You're talking to a girl, you think she's interested, and then she leaves, or she stops
replying to your texts, or she starts ignoring you or turning you down when you invite her
out, and you start thinking "UH OH. what did I do wrong?"
Has this ever happened to you?
Or maybe you've spent WEEKS learning how to appear confident and how to approach a girl
and how to overcome your anxiety and the best opening lines and all that, only to be baffled
when another guy just walks up like it's nothing and gets the girl you've been wanting.
Talking to girls can be hard.
We've all screwed up with it before.
So today, I'm here to teach you 5 Do's, and 5 Don'ts, to use when talking to girls.
These are really simple things you can remember, or write down in your notes app, and they'll
improve your chances with girls SIGNIFICANTLY.
Do: Be positive.
Smiling, being open-minded, having a good time, and showing that you're happy and having
fun, sets up a vibe that you're a really fun guy to spend time with.
You've probably noticed how people naturally gravitate towards fun, positive people, haven't
you?
So be like that.
This vibe that you create is important because it subconsciously shows a girl that you’re
a social guy and NOT a creep.
Being socially aware makes a girl feel WAY more comfortable with you because it allows
her to let her guard down.
Guys get nervous around girls and lose their sense of social skills, making them act creepy
and weird.
Don't: Be negative.
Don't put yourself down.
Don't say negative things about yourself.
Don't grill her about whether she likes you, or ask her why she doesn't like you, or anything
like that.
Girls tend to like drama, but they DON'T like it when the guy is more dramatic than they
are.
If she wanted to date another girl, then she would!
Do: Be different.
If you look like a generic guy, with generic style, you approach her in a generic way,
with a generic opening line, have a generic conversation, and then ask for her number
so you can take her out on a generic date - that's boring.
Do something DIFFERENT.
Have a unique style.
Drop an unusual line on her.
Take her on a date to somewhere she's never been before!
Girls LOVE this, because it automatically puts you above all the other guys she's known.
Girls associate guys with the things they do and the way they act, if you act and do
things that every other guy does then guess what?
In her head, you’re no different than all the other generic dudes she talks to.
Don't: Be needy.
This means: texting her every single day, multiple times a day, seeking her approval,
and getting even more needy and desperate if she doesn't talk to you or give you enough
attention.
This is a HUGE turn off and it will instantly destroy your chances with her.
I see guys do it all the time though, and if you're one of those guys - don't feel bad
- just stop doing it, RIGHT NOW.
Do: Treat her like she's a normal person, on the same level as you.
Most guys suck up to hot girls, and they act "fakenice" - this is a term I made up to describe
guys who aren't actually "nice guys," but who only ACT nice around girls because they
think it'll impress the girl or get the girl to like them or lead to the girl going out
with them or hooking up with them!
We all know guys like that.
Don't do it.
Don't treat a girl like she's ABOVE you.
Treat her like she's on the SAME LEVEL as you, and it'll make you stand out and seem
more real.
Don't give a girl special treatment just because of her looks - give it to her AFTER you get
to know her, because of her PERSONALITY.
Treating her just like any other person will make her REALLY into you, REALLY fast.
Don't: Treat her like dirt.
It's easy to listen to the last point I made and then say "oh, so that means I should be
an asshole to her."
No it doesn't.
Treating her like dirt is just as bad as treating her like a princess.
Treat her like she's ON THE SAME LEVEL AS YOU, like she's one of your bros, and don't
tip toe around her.
If you're comfortable with her, she'll know she can be comfortable with you.
And that’s a huge turn on.
Do: Actually make a move.
When I was younger, I used to get tons of girls' numbers, I'd text them a lot, and even
categorize them in my mind according to which ones I thought were most into me, which ones
were the hottest, which ones I'd actually date, and so on.
And I spent so much time texting that I'd just end up blowing them off the majority
of the time and not actually spending any time with them, because I assumed that if
they liked me now, they'd like me forever.
That definitely isn't true.
You want to strike while the iron is hot.
You want to make a move, and you want to do it quickly.
