when it comes to manifesting and using the law of attraction i typically always say to follow what
feels right because everyone has their own beliefs their own mindset and their own subconscious
programming that determines what they're able to attract and although there is typically no wrong
or right way to manifest because manifesting is not a one-size-fits-all approach there are certain
components of manifesting that need to be done in a certain way for it to actually work so if you've
been struggling to manifest certain things or just struggling to manifest in general it's likely you
aren't using the right tools in the right way so be sure to pay close attention because in this
video you'll likely discover a certain piece to the puzzle that you may have been missing
and then everything can finally click for you and as an extra little bonus i'm gonna let you in on
a little secret on how to know the universe got your message or that your desire or intention was
made clear so that you aren't stuck sitting there wondering if it's working or if you did it right
there actually is a way to know for sure and i'll show you exactly how hello and welcome
back to my channel and if you're new here my name is mary kate and i'm a mindset coach manifesting
expert and founder of mkmagicmindset.com my whole channel is all about law of attraction
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let's get into it i honestly don't like using the terms right or wrong when it comes to manifesting
because whether you realize it or not you are always manifesting at all times like right now
and right now and right now and 10 minutes from now and an hour from now you're always manifesting
so you're not doing it right or wrong but what you're attracting is largely based on where your
focus is and where your feelings are at so does that mean that you need to be hyper focused on
the thing that you want and feeling completely amazing every second of every day absolutely
not no that is not normal and not natural and if you are trying to do that you are forcing
it you can't fake your feelings and when you are trying to force something you're blocking yourself
so allow yourself to let go and not try so hard when it comes to using the law of attraction and
manifesting feelings and focus play a huge role but here is one of the biggest things that people
miss most people miss the authentic connection to the thing that they want and what i mean by
authentic connection you can also think of this as the energetic frequency of that thing and the way
to get into that energetic frequency of that thing is to feel the feelings of having that thing not
in a forced way in a natural way like for example affirmations so many people are using them wrong
i know i hate using the term wrong or right but they're using them wrong without realizing it's
happening and honestly i feel passionate about this because this is something i used to do a
long time ago i used to be this person a long time ago do you ever feel like affirmations just don't
work for you because i used to feel that exact way i think even in one of my first videos i even
said that affirmations just weren't my thing they didn't work for me but it's because i wasn't using
them right it's not that they weren't working it's just that i wasn't forming an authentic
connection to them i wasn't connecting to the affirmations so in turn they were just blank words
they had no energy they had no feeling and they kind of just felt like a chore
that is not going to get you anywhere you need the authentic connection so the way to approach
affirmations is by grounding into and finding an affirmation that makes you feel something
words are just words until you feel something an affirmation that you can truly connect to on an
emotional level that's where you're gonna start seeing results and it's really important to note
that not every affirmation that you read or hear is going to be a great fit for you and that's okay
you are an individual own what works for you and what feels good to you every single thing
works differently for each person like i said manifesting is never a one-size-fits-all approach
and there's also another tool that i want to talk about that i see people misusing
and this will seriously block you from manifesting what you want so make sure you're not doing this
let's talk scripting scripting is a really popular law of attraction topic right now
and you'll probably read about or hear a lot of success stories from people using it but did you
know that scripting essentially it's just a tool to create the feelings and experience of having
the thing that you want it's not about you doing the scripting technique it's about creating an
experience for yourself so if you're just writing down your life how would be in present tense with
that thing that you are trying to manifest the whole goal is to create an experience for yourself
i know a lot of people who write out this elaborate story until their hand hurts of what
their life would look like if they had this thing that they want this thing that they're trying to
manifest but the whole time they're writing this they're feeling all of the reasons why
it's not real or they're trying to force a type of feeling that isn't coming up for them naturally
or they're writing just to write but if you're writing out something and it's not creating the
experience for you then you need to find a new way in maybe scripting isn't the right technique for
you you need to find a way to connect connection is key to manifesting maybe try visualizing
try meditating try journaling try doing something physical getting physical is a great way to
get out of your head and into your body and emotionally and physically connect do what you
need to do to create the feelings and experience for yourself of having the thing that you want
how do you connect this is something that i am so unbelievably passionate about and
this is exactly what i teach inside of my signature course abundance academy i
show you different techniques that will work best for you based on your learning type and
personality manifesting is not a one-size-fits-all approach so many people stay stuck because they're
using techniques that they aren't connecting to and that don't work for them and when you
continue to do that over and over again you'll stay stuck in a cycle of trying and repeating
over and over and over and over again until you finally just feel like giving up
so break the pattern and find what makes you feel most connected what creates the experience for you
and the last thing i quickly want to talk about is the secret to knowing that the universe got your
intention loud and clear so that you're not stuck sitting there waiting wondering if it hurt you if
you need to say it again if you need to keep asking like when to let go all of that this is
how you know for sure so here's the trick that i want to share with you it's less about asking and
more about being for everything in life what you expect is what you will attract how you are being
determines what's happening around you it's easy to get hyper focused on the external all of the
things going on around you in your day-to-day life and when you get intensely focused on the external
you start to fall victim to this thinking that you need to ask for permission from something outside
of yourself when the power really is within you you don't need to keep asking asking asking
start being start knowing start deciding that is the real secret that is where the magic happens
and it's one of those things that probably won't come naturally at first but once you start doing
this it will all start to fall into place for you start being start knowing start trusting
stop looking for things outside of yourself it all starts within you and in the spirit of choosing to
see things differently and deciding to focus on an alternate possibility i wanted to follow up on
something i shared a few videos ago um if you've been watching for a while you probably know that
i mentioned that i wanted to take a class um on growing indoor plants so this is probably going
to sound really random but i swear it all ties in because i have bought and attempted to grow
and nurture endless indoor plants and it's formed this belief that i'm just like a plant killer and
that i'm just not destined to have indoor plants i'm just gonna have to be stuck with the fake ones
that was a belief that i formed through trial and error of trying to grow my own indoor plants
and the frustrating thing is i've read so many articles and studies on how beneficial
having indoor plants are and i've always wanted to incorporate them into my space
so i decided to see things differently and i just took this class on skillshare called
plants at home uplift your spirit and your space by christopher griffin and i feel so unbelievably
confident right now in my ability to grow an indoor plant i'm gonna become an indoor plant
person i'm going to experience the magic that everybody talks about of growing indoor plants
he went into so much detail about the benefits of plants understanding what the plant's roots
and leaves are showing and he even shares his own plant fails so it's very inspiring that you
know if he can do it you can do it and it makes it in this really accessible way surprisingly
there's also kind of self-care and community tied in and i truly loved it so like i said
before this class was on skillshare and i wanted to thank skillshare for sponsoring today's video
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