hello its mark here from making yours
and I recently acquired some survey
statistics from online dating platform
zoosk
and these statistics they showed the
number one thing men are looking for in
your profile online that's what I'm
going to reveal to you next all right so
this recently did a survey from one of
their major products online and they
found the number one thing that men are
looking for in your online dating
profile now a caring nature was
important sense of humor was important
positivity was important as well but the
one thing they really found that stood
out the men are looking for is fun and
so I thought what I do in this video
today is show you how you can make your
profile fun by giving you seven tips on
making your profiles stand out to men
and making you sound super super fun the
first one is simply this have a great
opening line first impressions matter a
lot in real life and they matter just as
much online so you want to start your
profile off with a bang my life is like
a Broadway spectacular it's exciting and
slowed down at times but it's always
good fun hanging it all with me is like
a good game of footy unpredictable can
get messy but always a great time my
personality is like a good mixtape
spontaneous sometimes / energetic but
you still can't help but smile when you
start your profile with a killer opening
line you already give the impression of
how much fun you're going to be number
to show you're down to earth everyone
likes to say they're down-to-earth and
down-to-earth is a great thing to have
because we know that people who are
down-to-earth are fun to hang out with
but everyone says they're down-to-earth
it's not believable if you just say it
you want to show that you're
down-to-earth by giving examples and one
of the best ways to do this is to make
playful fun of yourself my cooking
abilities lack some diversity but it's
bad for more finely cut apples anything
this girl has you covered I'm in
architecture nerd at heart and dance a
little a lot when I see Latvian art deco
of the 20 I love arcade games but
unfortunately suck at
so if you let me win without me knowing
I'll know you're a special kind of man
you can also dress up something you have
that you might think is boring and
presented in a fun way I'm an accountant
by profession but I promise I'm still
fun though it is designed that really
has my heart
number three contrast statements this is
where you take something that's kind of
weird about you that your friends think
is very strange about you and you put it
into one sentence by contrasting the two
aspects of your personality that don't
really make sense together I love books
but I seem to have an adversity to
reading I love lying but he hates I've
got no fear of public speaking but
asking the airhostess for a second
biscuit on a plane scares the bejesus
out of me number four don't say what you
don't want it's really tempting online
if you've had some bad experiences to
make statements like these
don't bother messaging if you're only
after one thing if you're less than six
foot tall don't waste both of our time
tired of guys who can't call a woman and
don't know how to be a gentleman
the problem is imagine if a guy made
statements like these don't bother
messaging me if you're not ugly
please be able to hold a conversation
cannot deal with any more bimbos tired
of women who think the man has to do
everything it doesn't exactly make you
want to message him does it make sure
you keep out of your profile anything
that says what you don't want it does
not make you seem like fun to hang out
with number five add some fun goals so
remember men want to become part of your
exciting life if you can make your life
life with you seem more exciting for him
than his single life he is going to want
to commit like that put some fun goals
into your profile that you're excited
for and show how passionate you are for
them currently planning a trip to Morton
Islands but in the longer term it trip
to Milan in Italy to explore my heritage
is a dream I can't
wait to make a reality hunt to be
preparing for my next big growing
adventure I can't wait to be back on the
banks of the Yarra being free on the
water is my idea of heaven I'm looking
forward to competing in the Australian
titles in August but not before I
conquer my fear of sharks that
underwater world be soon
number six show gratefulness rather than
expectations so when I coach my clients
to create online dating profiles I
always make sure that they do a small
section at the end 25 to 30 percent of
their profile on what they're looking
for in a guy but you want to make sure
you phrase it as you will be grateful if
you find it not you're expecting it
imagine the difference if you write I'll
only date men who love what they do
verses there's nothing I find more
attractive than passion in one your
showing you expect it in another you're
showing that you're grateful for it take
these other examples you don't have to
be a chiseled model but I do value
health and would love to meet someone
who does too Earnestine kindness are way
sexier to me than a good job title love
a man who knows what he wants and has a
plan to get there both of those show
that you're appreciating and being
grateful for those traits when you find
them rather than saying you're expecting
them finally number seven is finish
strong just as you want to start strong
and make a great first impression you
want to finish strong as well say
something that makes you sound like a
lot of fun to hang out with and then
give a call to action tell the guy to
message you or invite him to take action
and contact you
massive brownie points if you know more
Simpsons quotes than me if you think you
have a chance about winning me and are
willing to have my beautiful dog sniff
you all over I'd love to hear from you
you'll definitely get a date if you can
beat me at a game of yappy if you're up
for some serious 5dos gambling or just
when I eat burritos as much as me make
sure you message bonus points if you'll
come to a burlesque show with me I've
never vane if you wouldn't mind an
adventure around LA and happy to lose it
arcade games to me I'd love to hear from
you well those are seven things you can
do to make your profile a ton of fun
remember read through your profile at
the end
if you can read it and say I found like
so much fun to hang out with then you
are doing a great job make sure you
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