Capitalize on her attraction for you when it’s happening.
This means if you want a girl, go for her, and actually invite her out.
Don't let yourself get stuck in an endless loop of texting back and forth with no direction
or purpose.
Don't: Overanalyze.
One reason I don't like the "pickup artist community" is they overcomplicate things.
For example, there's something called a "List of Indicators of Interest" that you can reference
to see if a girl is into you - things like how many times she tucked her hair behind
her ear, the angle she's standing relative to you, and so on.
Forget all that BS.
If you want to talk to a girl, just talk to her, right now.
If she's interested in the conversation then make a move - ask her out, get her number,
invite her somewhere, and while you're out go for a kiss.
THAT'S IT.
Just talk - if she's into it, then make a move; if she's not into it, then don't; and
if she's into the conversation but not the move, then just back up a little and keep
talking.
This takes an understanding of what I call, “The Escalation Ladder” basically you
escalate slowly by doing things like grabbing her gently and leading her somewhere, holding
her hand, putting your arm around her, and eventually going for a kiss and so on.
Start slow, and build up to make sure she’s always comfortable.
Do: Have other fun things in your life.
The best way to get girls, is to not be obsessed with getting girls.
Having other fun things in your life, like family, friends, hobbies, sports, games, and
goals - will make you more confident and less desperate - which will make you happier, funner,
and you'll give off a less needy vibe, so girls will actually be MORE interested in
you.
You’ll also be higher value because you’ll be a man of substance.
This will increase your value and make connections and attraction with girls stronger.
Don't: Talk to only one girl.
This is a big mistake that younger guys make.
They single out one girl at school that they like, and they ignore every other girl.
What you actually want to do, is talk to lots of girls, because it'll give you experience,
it'll make you more comfortable and confident talking to girls in general, and it'll show
that one girl you like that other girls are into you, and that'll make her intrigued by
you.
And, once you get to know other girls, you might realize that they're actually pretty
cool and you like them even more than the original one.
Besides, dating is about building connections with women, you want to date lots of girls
so you can have a better idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
You’ll only find out by experimenting a ton.
Bonus tip: Tease her!
Girls like it when guys are fun and playful.
Don't always be completely serious.
If you think you're coming off as The Anti-Charisma, cut it out!
Have FUN with a girl, and let her have fun with you.
So that's it!
I hope these tips helped you, remember them or save them somewhere, and start using them,
and you'll IMMEDIATELY see your success with girls improve.
If you're subscribed to my channel, you may already be familiar with some of these.
I made this video because I wanted to make a quick checklist of what I thought were the
MOST IMPORTANT things to ALWAYS remember.
I highly recommend writing them down or screenshotting them in your phone so you have them handy
all the time.
Becoming a god at dating comes down to mastering how to communicate with girls… communication
is the basis of attraction and human connection.
These tips will help you master both.
The biggest problem guys face is communicating with girls over text…
most guys struggle with it so much in person that when it comes time to text a girl, it’s
a trainwreck waiting to happen.
That’s why I created, The Godly Texting Guide, the only course that’s guaranteed
to get you more responses and more dates with hot girls than you know what to do with.
In my course, The Godly Texting Guide, I breakdown the EXACT mindset you need to learn in order
to build her romantic interest, make her text YOU first, and most importantly, how to get
past her “Great Filter” and become the ONE guy she’s into and wants to spend ALL
of her time with.
The techniques in the course are the EXACT tactics I use in my day-to-day dating life
to get results like this.
My phone is FILLED with messages like this constantly.
And the thousands of Basedlympians who have gone through the course have also gotten insane
results just like this.
Like this guy who said he never considered paying for anything online, and going through
this course completely changed his mind.
Or this guy who used the in-depth version of my technique known as The Pullaway, and
had a girl ASK HIM OUT...
If you want to get results like these guys and thousands of other ambitious men, then
click the link in the description and i’ll see you in there.
A phone filled with messages from the hottest girls you know is just around the corner…
trust me I was just there…
Zeus out.
