Renee: If you're someone that is drawn to the magnetic strength and sexiness of a
strong woman then you will understand that that run-of-the-mill dating
protocol just won't work I'm talking about dating an alpha woman and in this
video I'm going to reveal to you the secrets on how to win her over handle
her strength and come out as the hero that she wants you to be hey everyone
I'm Renee slansky and welcome back to the attractive man channel
it's my job as your coach to help you become the best version of yourself so
that you can live and date confidently now I want to talk about our four women
because as an alpha woman myself and someone who coaches literally hundreds
of other alpha women I can testify that the secrets I'm about to reveal to you
in this video work but to clarify exactly what I mean by alpha woman I'm
not talking about a feminist I'm talking about a woman that has strengths but she
also is feminine and knows how to nurture basically someone who knows how
to lead and love at the same time she's someone that has that balance but still
stands out from the crowd so let's jump into those notes right now on how to
date and handle an alpha woman and promise me that you will stay to the end
because the last point is the most important out of all of them
tip number one initiate and communicate because we do not have time to waste on
trivial conversation the first thing that you need to know about as women is
that we are busy creatures we're busy building careers and companies pursuing
our dreams doing goals achieving a nice busy social life so if we're going to
set time aside to invest into a guy we want to know that he's not going to
waste our time and that he's going to be on the same page as us essentially as
alpha women we're looking for a man who adds value to our lives and the way that
he adds value to our life is he helps us become an even better version of
ourselves he communicates his feelings to us and he allows us to feel loved and
also give love back so if you have started a conversation with an alpha
woman can I just say this after a couple of back-and-forth
conversations ask her out and one of the most frustrating things I see as a coach
is my female clients who are majority of them after women come to me and they say
Renee it's so frustrating I'm talking to this guy and it's just not asking me out
so they assume that you aren't interested or they just go to another
guy who really is ready to ask them out show her that you do have some
confidence by initiating that conversation to ask her on a first date
you want to get offline and actually take her onto a real date or if you've
met her in real life you want to just initiate that first type of romantic
contact that you can have with her now the way that we do that is really simple
just start a conversation with hey what's your schedule like this week I
was wondering if you would like to catch up for a drink don't make it too blase
make it specific so that she can really see clearly that you actually want to go
on a date with her which brings me to the second point of this first point
there has to be clear communication because if you're really gray or
in-between or indecisive and it comes across in your text to us or your manner
towards us then we're just going to assume that you aren't on the same page
as us and that you're not really ready to have a relationship or at least get
to know us for what value we can bring so keep things really consistent and
transparent with her if you're busy say you're busy if you can't meet up with
her this night then offer another night be upfront and clear with her she
actually really appreciates your honesty because she's the sort of woman that is
able to handle the truth now before I jump into the next point
make sure you hit the subscribe button give us a big thumbs up and of course
put down below thanks Renee if this is helping you number two always be lady
don't allow us to become the leader what I mean by this is that a lot of the
times we as our four women have these natural leadership qualities within us
or we're put in leadership positions so it's this normal sort of behavior
that is built within us to just want to step in and take control for example we
might be the ones to open the door or pull out our own chair or order off the
menu it's
thing that we would just automatically do because we're used to just being
independent and looking after ourselves but just because she is doing that does
not give you the green light to just sit back and allow her to initiate and
control everything we want you to lead and we want to feel led by you so one of
the things that you can actually do in this sort of situation is if she goes to
pull out the chair for example or open the door lightly place your hand upon
her hand and say let me get that for you or that's my job to do that what you're
doing is you're not coming across aggressive or patronizing but rather
you're coming across as assertive and I guess in a gentleman sort of way showing
that you're ready to step up and be the man that she actually wants you to be
number three tell her no don't be a doormat to her an alpha woman will most
likely have a strong energy and opinion but the last thing that we want is a guy
that we can walk all over we don't want you to be a little puppy dog we want you
to make us feel weak at the knees but also be the one that is strong enough to
be able to lead us don't be afraid to disagree with her if you don't actually
agree with her you know I know that a lot of the time you guys want to impress
this sort of woman and sometimes an alpha woman can be a little bit
intimidating because you know she is a little bit special she's not your normal
type of woman that will just go along with the flow but you want to come
across as a man that still stands in your own strength and your own identity
