Renee: Let's talk about kissing. Okay, it's why I put on red lipstick or this.
Brittany: Okay guys, when you're going in for the kiss, just make sure you don't miss her face.
I've had that happen a couple times.
Like, not like that's kind of boring, that's like kissing someone on the cheek or something.
If he's a bad kisser, if he slobbers all over my face where he thrusts, he's down into my mouth or he
does some any other crazy shit. I don't want to associate with this person
I don't want to go home with him. Renee: Don't go all tongue, all-in.
In fact, they shouldn't really be any tongue on the first kiss. Okay, maybe the second kiss, all the third kiss.
When you are first kissing somebody there is no need
to go like full-in for the kill, like full-on tongue or anything.
Rules of garlic. When he dies, make sure you've both had the same amount so that it cancels each other out.
A bad first kiss I've had was when the guy clearly just wasn't reading my body language.
He still tried to kiss me and I was like "no, no. Thank you."
I've been in a date with this guy once
and I really liked him we had a fun, really cool conversation. We had so much
in common. However, he didn't really get it and then when we were about
to kiss each other, he stopped. He was like "can I kiss you? And in my hat it was
just like explosions, explosions. Like, why, why would you ask that?
When the guy pushes your hair back and kind of touches your face and
then leans in to kiss you, grabs you or something like that,
I totally love that. All girls love that.
Oh my gosh, I want more of those kisses. Made her wait for it, okay?
By cupping her face or grabbing her chin just lightly, it shows that you are
commanding attention. That she's the object of your desire.
Simple is best when it comes to the first kiss. Just a light soft kiss is so romantic
but also so appropriate. And this is where it's key guys. I want to make sure
that you want to be a great kisser and if you want to make the first kiss
something awesome, that you don't rush it. You just want to make sure that before
you kiss her, you already established the emotional connection with her, you want
to make sure she already wants it. Really like sensual and like kind of create
tension like what more. You start with first touching her bottom lip first and
then you go, then you move forward onto the top lip as first.
Be sweet about it like it, doesn't have to be a very intense thing.
Go or the first kiss like man. Okay, don't give her everything at once.
Leave her wanting more
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The first moment when you feel that a girl is ready to kiss you, it's not the
moment when you're supposed to kiss her. Of course the guy should initiate the first kiss.
In what fairy tale did you see the woman making the first cast?
And don't think you should keep so straight away. I think that they should
definitely be a good a lot of conversation you know some floating going on.
Think that a guy should kiss a girl when it feels natural in the conversation.
Read her body language, see if she's actually wanting to be kissed
and she'll know these because she'll start to draw attention to her mouth
whether she's licking her lips, whether she's biting her butt early or whether
she's actually staring at your mouth as well, okay? So saying goodnight and then
giving her like a light kiss, I think, is very romantic and very sweet, a great way
to approach kissing the first time. You have a good eye contact with her, she
laughs at all of your jokes, she leans into you when you were talking, and when
you touch her, she doesn't flinch, you move away. And all those signs that
tell you that this girl likes you and you can kiss her.
Definitely the guy, if the woman ends it, it's probably a good sign.
Fill it out whatever seems natural. I personally think that the girl should end the kiss first
I think the guy should let the girl take the reigns on that one and be the one to pull away first.
And you know, follow her lead there. And the kiss before she had enough of it.
If you don't give her too much in the beginning and then you end it first, so that she's still wanting more.
Like if you don't feel comfortable kissing her
anymore and you feel like you're ready for the kiss of stuff I think, you know, 100% stop kissing.
Then you might want to pull back just like a couple of centimeters and look down and see her like obviously
panting for more and then you go in again and then up that second kiss might be a little bit of a deeper.
Oh my god, it's getting hot in here, talking about all this kissing,
Where's my man? I need a girl kiss you.
Not too long. The first kiss shouldn't be too long. Again, it's about teasing her,
seeing how she responds, and getting her to want her more. But, you know the first
one should just be kind of short and sweet but not just like a peck.
But the first kiss, it's really just getting-to-know-each-other kiss.
I think it's better to have two kisses instead of one long kiss.
I don't believe that a first kiss should be very long. I don't think it should be super hot and heavy.
I don't think it needs to be a 45-minute makeout session. My man, okay, he's a little bit of
a story for you guys, he didn't kiss me for two weeks.
Now, because he's french, she'd always do the kiss. He actually does it three
times because of the region he's from. And I was like, "whoa JoJos kiss me," and
he did it because he knew that he wanted to court me, he wanted to show me that I
was special and I wasn't just any other girl. And then when he finally kissed me,
it was so much anticipation. It was so worth it and you know he did it in such
a sensual way, that it was an all tongue first and he was able to pull back and
and go in for some more that made it really special.
A couple of seconds and that's really gonna make her want more and it's definitely memorable.
You kind of leave her with a taste of your skills and
leave some to the imagination if you will. I think that that's super sexy for guys to do.
Think of kissing as an art. Think of it as one of your weapons, guys.
User to her advantage and the best way to do that is to take your time with it.
And really master the art of kissing by seeing what her responses and thinking
about how you can kiss her in the most sensual way possible. There is nothing
better than a good kiss. Now, of course you want to make sure that the date is
constantly progressing to a level where it's getting beyond platonic, where
you're able to feed that chemistry, where you're able to show that you can take
control and make a decision and lead the relationship or the day in the way that
you want it to go. Well, if you want to know how to do that effectively then I
suggest that you stop right now and you download our escalation cheat sheet.
This escalation cheat sheet that map together is actually really awesome
because what it does is it helps give you strategies and know what to say and
what to do to take it from platonic to chemistry next level. All you need to do
to download that is simply click the image at the bottom of this screen. And
don't forget that there is a link in the bio as well and you know what don't just
download it and like have it sit there. Actually read it and read it before you
go on a date so that when you're going on a date you do have a bit of a plan.
You've got more confidence to know what to do with a certain situation arises
and once again so that you can actually accelerate the date in the direction that you wanted to go.
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