You're talking to a girl, you think she's interested, and then she leaves, or she stops
replying to your texts, or she starts ignoring you or turning you down when you invite her
out, and you start thinking "UH OH. what did I do wrong?"
Has this ever happened to you?
Or maybe you've spent WEEKS learning how to appear confident and how to approach a girl
and how to overcome your anxiety and the best opening lines and all that, only to be baffled
when another guy just walks up like it's nothing and gets the girl you've been wanting.
Talking to girls can be hard.
We've all screwed up with it before.
So today, I'm here to teach you 5 Do's, and 5 Don'ts, to use when talking to girls.
These are really simple things you can remember, or write down in your notes app, and they'll
improve your chances with girls SIGNIFICANTLY.
Do: Be positive.
Smiling, being open-minded, having a good time, and showing that you're happy and having
fun, sets up a vibe that you're a really fun guy to spend time with.
You've probably noticed how people naturally gravitate towards fun, positive people, haven't
you?
So be like that.
This vibe that you create is important because it subconsciously shows a girl that you’re
a social guy and NOT a creep.
Being socially aware makes a girl feel WAY more comfortable with you because it allows
her to let her guard down.
Guys get nervous around girls and lose their sense of social skills, making them act creepy
and weird.
Don't: Be negative.
Don't put yourself down.
Don't say negative things about yourself.
Don't grill her about whether she likes you, or ask her why she doesn't like you, or anything
like that.
Girls tend to like drama, but they DON'T like it when the guy is more dramatic than they
are.
If she wanted to date another girl, then she would!
Do: Be different.
If you look like a generic guy, with generic style, you approach her in a generic way,
with a generic opening line, have a generic conversation, and then ask for her number
so you can take her out on a generic date - that's boring.
Do something DIFFERENT.
Have a unique style.
Drop an unusual line on her.
Take her on a date to somewhere she's never been before!
Girls LOVE this, because it automatically puts you above all the other guys she's known.
Girls associate guys with the things they do and the way they act, if you act and do
things that every other guy does then guess what?
In her head, you’re no different than all the other generic dudes she talks to.
Don't: Be needy.
This means: texting her every single day, multiple times a day, seeking her approval,
and getting even more needy and desperate if she doesn't talk to you or give you enough
attention.
This is a HUGE turn off and it will instantly destroy your chances with her.
I see guys do it all the time though, and if you're one of those guys - don't feel bad
- just stop doing it, RIGHT NOW.
Do: Treat her like she's a normal person, on the same level as you.
Most guys suck up to hot girls, and they act "fakenice" - this is a term I made up to describe
guys who aren't actually "nice guys," but who only ACT nice around girls because they
think it'll impress the girl or get the girl to like them or lead to the girl going out
with them or hooking up with them!
We all know guys like that.
Don't do it.
Don't treat a girl like she's ABOVE you.
Treat her like she's on the SAME LEVEL as you, and it'll make you stand out and seem
more real.
Don't give a girl special treatment just because of her looks - give it to her AFTER you get
to know her, because of her PERSONALITY.
Treating her just like any other person will make her REALLY into you, REALLY fast.
Don't: Treat her like dirt.
It's easy to listen to the last point I made and then say "oh, so that means I should be
an asshole to her."
No it doesn't.
Treating her like dirt is just as bad as treating her like a princess.
Treat her like she's ON THE SAME LEVEL AS YOU, like she's one of your bros, and don't
tip toe around her.
If you're comfortable with her, she'll know she can be comfortable with you.
And that’s a huge turn on.
Do: Actually make a move.
When I was younger, I used to get tons of girls' numbers, I'd text them a lot, and even
categorize them in my mind according to which ones I thought were most into me, which ones
were the hottest, which ones I'd actually date, and so on.
And I spent so much time texting that I'd just end up blowing them off the majority
of the time and not actually spending any time with them, because I assumed that if
they liked me now, they'd like me forever.
That definitely isn't true.
You want to strike while the iron is hot.
You want to make a move, and you want to do it quickly.
