10 Things Style WON'T Fix [0:00:00]
Wearing the right clothing can do amazing things for you.
It can make you feel more confident, it can make you appear to be more trustworthy.
Studies have even shown that you can perform higher on a standardized test if you’re
wearing the right clothing.
That being said, there’s only so much a great-looking suit is going to be able to
do for you.
In today’s video, gents, ten things that great style will not fix.
[Music] So, the first thing that great style will
not fix is a lack of respect.
Sure, you can wear a suit, you can look good and people you don’t know very well will
respect the outfit the outward appearance.
But, what I’m talking about here is self-respect.
This is who you are, this is what you’re about, this is what you stand for.
This is you having a moral code and being consistent with it.
Yes, improving your style is going to help.
But, it’s not going to fix the problem if you don’t have self-respect for who you
are.
Know who you are and become that man.
The next two items on this list I’m going to go ahead and bring them together.
Remember, the great style will not fix bad manners and it will do nothing for your ignorance
of etiquette.
So, manners are how you make other people feel.
This is something that’s universal, goes across any culture, and it’s really about
putting other’s comfort in front of your own.
You need to not only dress appropriately, but you need to treat others with respect.
Now, etiquette, this is about the rules that are within a society.
Such like sitting down at a table and having good table manners according to that society
knowing which fork is which, which, you know, glass is which.
Knowing understanding how to pass things around.
Now, I’m not saying you got to read a whole book on etiquette, but what I am saying if
you’re going to a fancy dinner, if you’re going to an event and there are certain protocols,
then do your homework and simply read up on the information that you need to know.
Next up, gentlemen, great style, it’s not going to do anything for your health.
Yes, you may look great and feel like a million bucks and wearing a jacket is going to slim
you up, but here’s the deal, guys.
You still got to take care of your body.
When it comes to health, you want to focus in on four areas.
First up, we’ve got nutrition; what goes into your body.
Next up, we’ve got rest; how you treat your body and how you recover.
Next up, we’ve got exercise, very important and some of you want to may be change up throughout
your lifetime, make sure you don’t overdo here.
And, last but not the least, we’ve got maintenance and checkups.
Gentlemen, at least once a year you need to go to a doctor and get a checkup.
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The next thing that even great style will not fix, gentlemen, is your frowning face.
Yes, you want to have a smile.
Why?
Two particular reasons.
One, you’re going to feel better.
Yes, when you smile even if it’s a forced smile, guess what?
You’re going to release certain endorphins in your body and you are going to naturally
feel better.
Another reason is it’s contagious.
And guess what?
When other people see you smiling, they smile back.
And they associate that feeling of feeling better with you.
So, guess what?
You come off as more likeable as more attractive.
Guys, when you dress well, smile and the world will smile with you.
The next thing that even great style cannot fix, gentlemen, your bad body language habits.
So, if you dress well, you want to be approachable.
You want business and opportunities to come your way, guess what?
You’ve got to be open because if you close yourself off and if this is your natural look
you scowl, oh, I’m not upset, guess what?
You look upset, people are not going to be coming next to you.
Most people are going to be like that – that guy does not look approachable, he’s dressed
well, but I’m not going to approach him.
So, make sure that you use correct body language, you open yourself up, you make eye contact.
Don’t be looking around, don’t be acting like you’re interested in something else
when you want to engage with somebody, you’ve got to open yourself up if you want to connect.
So, the next thing that style will not fix is your negative attitude.
And this one is tough because if you identify yourself as a negative person as a pessimist,
it’s going to be difficult to get out of this.
But, here’s what’s interesting is there’s a correlation between your age and where you’re
at in life and whether or not you’re going to be positive or negative.
[0:05:02] The most positive people are under the age
of 7 or oftentimes over the age of 70.
Why?
Because they realize that the opinions of others do not matter as much as they thought
they did.
People don’t care as much about you as you think, so take yourself less seriously and
really get back to about what’s going to make you happy, what’s going to make you
satisfied what is going to bring you fulfillment in life and go after that.
The next problem that not even great style can fix, gentlemen, bad breath.
So, if you’ve got bad breath, there are number of steps that you can take to fix this
problem.
Drink more water, you don’t want to get a dry mouth.
That right there is a breeding ground for bacteria.
You want to use a tongue scraper, clean off the back of the tongue.
You want to may be chew specific gum that actually is going to help fight that bacteria
and is going to actually bring a bit more moisture into the mouth.
And, finally, if you’re still having issues, go see your dentist.
The next problem that great style can’t fix, you, not being productive.
Yes, you can dress better and be more efficient and you can be more effective getting things
done, but to be productive you need to be able to focus in on what truly is important.
Guys, I’ve talked about this before, the priority matrix.
You need to focus in and understand what is urgent and important.
This needs to be where you spend your time basically focusing in on the deep work, the
work that is going to yield you the big return.
You want to focus in on these areas because that’s where you’re going to see your
big return on investment.
So, the next thing that even great style cannot fix is a lack of integrity.
Gentlemen, this one is important because when you dress well, people are more likely to
trust you.
You can’t use that to your advantage, you need to be a man of integrity.
What is integrity?
It’s when you reliably do the right thing.
It’s a code of moral values that you stick to.
Whether or not it’s convenient or not you stick to them.
So, if you have integrity, dressing well can augment the impact that you could have on
the world.
But, if you have no integrity, then you’re just an empty suit.
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All right.
So, what do to watch next?
Guys, check out this video right here, ten insecurities that men have that honestly women
do not care about.
I had fun with this video, go check it out.
That’s it, gents.
Take care.
I’ll see you in the next video.
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