do you really understand NLP by the end of this video no matter what your
understanding of neuro linguistic programming is I can assure you it's
going to be a lot better keep watching
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you've read an an Opie book or maybe you've even done an NLP training but if
you had to explain what nor linguistic programming is to someone else who's
never heard of it how well can you do that most people can't do it very well
by the end of this video though you will have a very solid and basic
understanding of NLP well enough that you can explain it to someone else and
that's really the marker to truly know that you get NLP what I've learned over
the years that everything that you need to understand about NLP to be truly
effective with it is found in the basics a lot of people try to jump to the newer
technology and new advancements or advanced trainings but if you don't have
the basics down none of that other stuff really will do much for you make sure
you stay tuned to the end of this video because at the end I'm going to show you
a way that you can take your NLP understandings even deeper with some
free training I've already made several videos about what NLP is so if you want
more of an explanation other than just this video go ahead and search my
channel you'll find several more and I'll link some to a playlist in this
video so the point of this video is not to repeat myself the point of this video
is to give you a new and fresh understanding so again if you feel like
you already know or really have a solid understanding of NLP this video should
still help you also I'm curious about you how well do you feel like your
understanding of NLP is if you feel like you have a very solid understanding or
if you felt you don't feel like you much of an understanding of it at all
let me know in the comments below I think the most important understanding
not just about NLP is about your life and in NLP that's what we're focused on
is your experience of your life so the most important understanding is
understanding that your life is subjective now what do I mean by that it
means that there's no way that you could possibly know objective reality that
everything that you're experiencing is as subjective and that word itself
experience is it means that your it is subjective because your experience is
your experience and then everyone else's experiences or their experience but you
can't experience something without it being an experience so I think just kind
of goes in a loop on top of itself over and over that what you're experiencing
is an experience now in NLP they say that NOP is a study of the structure of
subjective experience and later in a book
John Grenier said well you know we could have left out the subjective because
experience is subjective there is no such thing as having an objective
experience we can study things like we do in science and we can try it as much
as possible to find some sort of objective truth about what it is that
we're studying but we can never ever get beyond the fact that even the
interpretation of that objective information or that objective truth has
to pass through our subject of subjective senses and our subjective
filters like our beliefs and our thoughts about what it is that we're
interpreting so this is how it is possible that two people or more can
look at the same set of facts but create totally different interpretations of it
totally different meanings of it or draw different conclusions or and even make
different categories for it an understanding this that your life is a
subjective experience that opens many many doors and many many opportunities
to create the life experience that you want to have and that's what NLP is
really all about and how we do that is through
Modelling so if someone is having a an experience of life that you want say
that they're happy they're successful they're doing things that that you want
to be doing well within Opia as we go to the structure of this we don't go to
that person and say how exactly are you so happy how exactly are you successful
not that we wouldn't answer asked that question but that's not we're not
looking for the content because if you went and asked today Einstein if you
were still alive how did you become so smart well he could probably tell you
how he thinks he became so smart but he wouldn't actually know there's not a way
that you can actually know a lot of the things that you are able to do well or
even the things that you're not able to do well they sort of just happened and
then in retrospect we can go back and say well I think this is why or this you
know this happened but what we do in NLP is we go to the structure we go - well
what's actually happening what is the sensory input that you're getting and
how is that sensory input categorize how - how is that sensory input selected or
how is it interpreted that's how we're looking at the world and how we're
looking at a person's experience is what is that structure that creates that it
can only be based in sensory based experience because we're not going into
the content the why the the the reasons we think that these things have occurred
we're going to the structure of them so to summarize this first understanding
just know that your experience of your life is subjective the good part about
that is that your life is not unchanging you can change your life by
understanding how you're structuring it internally which is mostly unconscious
so when you really understand that your life your experience of your life and
you are all in a subjective experience then just from that understanding alone
you become more flexible you become more malleable now all you need to learn is
how this structure works there are many parts to the structure and again all of
this that I'm talking about all of these points that I'm talking about can be
expanded into entire trainings on their own but we're going to
we're gonna keep to the larger chunks the broader strokes and that's why I
want to talk about beliefs beliefs are the most powerful filters that you have
in your life because what you believe then tends to create your life
experience and what you believe about yourself is has the greatest effect on
what creates your reality so what I'm pointing at is your sense of self your
self-concept now you can have beliefs about the world and the limitation you
can have limiting beliefs about the world and yes that will affect you but
your limiting beliefs are your empowering beliefs about yourself are
going to have the greatest effect on your entire life within LP we learn how
we create these structures that we call beliefs we often refer to them in NLP as
generalizations so when you understand how you create generalizations
especially the ones you make about yourself then you can change it so yes
you can literally change yourself in moments by understanding how you create
the beliefs you have about yourself and changing them so of course we want to
take limiting beliefs and change them into empowering beliefs especially at
the direction of what it is that we desire or whatever it is that we
envision about what we want our life to be like so when you understand all of
this which is a lot here what I'm talking about it's eliciting your values
around what you want and then it's understanding what do you believe about
that but more importantly what do you believe about yourself because what you
believe about yourself like I said has the greatest effect on what you
experience in your reality so understand that and then your life can really
change when you start changing these beliefs so to summarize what NLP
actually is it's about learning that structure of your experience that
subjective structure and we do that through language we do that through the
five senses and we do that through understanding the beliefs that we create
about ourselves and about the world which we also call generalize a
and all of this is what we're discovering is how we internally
represent reality because your sense of reality like I said earlier in the video
is not based on objectivity it's based on you taking all of this information
that's coming in from around you through your five senses and internally
representing it and how that process happens that's the structure that I'm
talking about and yes through learning NLP you absolutely can understand how
that structure is created and you can change it one of the things that I like
about NLP the most is that it's not a Dogma it's not it's not there to tell
you how to live your life or what's the right way to do things
all it's there to do is to help you understand how you're creating your life
experience understand that structure so then you can change it at will and
ultimately create the experiences in life that you want to experience and
I'll go even further than that to create the overall life experience you want to
experience which is how do I want to experience myself and how do I want to
experience the world around me and it's a beautiful process because it never
quite ends the more you learn the more you change things the more you improve
your life the more potential you see to do that and NLP has the the tools work
consistently no matter where you are in your life no matter how down you are or
how successful you are NLP tools continue to work and I've been
doing this for several years now so a prime example but I'm not the only one
there are several people in this world who just continue to use NLP tools to
improve their lives the experience of life that you want to live so now you
know some basic understandings of NLP but what you don't know is how to
directly apply it in your life I was talking in very broad strokes and and
generalizations so if you want to go deeper with this I've created a
four-part video series where I go more in depth about direct applications using
NLP and you can get this free training by going to the description right down
below you'll see a link you can click on that link and then also I put a link in
the a comments section right down there is
the pen comment so just click on that link and you'll get immediate access to
the first video and then it'll be followed by a video every single day for
the next few days so what are you going to do now with these understandings
these understandings are rather universal and you can just go deeper and
deeper with them and again they are basic understandings but like I said you
there is no into the depths of going into this you can continue to explore
your life and yourself throughout your entire life and in the process and prove
it every step of the way so what are you going to do now let me know in the
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