Capitalize on her attraction for you when it’s happening.
This means if you want a girl, go for her, and actually invite her out.
Don't let yourself get stuck in an endless loop of texting back and forth with no direction
or purpose.
Don't: Overanalyze.
One reason I don't like the "pickup artist community" is they overcomplicate things.
For example, there's something called a "List of Indicators of Interest" that you can reference
to see if a girl is into you - things like how many times she tucked her hair behind
her ear, the angle she's standing relative to you, and so on.
Forget all that BS.
If you want to talk to a girl, just talk to her, right now.
If she's interested in the conversation then make a move - ask her out, get her number,
invite her somewhere, and while you're out go for a kiss.
THAT'S IT.
Just talk - if she's into it, then make a move; if she's not into it, then don't; and
if she's into the conversation but not the move, then just back up a little and keep
talking.
This takes an understanding of what I call, “The Escalation Ladder” basically you
escalate slowly by doing things like grabbing her gently and leading her somewhere, holding
her hand, putting your arm around her, and eventually going for a kiss and so on.
Start slow, and build up to make sure she’s always comfortable.
Do: Have other fun things in your life.
The best way to get girls, is to not be obsessed with getting girls.
Having other fun things in your life, like family, friends, hobbies, sports, games, and
goals - will make you more confident and less desperate - which will make you happier, funner,
and you'll give off a less needy vibe, so girls will actually be MORE interested in
you.
You’ll also be higher value because you’ll be a man of substance.
This will increase your value and make connections and attraction with girls stronger.
Don't: Talk to only one girl.
This is a big mistake that younger guys make.
They single out one girl at school that they like, and they ignore every other girl.
What you actually want to do, is talk to lots of girls, because it'll give you experience,
it'll make you more comfortable and confident talking to girls in general, and it'll show
that one girl you like that other girls are into you, and that'll make her intrigued by
you.
And, once you get to know other girls, you might realize that they're actually pretty
cool and you like them even more than the original one.
Besides, dating is about building connections with women, you want to date lots of girls
so you can have a better idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
You’ll only find out by experimenting a ton.
Bonus tip: Tease her!
Girls like it when guys are fun and playful.
Don't always be completely serious.
If you think you're coming off as The Anti-Charisma, cut it out!
Have FUN with a girl, and let her have fun with you.
So that's it!
I hope these tips helped you, remember them or save them somewhere, and start using them,
and you'll IMMEDIATELY see your success with girls improve.
If you're subscribed to my channel, you may already be familiar with some of these.
I made this video because I wanted to make a quick checklist of what I thought were the
MOST IMPORTANT things to ALWAYS remember.
I highly recommend writing them down or screenshotting them in your phone so you have them handy
all the time.
Becoming a god at dating comes down to mastering how to communicate with girls… communication
is the basis of attraction and human connection.
These tips will help you master both.
The biggest problem guys face is communicating with girls over text…
most guys struggle with it so much in person that when it comes time to text a girl, it’s
a trainwreck waiting to happen.
That’s why I created, The Godly Texting Guide, the only course that’s guaranteed
to get you more responses and more dates with hot girls than you know what to do with.
In my course, The Godly Texting Guide, I breakdown the EXACT mindset you need to learn in order
to build her romantic interest, make her text YOU first, and most importantly, how to get
past her “Great Filter” and become the ONE guy she’s into and wants to spend ALL
of her time with.
The techniques in the course are the EXACT tactics I use in my day-to-day dating life
to get results like this.
My phone is FILLED with messages like this constantly.
And the thousands of Basedlympians who have gone through the course have also gotten insane
results just like this.
Like this guy who said he never considered paying for anything online, and going through
this course completely changed his mind.
Or this guy who used the in-depth version of my technique known as The Pullaway, and
had a girl ASK HIM OUT...
If you want to get results like these guys and thousands of other ambitious men, then
click the link in the description and i’ll see you in there.
A phone filled with messages from the hottest girls you know is just around the corner…
trust me I was just there…
Zeus out.
