Hello, everyone. I'm Mrs. Entertainment
Welcome to join me in the entertainment news
Thank you for watching and subscribing
For thousands of years, the Chinese people have had a deep obsession with giving birth to sons
Such as Gigi Lai, the goddess of beauty
In January 2009, she married Ma Tingqiang, a disabled Hong Kong billionaire
They married and had three daughters
In order to seek the son
At the beginning of 2017
She changed her Chinese name to Malijiaer（add a son）
It reminds me of those names of girls with Di
Take Cathy Tsui, a rich and powerful woman
After she married Martin Lee, she had two daughters in succession
At the time of the third child
Her father-in-law, Lee Shau-kee, made no secret of his wish to have a son
Even when he get what he wants
But she went on to have her fourth child
And she plans to have a fifth child
In fact, these people want a son's heart although a little pedantic
But at least it's both men and women are agreed
There's nothing for outsiders to say
But like Alan Tam and his wife agreed to dink.
But it is inconsiderate of him to have children with his mistress in his old age
Speaking of Alan Tam
I have to mention the Hong Kong music scene in the 1980s
At that time, Hong Kong pop music was in the ascendent
Many pop stars have emerged
Samuel Hui, George Lam, Danny Chen， Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung
And Anita Mui were one of the most famous artists of this period
Under the stars
It was not only the heyday of Hong Kong's music scene
More caused a hundred schools of thought to contend for fierce competition
The fiercest competitors are Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung
Behind them
It's not just record companies chasing each other for profit
And every now and then a fan war breaks out
The fans were at each other's throats for a split
Not only did they fight for each other
In severe cases, it even escalates into physical conflict
The struggle ended when Alan Tam announced that he would no longer receive a competitive award (in 1987)
And Leslie Cheung took a break from the music industry
But the most intriguing thing is that Leslie Cheung and Alan Tam are the two behind the fans' brawl
Leslie Cheung once said in "Listen to Me"
Alan Tam is a friend
And Alan Tam add a"good" in front of the friend
Regardless of their relationship
At least it's not as terrible as fans might think
Just two men who fought for supremacy decades ago
It has a very different reputation
Leslie cheung became the perfect brother that countless people miss
Alan Tam, however, became a man reviled for cheating on women's affections
Alan Tam, 24, 1974
He met a beautiful woman called Shirly Yang when he was singing in a nightclub
After a few conversations, Alan Tam found out
The girl is not only pretty
And very thoughtful
She can't be too cute
And Shirly also felt that this man was not only handsome
And also has dream, he just too special
So two people you look at me and I look at you
The little lightning between their eyes
It wasn't long before the two began dating in secret
At The time, Alan Tam had just formed The Wynners with Kenny Bee, Anthony Chan, Bennett Pang and Danny Yip
He was still a nobody in show business, and his career was just getting off the ground
Compared with Alan Tam, whose future is murky
Shirly is about having a decent and stable job
At the moment she is working as a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company
With good aesthetic and fashion
She has her own unique views on image design
But after dating with Alan Tam
She gave up her job with all the heart
Be the woman behind Alan Tam
And she was done perfectly
In line with Alan Tam's career development and to fulfill his musical dream
So she took a refresher course in light scheduling, choreography, choreography and other stage knowledge
She turns into an art curator
In order not to affect Alan Tam's future career development
She kept a low profile all along
Although the two have been together for years
But he hasn't made it public
The young couple, one stood in front of a platform
One plays behind the scenes, they work with each other
To make Alan Tam's career very exciting
Later The Wynners broke up
After solo, Alan tam went to Taiwan for development
He released his first Cantonese-language album, "Anti-Star"
He won a golden record award for it
In 1981, Alan Tam released his third Cantonese-language album, Never Forget You, which went four platinum
Alan Tam has become a hot a-list singer
It was also in this year that Alan Tam and Shirly get married in secret in Las Vegas, USA
Naturally, Alan Tam, who is at the top of his game, is unlikely to announce his marriage
As a result, millions of his fans don't even know their idol is married
In this way they have been married and hidden for more than ten years
Until Shirly's father died in 1993
It was announced in the traditional obituary
Son in law-Alan Tam
The couple's relationship was revealed to the world
