful with us we want to enjoy our time with
you number seven not leading it just does not come off very confident when you're allowing us to lead
the whole time not just allowing us to lead but that you refuse to lead it is such a turn on when
you're in your masculine you're leading you've already pre-planned the date and we're going to
take us and where to go instead of just standing there awkwardly with your hands in your pockets
and saying i don't know we can sit wherever you want to sit no guys take charge make a reservation
if you're taking her for dinner be proactive set the tone for the evening that will help you
so much more than you taking a back seat number six the all too dreaded super nice guy and i say
nice guy with quotations not kind guy we love a kind guy we do not like a nice guy and most of
you know what i mean when i say nice guy it's that you're only being nice because you're trying to
get something out of us whether it be something at the end of the date or whether it be you're
trying to get validation but it's altering the way that you are communicating and being with us
and it's just not attractive we don't want to date a persona a facade or a mask that you're putting
on because you think that you need to be a certain way to be with us we want to see the real you so
brush away that nice guy and be a kind but real guy number five just wanting to talk about the
things that she wants to talk about so this is a combination of the super nice guy the not leading
and the being boring all rolled up in one ball a very big ball of strength and we need to toss
that ball away because guys we're here to learn about you so stop putting us on a pedestal and
stop faking being so impressed with us and start getting more real and start sharing and asking
things that you're curious about start sharing things that are happening in your life don't make
it all about us this is a two-way street over here number four making it too formal the date should
certainly not feel like an interrogation it should be a fun time you're both having where you're
learning about each other you're getting to know one another so let go of that list that you've
tried to memorize before the date because you're so worried about running out of things to say
and start getting more present more in the moment more curious about her and start having more
fun with her now here's a really great tip that helps a lot of our students especially when
they're first starting to date to take that vibe that mood of the date from such an uncomfortable
awkward formal kind of feel start engaging with her as if you've known her for a long time
as if you're really comfortable with her take on the vibe as if you already know each other so
that's going to change how you're asking questions and also it's going to change what you're sharing
for example instead of asking her how was your day and she'll say oh it was fine thanks how was yours
so boring instead start sharing with her as if you've known her and if you're already comfortable
with her so what that looks like and said is oh my goodness sarah you would not believe the day that
i had it was like a string of miracles one after the other i thought i was gonna miss my deadline
and all of a sudden my boss called in sick so i had an extra two hours and then john who's
our copywriter decided to bring in his dog and so that just totally upped the mood in the office and
then we decided to have a pizza day and everyone actually took in my suggestion for hawaiian pizza
so score for me so now you've just shared so much in such a fun pleasant casual way and she's seen
a lot of you in a short amount of time so she knows what you're like at work she knows what
your favorite pizza is that you're an animal lover that you're a positive person all by
taking the assumption that you're communicating with her as if you've known each other for a long
long time bonus by the way feel free to use this tip for your online dating messaging it's going
to take it from bad boring fizzling conversations to much better fun and exciting exchanges number
three and this one should be a no-brainer and for some reason it's not because i see it happening
so so often and that is talking way too much about your ex on the state that i just had last week
the guy literally spent over half the day talking about how horrible his ex-wife was
how he doesn't know why but he seems to continuously attract toxic women how he doesn't
know why he ever ended up marrying her in the first place because the writing was on the wall
and it went on and on and on if anything try to avoid the topic in the first place but if you do
feel inclined to share a sentence or two is more than enough number two no touching so let's be
really clear on this because i'm not by any means saying that the second you see her you should go
and start being inappropriate with her no no no no no what i am saying is i want to get you to
a place where you're much more comfortable with casual touches because that's part of who you are
you're comfortable in your skin you are a physical person and you use your body to express yourself
in a nice warm and confident way so from the get-go you see her don't go in for the
handshake or the awkward wave going for the hug right from the get-go you want to start touching
now throughout the date you're gonna want to find little moments of casual touches if you're sitting
with her if you're at a bar a lounge a restaurant any time where you two are sitting together
try and avoid sitting directly across from one another this is going to lead to that awkward
stiff overly formal interview style mood instead sit either side by side with her or sit in an l
configuration where you are next to each other but almost diagonally you can be really close
so that your elbows are ever so slightly touching or even your knees are ever so slightly touching
that's a form of touch in it by itself and then find other ways to touch tap her gently on the
shoulder and point somewhere it's really loud at the venue that you're at take your hand and bring
her shoulder in so that you get closer and you can whisper something in her ear if you see a piece of
lint on her sweater or her shirt feel free to brush it off if her hair is falling in her eyes
feel free to sweep that away from her the key is is that you get comfortable in your skin
comfortable expressing yourself comfortable being a physical person and start doing these things
on a daily basis that way when it comes to sealing the deal on the date and getting the kiss it's not
so awkward because here is something that i'm going to share with you that just happened to
me the date was really awkward it felt like an interview we were sitting across from one another
there was absolutely no touching as women for the most part we can tell when you're liking us
and when it came down to him driving me back home he very awkwardly took his hand and just
plopped it on my knee and left it there so awkward and my heart so went out to him because i knew
he was trying to escalate and he was just really struggling and obviously there was no attraction
there because he was lacking that confidence in the first place and i felt terrible and it
was just awkward for the both of us do yourself a favor and start touching from the get-go and
number one the one thing that you're missing out on that you're not doing that if you were to be
doing would be giving you a lot more second dates is that you're not creating what i like to call
movie moments you're not creating those little moments of excitement of tension of anticipation
of escalation the entire date is just flatlining we need to feel those moving moments we want to
feel special we want to feel sexy what that essentially means is that you're not allowing
enough tension to build up during the date and you need tension for flirting for escalation to take
it to the next level you need those moving moments otherwise you're gonna put yourself in the friend
zone or even worse you're gonna get an excuse for why she doesn't want to go out with you again and
the ultimate is you're going to get ghosted so guys if you're struggling with this if you're not
sure what exactly you're doing wrong or if you're even having a hard time getting first dates then
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