You're talking to a girl, you think she's interested, and then she leaves, or she stops
replying to your texts, or she starts ignoring you or turning you down when you invite her
out, and you start thinking "UH OH. what did I do wrong?"
Has this ever happened to you?
Or maybe you've spent WEEKS learning how to appear confident and how to approach a girl
and how to overcome your anxiety and the best opening lines and all that, only to be baffled
when another guy just walks up like it's nothing and gets the girl you've been wanting.
Talking to girls can be hard.
We've all screwed up with it before.
So today, I'm here to teach you 5 Do's, and 5 Don'ts, to use when talking to girls.
These are really simple things you can remember, or write down in your notes app, and they'll
improve your chances with girls SIGNIFICANTLY.
Do: Be positive.
Smiling, being open-minded, having a good time, and showing that you're happy and having
fun, sets up a vibe that you're a really fun guy to spend time with.
You've probably noticed how people naturally gravitate towards fun, positive people, haven't
you?
So be like that.
This vibe that you create is important because it subconsciously shows a girl that you’re
a social guy and NOT a creep.
Being socially aware makes a girl feel WAY more comfortable with you because it allows
her to let her guard down.
Guys get nervous around girls and lose their sense of social skills, making them act creepy
and weird.
Don't: Be negative.
Don't put yourself down.
Don't say negative things about yourself.
Don't grill her about whether she likes you, or ask her why she doesn't like you, or anything
like that.
Girls tend to like drama, but they DON'T like it when the guy is more dramatic than they
are.
If she wanted to date another girl, then she would!
Do: Be different.
If you look like a generic guy, with generic style, you approach her in a generic way,
with a generic opening line, have a generic conversation, and then ask for her number
so you can take her out on a generic date - that's boring.
Do something DIFFERENT.
Have a unique style.
Drop an unusual line on her.
Take her on a date to somewhere she's never been before!
Girls LOVE this, because it automatically puts you above all the other guys she's known.
Girls associate guys with the things they do and the way they act, if you act and do
things that every other guy does then guess what?
In her head, you’re no different than all the other generic dudes she talks to.
Don't: Be needy.
This means: texting her every single day, multiple times a day, seeking her approval,
and getting even more needy and desperate if she doesn't talk to you or give you enough
attention.
This is a HUGE turn off and it will instantly destroy your chances with her.
I see guys do it all the time though, and if you're one of those guys - don't feel bad
- just stop doing it, RIGHT NOW.
Do: Treat her like she's a normal person, on the same level as you.
Most guys suck up to hot girls, and they act "fakenice" - this is a term I made up to describe
guys who aren't actually "nice guys," but who only ACT nice around girls because they
think it'll impress the girl or get the girl to like them or lead to the girl going out
with them or hooking up with them!
We all know guys like that.
Don't do it.
Don't treat a girl like she's ABOVE you.
Treat her like she's on the SAME LEVEL as you, and it'll make you stand out and seem
more real.
Don't give a girl special treatment just because of her looks - give it to her AFTER you get
to know her, because of her PERSONALITY.
Treating her just like any other person will make her REALLY into you, REALLY fast.
Don't: Treat her like dirt.
It's easy to listen to the last point I made and then say "oh, so that means I should be
an asshole to her."
No it doesn't.
Treating her like dirt is just as bad as treating her like a princess.
Treat her like she's ON THE SAME LEVEL AS YOU, like she's one of your bros, and don't
tip toe around her.
If you're comfortable with her, she'll know she can be comfortable with you.
And that’s a huge turn on.
Do: Actually make a move.
When I was younger, I used to get tons of girls' numbers, I'd text them a lot, and even
categorize them in my mind according to which ones I thought were most into me, which ones
were the hottest, which ones I'd actually date, and so on.
And I spent so much time texting that I'd just end up blowing them off the majority
of the time and not actually spending any time with them, because I assumed that if
they liked me now, they'd like me forever.
That definitely isn't true.
You want to strike while the iron is hot.
You want to make a move, and you want to do it quickly.
