What are the changes that J Lo has made after dating Ben Affleck for the second time?
And what changes has he made? As you know, Jen and Ben have
struggled with their romance before and after they got a second chance in love,
Jennifer had to make rules for Ben to follow to keep their romance igniting!
Stay tuned to know these rules. Changes Jennifer made:
J-Lo has taken another step on social media to express how much she feels for Ben,
after declaring their relationship official on Instagram on her birthday.
All traces of her previous fiancé Alex Rodriguez has been removed from the Let's Get Loud singer's
Instagram account. Jennifer has unfollowed A-Rod and deleted all photos of the ex-couple together,
including photos from Joe Biden's inauguration. Jennifer and Alex started dating in 2017
and got engaged in March of this year. Due to the epidemic, the pair had to postpone
their 2020 wedding, which they had planned to tie the knot in an Italian ceremony last June.
They subsequently announced their separation in April this year, after previously denying divorce
rumors that had been spreading in the media. They finally made the announcement via a joint
statement: "We have realized we are better as friends and look forward to remaining so.
We will continue to work together and support each other on our shared businesses and projects.
We wish the best for each other and one another's children. Out of respect for them,
the only other comment we have to say is thank you to everyone who has sent kind words and support."
Last year, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck astonished their fans by rekindling their affair.
The happy couple has been inseparable since.
In fact, there are rumors that Affleck will propose to Lopez in the near future.
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's relationship isn't all it seems, according to the Globe,
which published an article on February 7th. After all, relations between the
A-listers have been improving since the Marry Me actress threatened her lover.
Ben tries not to blow it this time: According to an unnamed insider,
Affleck has been on his best behavior since Lopez threatened to drop him if he didn't change.
"The idea of this relationship is that Ben, not Jennifer, is getting a second chance, and Ben
better not blow it." He's been on his best behavior so far. He doesn't think any longer,
and he's in the best form he's been in in years," the unnamed insider claimed.
During his three years with Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck was not immune to adultery suspicions.
Affleck was accused of cheating on his then-fiancée soon before they were to walk down
the aisle during the first round of Bennifer. According to the Daily Mail, a stripper
named Tammy Morris claimed to the National Enquirer in 2003
that she spent the night with Affleck and "three other lap dancers" after meeting them at a Bar.
"It's a night I'll never forget and I'm sure one he'll want to forget,"
Morris said of their supposed interaction. However, one of the dancers named in the
original report went on to sue the publication for insinuating she got intimate with Affleck
and accused Morris of lying (per Entertainment Weekly).
Similarly, Affleck has never confirmed the alleged adultery, and the two have always
maintained that their breakup was due to too much attention and public scrutiny. "We didn't try to
have a public relationship. We just happened to be together at the birth of the tabloids...
It was just a lot of pressure," In 2016, Lopez told People magazine. When they were together,
she thought Affleck was the one, but she added cryptically, "Sometimes I feel like what you think
people are and how you see them when you love them is different than when they reveal later."
Lucky people get second chances: "I can say that it's definitely beautiful
to me. And, you know, one of the things I really value across all facets of my life
now is that it was handled in a way that reflected that," he said. "My life now reflects not just the
person that I want to be, but the person that I really feel like I am -- which is not perfect,
but somebody who tries very hard and cares very much about being honest and authentic
and accountable. It's hard to say who benefits more, without going into gossipy detail."
He added: "I could just say that I feel great about being very healthy. And it is a
good story. It's a great story. And, you know, maybe one day I'll tell it. I'll write it all
out. [Pauses] And then I'll light it on fire.” Affleck tells himself that second chances are a
gift in any form, adding, "I am very lucky in my life in that I have benefited from second chances,
and I am aware that other people don't even get first chances."
"I've had second chances in my career. I've had second chances as a human being.
Life is difficult, and we are always failing and hopefully learning from those failures," he says.
"The one thing you really need to avail yourself of the opportunities provided from that growth
is the second chance. I've definitely tried to take advantage of that. I haven't always
been successful, but in cases in which I have, they've turned out to be the defining aspects of
my life. But tell your wife to imagine the best story, and I'm sure that's the true version."
Rules to keep on dating Jennifer: Working out is one of the things
Affleck has been accustomed to. Even though the Batman v Superman star despises getting up
early in the morning to go to the gym, he has learned to like it because of his girlfriend.
“They begin at dawn with a sweaty workout and she’s got him loading up on vitamins and
a healthy diet plan, and the results show. He looks great and he’s happier than he’s been in
years. The key is Ben isn’t being a stubborn jerk the way he was during their first relationship.
He just can’t afford to go off the rails right now when there’s so much excitement
and goodwill around this revived romance,” the unnamed source said.
According to the unnamed insider, Lopez and Affleck's relationship was on the verge of ending
when the actor received outrage for comments he made about his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner.
Since then, the father of three is said to have decided to keep things to
himself in order to avoid upsetting Lopez. "Jennifer has set the rules for Ben:
no drinking, no partying, and certainly no strip joints, and Ben is as obedient as a puppy dog.
"She's shaping him into the man she always knew he could be, and he clearly enjoys
it," the anonymous source stated. This time the lessons are learned
Lopez surprisingly revealed some secrets about her connection with Affleck during an interview
with The New York Times. And her revelations show that paradise isn't that bad after all.
While Lopez was being interviewed, Affleck reportedly entered the room to say hello
to his girlfriend. After he left, Lopez discussed how different her relationship with
Affleck is now than it was when they first met. One of the most important lessons she learned,
she said, was to hold things sacred.“You have to do what feels good to you all the time. But at
the same time, you learn from the past, you do things better the second time. There’s a
part of it that, yes, we’re together. But there’s a part of it that’s not, you know,
being so open the way we were when we were so young and in love many years ago,” Lopez said.
Lopez is still a hopeless romantic, despite her failed romances with Marc Anthony,
Alex Rodriguez, and others. She also confessed that she doesn't
hold grudges against herself for what she did and didn't do.
“You can’t live life and think that things are just mistakes: I just messed up there, I messed up
there. No, it’s all lessons. It’s really what can you extrapolate from it that is going to help you
grow and go to the next level of understanding yourself, finding yourself and being able to
be at peace with your life, at peace with who you are,” Lopez explained.
What do you think of Jennifer’s Philosophy about learning life lessons?
Were those rules necessary to keep her relationship with Ben? Let us know your thoughts.