- I tried for so long to try and not let,
all my love for you just turn into hatred, I guess
but just part of me feels like I hate you
and that's the truth.
(sultry music)
- [Interviewer] Hi.
- Hi! (chuckles)
- [Interviewer] Who are are you and what are you doing here?
- I'm Louis and I'm gonna be talking to my ex.
- My name is Bailey and I'm here to talk to Tre,
my ex, he's one of my best friends,
he's my friends with benefits sometimes.
- [Interviewer] Who are you here to confront?
- (laughs) I'm not confronting him.
It's my ex-husband, Andrew.
- [Interviewer] Is there anything specific
you wanna talk about?
- Her new boyfriend?
That happens to be my old best friend.
- There was a time wherein I felt we were exclusive.
I was mistaken.
- I honestly wanna apologize to him for,
being so mean at the end.
I'm surprised he even agreed to do it today,
you know, because it did end pretty shitty.
I haven't seen him in like two years.
- [Interviewer] Why do you wanna do it in the dark?
- If I don't have this see her
I would rather not see her.
- [Interviewer] Are you ready to do it?
- (laughs) No. Sure.
- [Interviewer] Alright lights out.
- Don't run into me.
(shrieks)
- (laughs) I'm telling you, you scared me!
- Waving my arms.
- Right over here. Hi, hey. Okay. No.
Hi. Okay.
- Louis, why're we here?
- We're here to talk about your current boyfriend,
who used to be one of my best friends.
- Okay.
- Remember the area of time
wherein I was like, oh, we're exclusive
and you were like, (scoffs) no.
- You didn't say that out loud to me.
- I know, I know, I know.
- I feel really bad that I got
into a relationship right afterward.
I felt like that was pretty of me to do.
- I wasn't too concerned about it.
- Were you angry?
- It was just an annoyance.
- Andrew.
- What?
- Oh, this is why it didn't work out,
'cause I don't feel like you even cared sometimes.
This is like the hard part
and I don't understand that about you.
- Yeah.
- Why Donovan?
- I don't know.
I didn't exactly plan on having feelings for him.
I guess we were there for each other
kind of when we both needed it
and it kind of just happened from there.
- Mm hm.
- But I'm sorry.
- I don't really need the apology.
- You were the first person I had ever been intimate with,
after that, I thought we were just seeing each other
and I thought that we were in love.
- Did you care that we got a divorce
and that we ended?
- What did you want?
Did you wanna stay together and work through things?
- I wanted you to not let me move out of the house.
I felt like you avoided your way out of the marriage.
- Yeah maybe I did make a decision,
even if it was subconsciously to,
that it was not gonna work.
- Why didn't you say anything to me
when him and I first started talking?
- I was sort of in disbelief.
I was mad, but what was I gonna do about it,
just not let you guys be together? That's--
- I mean, you never even told me
about anything that you were feeling
you kind of left it as it was.
- I mean, yeah.
- I mean, we were together for what, three years?
Nobody really meant as much to me as you did.
- I mean, I did ask if you were seeing other people
and the answer was no.
- Yeah. I feel like you,
when you had asked me, it was like,
"Hey, are you?" 'Cause I--
- Currently, as opposed to, are you going to?
- Yeah.
- And in my brain it was like,
that means we are exclusive.
- I grieved like losing something
but I didn't compare it to what should have been like,
oh we should have stayed together
and had a family and all this stuff.
- Ah, it's so weird.
That's harsh.
- Why did we break up?
- I don't know.
I feel like our relationship was kind of stagnant.
I feel like deep down, you knew
that you were everything to me, but I just don't think
you wanted to confront those feelings.
You just didn't say things
that kinda needed to be said.
It felt like you kinda didn't really try
with me after a while.
- I just don't like talking about my feelings.
- It just made it really hard for me
because I tried for so long to try and not let,
all my love for you just turn into hatred, I guess.
But just part of me feels like I hate you
and that's the truth.
- Where do we stand right now?
In terms of sleeping with each other?
- Well we've been sleeping together a lot.
I feel like we need to get back to basics
and be friends.
How do you feel?
- I'm disappointed.
I'm not gonna lie.
- Are you single?
- Yes, I am single.
Are you single?
- Oh really?
- (laughs)
- Yeah. I'm single
- [Interviewer] You two wouldn't consider going on a date?
- We could be more friends.
- Yeah I think we can be friends now.
- I think it might be nice to be more, I mean, yeah.
- Wanna have a kid together
if we don't have one in like four years?
We don't have to be together.
We just have to be good parents.
- (scoffs)
- Oh, he's saying no.
- [Interviewer] Tre, can you ask Bailey,
"Is this indefinite, or what's the timeline?"
- Oh, I don't wanna ask that question
'cause I don't care that much.
I mean I do, but I'm like, I agree with her
when we are having sex it feels like
that is the most time in which, (scoffs)
I seem to make you the angriest and, (chuckles).
- It's not like you're making me unhappy,
or sad, or like angry.
It's just like, I just like--
- Word!?
- I get, no! I just get confused.
So don't think that it's, no, I'm sorry.
I love you don't think that.
I'm sorry.
- Really? Damn, you hugging in front of people.
- (laughs)
- Do you hate me now?
Like currently?
- I don't hate you, I think,
part of me wants to hate you.
You know, you'll always be a part of my heart.
- Is he a better boyfriend than I was?
- He's there for me more for sure.
- Mm hm.
- We talk about how we're feeling
and you never kinda really did that with me.
- Yeah. I needed to grow up.
You know?
- [Interviewer] Are you confident
that you can actually do this?
Do you believe you won't sleep together?
- Yeah, we've done it before.
- Yeah, yeah.
- [Interviewer] And then you sleep together.
- It's usually like--
- People are gonna watch this and think,
what the fuck are these people doing?
(both laugh)
- [Interviewer] Alright, lights on.
- Oh, your hair is different.
- Hey Andrew.
- Oh, hi.
- How's it going?
- Not bad.
- What's it like seeing me?
- I don't know how to describe it.
What's it like seeing me?
I'm older.
- (laughs)
Middle-aged now.
- You are, yeah.
- [Interviewer] How do you feel after you've had
that conversation?
- A little more relieved.
I think that there was definitely stuff that,
I coulda said to her at the end of our relationship.
- Felt good to hear.
- Feel like the guilty party kind of.
- Oh.
- You know?
- I didn't wanna make you feel like the guilty party.
I was kind of shitty too.
- Yeah, you yelled at me sometimes.
- I know.
- I don't really respond well to that.
- I'm sorry about that.
- I personally felt like it was good for us.
- Yeah?
- I think it was good for us not to be able to see
some facial expressions.
I think that sometimes I get a little offended.
- [Interviewer] Where do you two go from here?
- This is my homeboy's girlfriend.
I can't just hate her.
- I don't know, friends?
- Yeah.
I'm excited to go get a drink with you.
- Okay.
- Dinner. (laughs uproariously)
- No, (indistinct).
- No, he's like.
- [Interviewer] Are you a hundred percent sure
that you two won't sleep together?
- I will never say I'm a hundred percent sure
that I'm not gonna sleep with Tre.
- You niggas know I can't commit.
(laughs)
- [Interviewer] Thank you.
Thank you both.
- (laughs)
- [Tre] Why's it dark again?
(laughter)