Capitalize on her attraction for you when it’s happening.
This means if you want a girl, go for her, and actually invite her out.
Don't let yourself get stuck in an endless loop of texting back and forth with no direction
or purpose.
Don't: Overanalyze.
One reason I don't like the "pickup artist community" is they overcomplicate things.
For example, there's something called a "List of Indicators of Interest" that you can reference
to see if a girl is into you - things like how many times she tucked her hair behind
her ear, the angle she's standing relative to you, and so on.
Forget all that BS.
If you want to talk to a girl, just talk to her, right now.
If she's interested in the conversation then make a move - ask her out, get her number,
invite her somewhere, and while you're out go for a kiss.
THAT'S IT.
Just talk - if she's into it, then make a move; if she's not into it, then don't; and
if she's into the conversation but not the move, then just back up a little and keep
talking.
This takes an understanding of what I call, “The Escalation Ladder” basically you
escalate slowly by doing things like grabbing her gently and leading her somewhere, holding
her hand, putting your arm around her, and eventually going for a kiss and so on.
Start slow, and build up to make sure she’s always comfortable.
Do: Have other fun things in your life.
The best way to get girls, is to not be obsessed with getting girls.
Having other fun things in your life, like family, friends, hobbies, sports, games, and
goals - will make you more confident and less desperate - which will make you happier, funner,
and you'll give off a less needy vibe, so girls will actually be MORE interested in
you.
You’ll also be higher value because you’ll be a man of substance.
This will increase your value and make connections and attraction with girls stronger.
Don't: Talk to only one girl.
This is a big mistake that younger guys make.
They single out one girl at school that they like, and they ignore every other girl.
What you actually want to do, is talk to lots of girls, because it'll give you experience,
it'll make you more comfortable and confident talking to girls in general, and it'll show
that one girl you like that other girls are into you, and that'll make her intrigued by
you.
And, once you get to know other girls, you might realize that they're actually pretty
cool and you like them even more than the original one.
Besides, dating is about building connections with women, you want to date lots of girls
so you can have a better idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
You’ll only find out by experimenting a ton.
Bonus tip: Tease her!
Girls like it when guys are fun and playful.
Don't always be completely serious.
If you think you're coming off as The Anti-Charisma, cut it out!
Have FUN with a girl, and let her have fun with you.
So that's it!
I hope these tips helped you, remember them or save them somewhere, and start using them,
and you'll IMMEDIATELY see your success with girls improve.
If you're subscribed to my channel, you may already be familiar with some of these.
I made this video because I wanted to make a quick checklist of what I thought were the
MOST IMPORTANT things to ALWAYS remember.
I highly recommend writing them down or screenshotting them in your phone so you have them handy
all the time.
Becoming a god at dating comes down to mastering how to communicate with girls… communication
is the basis of attraction and human connection.
These tips will help you master both.
The biggest problem guys face is communicating with girls over text…
most guys struggle with it so much in person that when it comes time to text a girl, it’s
a trainwreck waiting to happen.
That’s why I created, The Godly Texting Guide, the only course that’s guaranteed
to get you more responses and more dates with hot girls than you know what to do with.
In my course, The Godly Texting Guide, I breakdown the EXACT mindset you need to learn in order
to build her romantic interest, make her text YOU first, and most importantly, how to get
past her “Great Filter” and become the ONE guy she’s into and wants to spend ALL
of her time with.
The techniques in the course are the EXACT tactics I use in my day-to-day dating life
to get results like this.
My phone is FILLED with messages like this constantly.
And the thousands of Basedlympians who have gone through the course have also gotten insane
results just like this.
Like this guy who said he never considered paying for anything online, and going through
this course completely changed his mind.
Or this guy who used the in-depth version of my technique known as The Pullaway, and
had a girl ASK HIM OUT...
If you want to get results like these guys and thousands of other ambitious men, then
click the link in the description and i’ll see you in there.
A phone filled with messages from the hottest girls you know is just around the corner…
trust me I was just there…
Zeus out.