Uncle C. Back in the office.
Today I wanted to touch specifically hundred I wear this on my board I want to touch specifically
on feminized men in relationships and my top five ways to regain masculine frame.
Surprisingly, a lot of my clients when it comes to this dating and masculinity stuff
are people who are out of divorce or their people who are in a relationship and they
can't seem to beat the feminine Bay or the constant emotional weakness, the constant
feeling that they're just in this scarcity mindset and really screwing up day today.
So what I did was I came up with the top five ways after working with clients that I have
found works very, very well to regain your masculine frame, regain your masculine edge
and make sure that you can stay masculine even if you are in a relationship.
The whole goal is to master the masculinity.
And if you can do that, you're going to start to see better behavioral patterns out of your
spouse or partner and she He's going to love you for it a lot more in the long run.
So the very first thing, oh, and also, before I get into this applications for my masculinity
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So number one, the first way to regain that masculinity to get out of that feminized behavior
is to work twice as much.
Now, it sounds crazy.
It sounds counterintuitive, but it works.
And here's why.
When many men enter into these relationships, their females start to really pick and poke
at them, and they don't know why.
And what they try to do is to get out of this, they start to couple it by actually spending
more time with them, but actually diving deeper into the situation.
And starting to do more for the spouse or partner.
But the thing is, what that does is that makes her ultimately lose respect for you.
Because now she sees that there's a man putting her before himself.
And if she sees that she's going to run, if she sees that she's going to test you even
harder if she sees that she's going to back away from you even more.
And this sends conflicting signals in the guy's head because he's like, wait, wait,
wait, hold up.
So I'm putting in more work and not being rewarded for it at all.
And then he gets in the rat race of constantly putting in more work and constantly giving
it his all and in the end, he's not he's not given anything in return for it.
He can be nice, he can be charming, he can give his best self tour every day.
It's not rewarded until he starts to put himself first work twice as much.
If you work 40 hours a week work at if she says that she wants to spend more time with
you all the time and that you need to be more present around her and for the kids.
Totally do the exact opposite for a while you're taking time to focus on yourself your
transmuting the sexual energy into working more, doing more, getting more on your path,
vision and purpose.
And not only that, using that time to build your body and your mind and your self development.
Because if she sees a better improved man in front of her after a couple weeks or after
a month or however long this takes, she's going to shape up and realize that, hey, this
guy and plan, this guy's actually on his grind.
So I better start acting sweet, I'd better start acting feminine, I better start acting
the right way.
And it works acting like a man works.
That's number one.
Number two.
What a man must do in this stage is he must stop looking for love.
And he must look for improvement.
So this ties in with number one you get guys in this very emotional state this wanting
to be loved this needing to be loved this needing to be needed.
And they're constantly in this scarcity mindset.
They're reaching out to their female for love for attention, for validation for affection
and it doesn't work and it doesn't work because that is her job to be doing to you.
It's her job to be giving that emotional support.
It's her job to be giving that love.
It's her job to be giving that soft, sweet feminine touch.
Here's the problem.
What you know, especially if you're in a relationship, and it's been going south is this, women don't
give it to weak men.
If you're emotionally weak and needing the love, that is when you will never give it
that excuse me, that is when you will never get it.
Women almost punish guys who are emotionally weak women almost withdraw harder from men
who are emotionally weak and she will make your life hell, she'll make your life hell
because she sees that you need her a man that now needs her as a man that she doesn't want.
So you need to stop looking for love and you need to start looking for self improvement
and self development.
She'll never love you the same way you love her.
You just love the presence.
You love how she looks.
You love how she makes you feel.
She's not like that.
She's going to love you for certain characteristics that represent masculinity.
What you have to do is you have to get on the self development.
So let me ask you if you're overweight, and you lose 30 pounds within a couple months
and all of a sudden she sees us Strong dude with a V taper and big shoulders and big upper
chest, you're telling me she's not going to look at him a little bit more alpha and strong.
Of course you will he put in the self improvement.
You're telling me if he's now working on his passion or business or purpose twice as much
throughout the week, she's not going to see that, hey, maybe this guy's actually going
to be successful or is on that path.
And maybe we'll have better options in the future.
Just me fellows, women pick on this pick up on this step fast.
She wants a winner.
If you can just start acting like a winner you're going to be golden.
That's the second way.
The third is learn to say no.
One of the biggest turnoff to women is when a guy can actually stand up to her can put
her in her place.
If you're a yes man, if you're a honey do list go or if you're a honey do list I got
this for you every single time babe type guy, you're in for pain.
If you can't say no to females ever you're in for pain.
Because they see that you're a guy that they can walk on they see that they're you're a
guy that they can push over They can push you over that does not represent strength.
If it doesn't represent strength she knows that you probably can't protect and that you're
a weak male, she will punish you for it emotionally in the long run when she starts to pull back
and go cold on your sleep, so somebody else's stronger than you, you have to be aware of
this stuff.
You wonder why I talk about masculinity and femininity.
It's because if you don't know female dynamic, you're in for pain.
That's number three.
Number four starts seducing better.
Okay, not loving better, not being intimate, better.
seducing better get her turned on.
Okay, learn to actually make your woman wet.
Because if you can't do that, she doesn't have that mystery spark in her she doesn't
have that feeling of excitement.
Like if this guy's consistent Loverboy every single day.
And she's just never wet for him.
He can never put her in that place of sex where it's like, Hey, this is happening now.
This is how it's going to happen and you're going to love this and so am I if you can't
serve to give off that energy in The bedroom were like, hey, it's on.
It's not on for love, like, we're together and it's on because we need this right now.
If you can start to seduce your woman with the foreplay, and with the sexual presence
and the aura that you bring, you're also in for pain.
Because you're too much in that emotional weakness.
You're too much in that feminized state.
The what's happened is that you've been around the female for so long that you're starting
to adapt some of her traits.
Everybody does it.
Unless you catch yourself slipping.
If you can actually recognize it and catch yourself slipping you can save yourself a
lot of time, energy and headache throughout a marriage throughout a relationship, anything
like that.
The fifth way to regain masculine frame is less talk more do you see men who talk a lot
men who have a lot to say to her about how the relationship is going about how the emotional
standpoint is, you realize you're also entering into a feminine frame.
And she's not going to appreciate that in the long run.
Men do.
Women will talk women will talk about the They'll talk about the emotions, they'll talk
about how it makes them feel men just have to do, you have to put your head down and
work, you have to put your head down and build the body.
You have to tell yourself, hey, I'm a sexual man, I'm okay with my sexuality.
I'm okay with being masculine.
And I'm okay with just being a hard ass for a little bit as I develop myself, because
right now you're probably a little bit too feminized, a little too emotional.
If you can bring yourself back into that masculine energy in that masculine state.
You're going to do a lot better in the dating game in the relationship game, whatever the
case may be.
That is my top five tips to you how to regain masculine frame coming from a feminized frame.
If you're in a relationship, those are my top five tips.
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