From 1974 to 1993
Shirly gambled on her youth
Silently with Alan Tam
From a nobody to a superstar
Nearly 20 years of forbearance and sacrifice
It shows her deep love for Alan Tam
Not only that, the Hong Kong media also reported
Alan Tam for better enjoyment of life
He also made an appointment with his wife to have Dink
Eventually Shirly had multiple abortions and leads to infertility
It is because they have never had children
Give Shirly a series of misfortunes to face later
In a fan meeting
Alan Tam met Wendy Zhu, a fan who is nearly 20 years younger than himself
So he started cheating on his wife with his little fans
The two started off by phone
And then it goes to emotional communication
Communicate and communicate
He got her pregnant
Alan Tam discusses with his lover
They decided to have the baby
At that time, after all, Alan Tam was well over 40 years old
Successful in business and rich in wealth
A good wife on the table and a beauty in darkness
The only drawback in life is the lack of a son
Zhu gave birth to a son for Tam in 1996
Then Alan Tam knew
He can't keep his own dirty affair any longer
So he confessed to his wife
The news came as a shock to Shirly
For more than 20 years, she has devoted herself to Alan Tam
She didn't live for herself
But her husband has unlocked a whole new world for another woman
And then he had an illegitimate child
This amounts to a wholesale denial of her entire life
But the die is cast
Shirly has been dedicated to the Buddha and felt that God's will is hard to violate
So as not to deprive an infant of his father's love
In order not to put Alan Tam in a bind
So she chose to swallow and accept the fact
To appreciate his wife's understanding
So Tan respected her everywhere
And gave her control of the family finances
In this way, Alan Tam has lived a monogamous life
One is sitting in his house and taking care of his money. The other is living outside and taking care of her husband and children
Both women have known about each other for a long time
But because is each has never had the intersection
Out of sight, out of mind
This harmony lasted for a decade or so
During this period, Alan Tam enjoyed the happiness of two wives
Shirly has lived through the loneliness and the pain of being let down
But at least she is the only wife Mr Tam has publicly admitted
There was some comfort in the fact that she still held the family purse in her hands
And this little comfort is all her nostalgia for the world of mortals
Unfortunately, Alan Tam did not even leave her nostalgia
His father died of illness in 2006
To give mistress Wendy and illegitimate son Tan Xiaofeng a identity
He disregarded his personal reputation
Openly acknowledged their existence
Wendy's name also appeared in his father's obituary
Why does Alan Tam dare to do this？
Why would him do that？
This is undoubtedly accepted and even supported by the family
Alan Tam was born in Hong Kong in August 1950
He has two older sisters and three younger sisters
He is the only boy in the family
And his son is arguably the only descendant of the Tan family
How could a grandfather die without a grandson
And the woman who gave birth to this grandson, naturally, it also rises to the surface
An invisible mistress attended her father-in-law's funeral
This is a serious threat Shirly's status in Tan family
Not only that, but Alan Tam, who loves his son dearly
He began gradually transferring personal property to his son
He had also taken away the last sense of security held by Shirly
He even went so far as to say publicly
I have nothing but kindness for Shirly
I will deal with my personal marital problems as soon as possible
At this time Shrily really realized that her husband had been snatched away by others
And she was the extra outsider
The desires of a lifetime are suddenly empty
The love of her life is others
Shirly is increasingly seeing the world and upholding the Buddha
Finally, she moved to Chi Lian Ching Court in Diamond Hill, Hong Kong
With Shirly's give up
Alan Tam and Wendy and their son are growing closer
Infidelity, mistresses, these things have completely stopped him from enjoying his family
The winter solstice in 2007
Alan Tam openly took Wendy, their son and his old mother to Causeway Bay for dinner
Three generations live in a happy family
In November 2008
Hong Kong media came about Shirly shaved her hair for be a nun
Her withdrawal is no doubt the end of a heart disease Tam
Let him breathe a sigh of relief
Enjoy his family down to earth
At his 61st birthday party in 2011
Married his lover, Wendy
His son, Tan Xiaofeng is not a illegitimate child anymore
So far in name or in fact
More than 30 years of marriage between him and his first wife have come to an end
For all the Tan family
This is undoubtedly the best outcome
But behind all the laughter
Shirly is in the shade
With her hopeless heart
So that's it for today's video
If you enjoy this videos
Welcome to thumb up, to share, and to subscribe
See you next time