You don't see what's happening here but there's a
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Alright, let's look into that camera right
now. Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. Next to me I have Laurel
House, the dating, the sex and the
relationship expert. We're going to be
talking about how to talk dirty to a
girl. Here's the thing I don't think
a lot of guys know. It's that women do like
to be talked dirty to in bed. Right? Yes! Oh my
gosh. Talking dirty is one of my favorite
things to talk about and also to
have done to me in the bedroom. In fact, I
noticed myself as you were saying, we're
going to talk about talking dirty, I
noticed like I started to lick my lips a little.
I started to get excited because
it is and talking dirty is such an
essential thing in the bedroom and it's
something that. Why is that? Because women men
are visual creatures right? It's something
people talk about all the time. You go to
a strip club, men like to see naked
bodies. Women are emotional creatures so
we need to get out of our heads and
think about being in the moment. We have
a really hard time being present in the
moment which is weird because even when
you're having sex we might not be here
in our minds and you want us to. The way
that you can keep up here is by talking
to us. Get into our mind, take control of
our thoughts. And you do that by
dirty talking. This reminds me of the
reason why women love books like 50 Shades Of Grey. We're reading
the words. Yeah and then what's
interesting is those words translated to
our fantasies. When women are
masturbating, were actually like telling
ourselves stories, and then you do this,
and then you do this, and we are seeing
these things in our mind and it's coming
directly out of the book. If you want
to really activate a woman, you need to
talk dirty to her and stop being so
afraid people. Guys are so afraid that
they're gonna say the wrong thing or say
something stupid or the woman is going
to think that she's an idiot. There's so
much pressure on yourself. For a guy
to start doing this, what do you think
are some of the rules, some of the
things that he should know in order to
start talking dirty. First of all,
you want to, it's basically three things
that you want to do. Say what you're
thinking, say what you're seeing and
say what you want. Oh wow, you got that
broken down to a science. It's so simple.
Repeat that one more time. Say what you're
thinking, say what you're
seeing and say what you want. Ok cool.
If we break it down. What does that look
like? Say what you're thinking oh my
god, you are so hot, oh my god, you feel so
good, oh my god, you make me so hard baby.
Your tits look so good. Oh my god your
neck looks so good I'm going to bite
your neck. Oh my god I need your lips in
my mouth. So you're seeing that and
that's so now we're thinking and seeing
combined and then what do you want? I want
you to put your lips on my cock. I want
you to lick my finger. I want you.
I mean it really is simple.
And then you can start if you
want to take to the next level of
telling her what you want her to feel.
And asking her how she feels. How
do you like that? Because now we're also
encouraging her to start talking.
Although it is mostly about you talking.
It is not about her talking, it is
about you talking because you don't need
all the mental stuff in order for you to
get off. She does. But if you do it long
enough it might make their eventually
feel comfortable to start joining in in
that. And we're not talking about
conversation. We're not
sitting here like having a conversation
as you're having sex. It's like sound bites.
It is and it's just the little things and
what's amazing about dirty talk is that
you can actually totally control a woman
if you do it well. You can control her
come, you can control how deep it is, how
long it is and when it's going to happen.
You can take a woman who is really not
that into it in the moment like she's
thinking all right can you please hurry
up because I'm not I don't want to you
know just come so that we can move on
with our day. And then and that's a
very common thing for women to think.
You can take her from there to I want
you to come now, you're going to come now,
and then she's like oh my god well I
think I'm going to come now.
And then I want you to cum really hard.
You're getting so wet, you're so close, I
want you to do it now. And you are
building that up until suddenly she
starts to come and it might it's so like
magical in that way that you might think
she's faking it, but she's actually not.
You took control and you told her to do
it and then when she starts to come then
you say I want you to come deeper. I want
you to come more. You deserve this. You
deserve to feel so good. I want you to
totally release yourself. And then she's
like writhing in insane orgasm and it's
because you took control. So basically
doing this is not just some like extra
fun thing that you could do in the
bedroom but it really makes the woman
feel more orgasmic and have a better
sexual experience overall. It absolutely
enhances it and it shouldn't be like a
sex toy that you use on occasion. Right.
This is something that you use every
single time and now you can have dirty
sex talk and then you can also have
loving talk. You're so beautiful, you make
me so happy and if you love a woman, you
tell her I love you while you're having
sex with her like even that, suddenly
she's like. The fact is that you need to
start opening your mouth. Also gonna put
a link in the description below for
Laurel so you can check out her YouTube
channel where she gives even more advice.
Thank you Laurel. Awesome. Cool let's get back
to the Facebook live here. We got some
questions coming in.