and isn't actually afraid to say no to the woman in front of you now this
doesn't mean that you have to try and start conflict with her or starts fights
or purposely disagree with it last thing that you want to do is come again come
across as aggressive to her what you want to do is just be assertive in this
manner and stand in what you know to be your true opinion in whatever the
conversation is now if you are someone that really does actually struggle with
confidence and being able to say no to a woman or stand up to a woman or stand in
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above or in the description down below number four add some romance in because
we want to feel feminine just because we're strong women doesn't mean that we
don't want to feel feminine girly or giggly we actually are looking to be
romance and a lot of the time the reason why we choose to be with certain men
even as alpha women is because he makes us feel more of a woman than we've ever
felt before now wanting to be romanced by you guys doesn't mean that we expect
you to do ridiculous gestures like bias giant teddy bears and millions of roses
it's more about the thought behind the gesture or the gift now this might be
something as simple as remembering her favorite wine or organizing a picnic by
the sunset I think there's a lot of stereotyping that actually comes with
being an alpha woman and I could speak from experience where people put us in
this box that we are high maintenance or that they have to do all these crazy
things in order to be able to win us over and a lot of the times we already
feel that we have this sense of loneliness because we're different from
the others and we're set apart and we're not just running with the rest of the
crowd so if you really want to actually stand out to an alpha woman can I just
suggest that remember the little things about what she says and then act on them
you don't have to give us lots of expensive things and you don't have to
try and improve your status or your worth to us because at the end of the
day we just want a genuine guy who is ready to love us and make us feel loved
and allow us to love you back number five be organized with your dates
because the truth is we have higher standards now I don't want to mix higher
standards with high maintenance we aren't high maintenance because we've
got our own thing going on but we're not going to settle for the scraps and we
expect you to put some sort of effort in in order to be able to win us over and
the reason why is because we're ready to put effort into the right guy to really
make sure that we can bring value to him we want to know that we are a
priority not just an option so don't leave things to the last minute if you
have asked her out on a date then make sure that you're actually planning ahead
whether it is booking that restaurant because you know it is going to be busy
or putting that bottle of wine in the fridge so it's actually chilled before
she actually comes over again just the little things and the little to detail
can really make you come across as a man who is confident a man who is prepared
and a man that has a plan the truth is an alpha woman will always bring her
AGame to a date so she expects the same from you as well and number six she
wants you to be the hero even if she doesn't say it guys this is probably the
most important point out of all of them as an alpha woman we can come across
really strong and independent like we don't need no man but the truth is is
that we do need you and we actually want you even if we don't say it we want to
know that at the end of the day we can come home to a man who is there for us
and what happens with our for women is we're so used to doing things on our own
and having to handle everything else because everyone else comes to ask for
strength that we get exhausted and there's nothing more amazing than just
being able to lean on a guy and rest in his arms or his presence and know that
we can rely on him and I'll give you a typical example one of my clients is an
alpha woman and she is a multi-millionaire she's absolutely
gorgeous and she runs an incredibly successful business and she ended up
dating a guy who then proposed to her and married her who actually by status I
guess earned a lot less than her and worked for somebody else so if you were
to look at them you would think okay well are they actually really match
worthy the truth is I don't believe that status is a part of what makes someone
worthy for someone else it's more important about understanding what she
needs and my client being a really strong busy woman needed somebody who
was able to balance her out she needed someone who was able to be there for her
at the end of the day and give his perspective and give his love
and make her feel vulnerable and romanced and beautiful so that she could
really feel that she was still being that feminine woman that she craved to
be guys it is really simple you can be the hero in a really easy way you can
simply do things for her without her asking you to do them or you might say
to her would you like help with that or if you see her struggling
step in and take charge a simple way that you can come across as a hero to
her is by maybe taking her hand and leading her through the crowd so she
feels safe in your presence and led by you and that she can ultimately start to
trust you and be vulnerable around you well guys obviously this is just the tip
of the iceberg when it comes to knowing how to date a stronger alpha woman
because I really are one of a kind but they are a woman that is definitely
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this video helped you let me know put a thanks Renee down below in the comments
and until next time good luck dating your alpha woman and I will see you all
very soon bye for now